MrsBlackBlowupDoll
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I think after a divorce, a common response is to feel the need to seize the moment of life and do the things you feared too much to risk before. For many men this list will (obviously, given social attitudes,) include such strong taboos as gender roles and homosexual contact and some will feel emboldened enough or liberated enough to try it out.
A second factor might have to do with fetishizing of fears. Divorce for men can sometimes be traumatic, or touch on earlier trauma, as relates to ideals and conventions of masculinity. If your definition of "being a man" is very bound-up in ideas of "keeping your woman," or "being head of the family," or in whatever sense a husband and/or man, the pain of divorce may leave your brain with the need to tame your fears of not being masculine enough by eroticizing them. Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.
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MrsBlackBlowupDoll
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ruinedhub4u: @MrsBlackBlowupDoll... ???? I'm sorry, I don't get your point... Kittensucker: Losing a woman crashes the testosterone level leading to more submissive behavior. An excellent point. Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.
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