Forum request: Divorce/Ex-wife cuckolding?

I have a couple requests for forums I was wondering if I could get the site owners and members take on. I decided to break them up into two treads for ease of conversation.

For this thread I'd like to suggest the idea of a forum for ex-wife/divorce cuckolding. I'm not the first too say that her leaving her husband for her lover would be the ultimate form of cuckolding and with a sub forum that would create a central place to promote the concept for cuckoldresses and cuckolds to explore the idea as well as general discussion.

Thoughts? Ideas?

Possibly another winner.

lol thanks Johnnycab. Hopefully others (esp the site owners) feel the same way.

I'm for it, my bitch will be divorcing me for her bull, she not only cucked me but left for that big cock bull, ladyfucker.....
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32 votes "yes" in 3 days

No it's not just you. I don't get this either.

Well I assumed the bulk of the posts would be from cuckold couples who discuss divorce (as a fetish or as a progression of the relationship) or post divorce stuff where there was still some sort of interaction between the ex-wife and ex-husband.

Having her new man rubbed in his face dropping off alimony payments, seeing the two of them around town enjoying themselves, hearing about it from mutual friends.

I'd guess that most divorced couples have some interaction of some sort even outside of cuckolding. The difference with this is that there's just a cuckold dynamic for the marriage and former marriage.

sosniagara

Excellent idea for a thread!

Usually, discussions about divorce have a tendency to increase in frequency and intensity; often resulting in separation and/or divorce becoming a reality. Divorce talk is never conductive to the health of any marriage. Eventually it may snowball to the point that both parties start believing that divorce is the only real answer.

When wifey walks out then the fun begins. Hubby loses all control and say in all aspects of wifey's social and sexual life. This often overwhelms hubby with intense sexual angst once he realizes wifey is free to replace him and his kinky obsessions with a real man.

A divorce/ex-wife scene often brings out sissy or homosexual or kink lusts in hubby because he knows wifey humiliated and "castrated" his pathetic sexuality by walking out of his life. And replacing him with a real man who suffers none of this "sillyness".

It would be great to have a forum where cuckolds can discuss how incredibly intense divorce/ Ex wife's sexual freedoms can excite them.

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She could keep the key to his CB and still control over HIS sex life even after divorce.

New release dates - anniversaries of the first time She made a cuck out of him and the divorce became final or got filed, which ever works out best for approx six months separation.

This could be very hot. To have my wife come in from a date and say " I may have just met the man I will finally divorce you for" would be the start of a lot of very erotic discussions. She could watch me jerk off as she told me how close she was to serving me with the divorce papers. She could film all these sessions to take me to the cleaners in court. Etc.

My ex-wife is NOT cuckolding me, Im a cuck to my current wife. But I can agree to the voters, a slavecontract, blackmailing, moneyslavery is something that should be a part of a divorce. The ex-man should be used for asslicking, asscleaning, pissing-toilet, and all other kinds of offense. Sending a pic of exwifes asshole.

I don't know if this needs its own forum, even though I am an "ex-wife cuck" - if such a thing exists. My ex-Japanese wife loves to contact me from Tokyo if she lands a big stud or if something unusual comes up - like getting into a mff 3-some a few weeks back. Whatever guys she has in her life - I am still the one she likes to tell it all to.

My ex-wife fucks different guys, but none of those guys knows the full story of what she gets up to. The permister she tells it all to is me - because it turns us both on to do so. Does that make me a single guy with homosexual fantasies?

I love this forum possibility. My name says it all. I lost my wife to a black man who is a total Alpha stud. They look so good together and are so right for each other. She flat out toldl me that I couldn't get the job done and that she thought that I always sucked in bed.

Hearing stories like this would be great. I'm all for adding a new forum under this topic.

When should the new forum be added

+1 I'd say the support for this is *very* strong and


and I'd be very into hearing more stories about this as well. Including yours if you'd be into sharing?

Ahhhh. My ex gets to inspect my house to make sure its safe for the kids as art of the divorce decree she has a key and can inspect at anytime. She has access to my computer and passwords. Goes through my desk and. Closets etc to make sure the kids are not exposed to any kinky stuff by me.......if she finds something she removes it or deletes it and I may lose a weekend visitation at her whim.......usuay she wants the free time for her new man and is just very hay to drop them
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txrocktom, What all does she look for? She make you have the house perfectly clean at all times? How often does she stop by to check the house?

I have been divorced for 4 years,

[i]Excellent idea for a thread!

Usually, discussions about divorce have a tendency to increase in frequency and intensity; often resulting in separation and/or divorce becoming a reality. Divorce talk is never conductive to the health of any marriage. Eventually it may snowball to the point that both parties start believing that divorce is the only real answer.

[u]When wifey walks out then the fun begins. Hubby loses all control and say in all aspects of wifey's social and sexual life. This often overwhelms hubby with intense sexual angst once he realizes wifey is free to replace him and his kinky obsessions with a real man.

A divorce/ex-wife scene often brings out sissy or homosexual or kink lusts in hubby because he knows wifey humiliated and "castrated" his pathetic sexuality by walking out of his life. And replacing him with a real man who suffers none of this "sillyness".

It would be great to have a forum where cuckolds can discuss how incredibly intense divorce/ Ex wife's sexual freedoms can excite them. [/u][/i]

I support this new forum idea 100%! I totally agree that if and when a cuckoldress leaves for a real man, that is entirely normal and right! The ex-wife and her real man have their dreams of a happy, normal home life fulfilled, and the groveling cuck should honor, understand, and celebrate that! Then every day he lives without her is a necessary reminder of his place. It will hopefully deter him from thinking he was ever anything other than a pathetic doormat she met once in her past. It is good and healthy for her to move on and pursue what she really wants.

In reality it is a frame of mind.

txrocktom
You are in Texas? I am a Texas family law attorney, and I've never heard of such a thing! If there is litigation pending, and one side suspects some discoverable evidence exists on someone's property, he or she can file a motion for an inspection of the property, which the judge can grant or deny. This is part of the discovery process. But I've NEVER heard of a case where a decree grants someone the right to have a key to the other parent's residence or the right to inspect anytime. If this is true, I must wonder, what was your lawyer thinking?

TXPerv

Thank you for suggesting 'Divorce/Ex-wife cuckolding' as a new section of the forum...I fantasise about this scenario constantly and hope this section/thread gets going so I can read about other people's experiences.

About 15 years ago I experienced something like this and wished now that I had taken it much further than I did at the time. I had been married to Jane (name changed) for 10 years. Jane is 4 years younger than me; she has always been a little chubby with large breasts, blonde hair, 5ft 8 and a slightly dominant permisterality. I am average build, 5ft 9 with a 5 inch cock and quite submissive in nature. After having youngren our sex life started to dwindle to a point where we had sex about once a month despite me asking (and often begging) for more. She would never give me a blow job and if she allowed me to have sex it would last about 2 or 3 minutes until I came (she only had an orgasm on my tongue).

During the final year of our marriage Jane completely cut me off from sex and we rowed most days; it was obvious that things had to change and Jane took charge of this. I remember clearly the day when she asked me to sit down to "talk about something serious". Jane told me that she wanted a divorce! It hit me like a hammer blow... I cried and begged her to reconsider, but she was adamant and started divorce proceedings (there was no other man involved). I moved out into a small flat... always hoping that Jane would change her mind and let me return home. I guess that my submissive side grew at this time; I masturbated daily with thoughts of Jane dating other men and moving on with her life. I would have done anything for her and I think she knew it!

At first I visited 'her' house to babysit the youngren during the evening when she went out (my flat was too small). Her dominance over me grew slowly. It started in small ways; she returned from an evening out and complained that I hadn't washed the dishes, which she demanded I did before I went home. Over the subsequent weeks she increased her demands and after a few months I had a list of housework to do during my visits. Thinking back Jane knew that I adored her and exploited this willingly (I loved every minute also). I visited her house 2 or 3 evenings a week and most of Sunday. I carried out all the laundry and ironing, cleaned the bathroom and kitchen, dusted, cleaned up etc and on Sunday's cleaned windows, mowed the lawn, washed her car etc.

After a few months Jane met a man called Paul through a friend. The first time I met him was quite humiliating; friends talk and he was aware of my role in Jane's life. I arrived at Jane's to carry out my usual duties and he and Jane were sitting in the kitchen. Jane introduced me; I put out my hand to shake his but he blanked me and with a smile on his face put his arm around Jane. Paul didn't move in with Jane for about 6 months. During this time Jane's behaviour changed and she appeared to relish my situation even more. She asked me to carry out some humiliating tasks; on a number of occasions I washed Paul's car, polished his shoes and washed and ironed his clothes. Sometimes Jane would return home alone from one of their dates (Paul went to his own house as he had to get up early for work)... she would tease me and refer to me as her little slave. She told me that Paul's cock was bigger than mine (about 7 inches long and much thicker) and how she enjoyed giving him blow jobs. She even told me that she took his cock in her ass.

After Paul moved in my role in the house reduced a little. I continued to babysit and do housework but not as often. This was the time, however, that things became hottest on a few amazing occasions. Paul sometimes had to work on a Sunday, which meant that I arrived to pick up the youngren whilst Jane was alone. She would call me into her bedroom to tell me that she and Paul had just had sex and that she was "messy" between her legs. My heart pounded and I would just crawl onto the bed and lick her pussy as clean as I could make it... it surprised me that I didn't gag or find the taste of Paul's cum repulsive... the situation completely overwhelmed me. This happened maybe 20 times in total before Paul got a new job out of the area and they moved away... I no longer went into their new house but instead just picked the youngren up at the door to take them out.

The above describes an amazing time of my life. As I sit here writing this I am reflecting on what might have been. I wish now that I had talked to Jane and Paul about doing even more for them and following them to their new home to be their housemaid. Paul is a bigger/stronger man than me and once told me he would give me a beating if I ever missed a payment to Jane... I wished I had been made to call him 'Sir' and had taken that beating from him... or been utterly humiliated by being made to suck his cock in front of Jane.

I hope you enjoyed reading this.

Thank you Trebor. Wonderful story.
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

Just wanted to see if this is closer to become a category ?

When my wife and I got back together when we were separated, I loved the stories of her fucking while we were apart. She had one buddy that was after her to go bareback but unfortunately she stopped seeing him one we got back together.

I understand and respect your perspective and the friendly non-judgemental way you've shared it, but I really can't agree. Let me try a friendly and well-meaning attempt at addressing your concerns:

1. Yes, technically if the wife has left him, the guy is no longer being "cuckolded." But technically, an unmarried man can't be cuckolded. (Indeed, technically no one who is really into it is a cuckold either.) So let's not get technical.

2. Most divorced people continue to be involved in some way with their exes lives (especially if there are kids), so the assumption that the divorce is a final break seems off-target. (Indeed the stats on people who have had sex with their exes is pretty high.)

3. Even if the break is total and final, the emotional involvement can continue for sometime. Your earlier analogy to a woman who you are hot for but never even dated just doesn't wash for me. A divorced man exchanged vows with his ex of the "death do us part" variety. They shared a life and a social identity. They may have shared property or had c-h-i-l-d-r-e-n (or if not likely planned to.) He had an expectation of commitment, loyalty, belonging that no sane person could ever have for a person they never even went out with or only had a brief fling with. It just isn't realistic to think that shuts off on break-up. In fact, the dashing of those very expectations by the female are at the core of this fetish.

4. As sosniagara indicated above, a lot of the forum may well be made up of people still married who are into "divorce play" or pairing their cuckold fetish with an abandonment fetish. (I personally fall into this category.) Surely talking about being a cuck risking divorce meets even narrow definitions of our congregation here. Likewise, some people may be cuckold fetishists who are sharing stories about how the fetish led to a break-up earlier in their life. That seems indisputably appropriate.

5. Finally:
Which describes many of the posts on any thread here.

I hope I convinced you that this forum belongs. Frankly I am very excited by it!
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