Friends in SoCal

Hi all,
I am curious if there is anyone looking to be real friends or just grab a beer in the LA area (not looking for a hookup for the wife at the moment). I have been thinking it would be nice to find some community where we can be open about this part of our lives as well (for instance: I can't talk to any of my current friends that I love the idea of my wife with another man). It can be hard to find quality people that are integrated in this way and curious if anyone else feels this way.
Is yours bigger than my husband's?

i'm open to this.