Nervous

Hello everyone... I have been reading posts on here for a while now and have decided to post one myself. A bit about my wife and I, we are a late 30's, athletic, good looking couple that really hasn't shared fantasies with each other. Our sex is pretty routine and i want it too be so much more. I am very open minded and have many sexual interests.

I would love to open up to my wife and tell her that I am Bi and that i have a big interest in cuckolding and hotwife exploration. I want nothing more than for her to find this out and miracalously show interest in it as well. I am very nervous about mentioning to her that I want to see her have sex with another guy and another guy and so on. My desire takes it further than just that in that I want it to progress to her trying and having a preference for BBC. One of my fetishes is pregnancy risk sex so to see her barebacking a strangers black cock and taking that risk has got me thinking about it all the time.

My wife is not on any birth control and her periods are very irregular for some reamister. When we had kids some 3 and 6 years ago we had to see the doctor for help. The problem wasn't me either, we had that checked out. mentally I feel like I am prepared for a baby if that is what becomes of our activities and would love and raise it as my own. A bi-racial baby would be hard to explain to family and friends but I have thought about blaming it on a unanimous sperm donor and a screw up there. Just a thought.

Well, I mentioned a lot and would be interested in having the cuckoldplace community give me you feedback and hopefully support in assisting me in makeing this a reality. Has anyone been where I am at with this and if so, what did you do too make it happen? I feel like taking that first step is defenitely the hardest. like i said, i am so nervous about bringing this up to my wife and feel like it would have a negative effect on our great marriage.

Thoughts, suggestions? Bulls..... how would you handle my wife her first time?

thanks N

Hi Opasan...

There must be hundreds of threads on this issue already...and the conclusion is normally...take it very slow, and be patient...

You are carrying a lot of wished/fantasies which may not be very special for people on this site...but for a woman like yours (as you describe her)...which has a 'normal' husband and a 'normal' sex life...it may come as a little shock if you one day at dinner blurt:

"Hi wify...I have lied to you all these years...actually: I am bi-sexual...want to suck cock...want you to fuck niggers...want you to have babies with them...what...? You don't agree...you are so boring wify..."

...and...there are many ways to communicate...talking is the most direct...and most powerful...and in these cases: sometimes too powerful...it takes time....lots of it...to convey such thoughts to a wife...and even more time to convince her to act on it...if she ever will do that...

Good luck...

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A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women

Norwegian is right, take it slow. I would suggest that you don't tell her everything all at once. I had a girlfriend recently who was definitely pretty meat and potatoes when it came to sex and talking about having someone else in bed with us, just even for sex let alone pregnancy risk sex, was unthinkable. One night we had a few takes and guards were down and I asked her something like, which movie star would you relax with? Complete fantasy, never to be realized kind of question, and that got the ball rolling. The conversation led to which local permisterality (disc jockey, on air TV permister) and then, would yoy have a threesome with a stranger. The conversation evolved slowly and when we got here I quickly added, "and what would you do with them?" and we talked about fantasy themes (Bat Man costume kind of thing) and she laughed but the proverbial seed was planted. We weren't living together and a few days later I got an erotic email from her describing in detail her fantasy of sucking my cock while being pounded by a BBC doggy-style. We joined a swingers website and did end up meeting a local guy and had fun - something that I never thought would ever happen with this woman. I guess I am trying to say, start small and take it easy and once she gets comfortable with being with another man with you, then explore your bi side, then talk about preg risk.

I agree with Norwegian, whom writes a lot of common sense. One step at a time. Encourage your wife to cuckold you first then go for bareback and then pregnancy risk. This may take years but take it slow. Good luck

Thank you guys for your comments and suggestions. BullMoose, I like the way you worked it with the celebrity fantasy talk and getting more specific as you went. I am absolutely gonna take it slow and hopefully over time as she gets use to other men I will suggest something new eventually getting to my goal.

Thx

Would love to hear what some of the females have to say about my "fantasy" at the moment and their thoughts on how to proceed.