Allen
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Quoting: iwmwtcm Perhaps he is wanting a more traditional boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with someone. This is exactly what the wife and I think. Out of all our friends and family...he is the only one that is single right now. Everyone else is bf/gf...husband/wife...and most have families started by now. With all the time he works, he does not seem to have time to hunt for a girl. So, I would say that he is ultimately...lonely. We will wait and see.
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I am not going to get to excited just yet, but, last night I went with the neighbor to watch him bowl. We made it back around 10:30...and then...while I was in the shower...he texted my wife.
Oh yeah, I forgot to mention...he fucked her, I ate her, then she and I went to relax. Out of his funk????? We shall see.
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iwmwtcm
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Awesome! You and your wife are my heros!
How I long to someday post something similar.
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dirtyd369369
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congrates.....dont know whos luckier erika cause shes gets to run next door get fucked and ruffed up by his big dick than come home to lovin hubby... neighbor cause he can hang with allen than make a call and have his wife to use up and send home wrecked.... allen who can share his be-utif-full wife with his best friend. wait in bed for him to have his way with her as much as he wants and send her home to his waiting mouth, and lay in her loving arms the rest of the night..... or us who you share your life with..... every ones a winner in my eyes thanks for sharing
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iwmwtcm
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I agree! Its a win-win-win-win situation. Thats why Allens thread has turned my thoughts from "cuckolding is a nice fantasy but my wife would never do it" to "maybe this is something that IS actually acheivable in my life".
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"As we were walking in...my wife asked if she was going to be able to come and play. He said the cat lights will be on." Allen, Pretty Cool atmosphere from what you describe. Did this happen in front of you? Did you hear and know what was going on? Did you say anything? Thanks and good luck!
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Quoting: iwmwtcm How I long to someday post something similar. I also hope to be reading something similar in your thread. I think you are going in the right direction. Quoting: dirtyd369369 congrates.....dont know whos luckier erika cause shes gets to run next door get fucked and ruffed up by his big dick than come home to lovin hubby... neighbor cause he can hang with allen than make a call and have his wife to use up and send home wrecked.... allen who can share his be-utif-full wife with his best friend. wait in bed for him to have his way with her as much as he wants and send her home to his waiting mouth, and lay in her loving arms the rest of the night..... or us who you share your life with..... every ones a winner in my eyes thanks for sharing I would say the order you presented...is correct. "As we were walking in...my wife asked if she was going to be able to come and play. He said the cat lights will be on." Allen, Pretty Cool atmosphere from what you describe. Did this happen in front of you? Did you hear and know what was going on? Did you say anything? As I remember, I was just ahead of her walking to our door of the house. He had split from us and was walking to his door when she made her comment. I didn't say anything to her until we got in the house. As usual before she goes over to his place, we smile, hug, kiss, and I tell her...have fun. She leaves and comes back when he is done with her. This is a very awesome relationship we have between us.
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Allen
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Quoting: arthurarthur 'Oh yeah, I forgot to mention...he fucked her' Those Three little words at the end of your sentence weas the hottest fucking thing i've read in a long time and is probably the hottest thing that could be written! mmmmmmm , sighhhhhh I like that one to. I didn't get any details that night because she was so tired as was I. Long hours at work for me, and tired from fucking for her. I just hope he is now out of his funk, and will step up on fucking my wife a little more...wait...a lot more. The weekend is here, the hot tub is full, and its going to be a heat wave this weekend...up to 35 degrees this weekend....
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carocpl
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So he knows you know. He takes his cock to your wife thinking she needs it and he is thinking he is good at fucking her because you let her. To top it off, she cums over and over again with his cock in her balls deep. Now he doesn't even worry about unloading his cum in her. I sat back and watched my wife take her bf twice before I joined in and showed him I could pound her pussy just as good as he could. By the time we had our second threesome he made it into a contest to see who could make her cum more. He won that round, but in his jealousy he began to brag to me how many times and locations he fucked her. WOW, it's all surreal and quite intoxicating. Keep it up Have Fun PS: I wish my tongue was longer to!
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Hey Allen Hope you all are doing well. I agree with IWM relationships have and ebb and flow. You are also correct, your friend has this great relationship withyouandhor wife but he still feels like the odd man out. WOW! that must have been so hot when your wife and you came home and she was interested inteh cat light being on!!! IWM is also right, thanks so much for sharing this journey for you with us. First, it does give me hope that one day it may happen to us. Two your lovely / loving wife and you will have some very fond memorries to look back on. Third. I can see how much your bride has grown in self esteem and confidence Again thanks so much for posting and sharing Your friend Meijer
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dirtyd369369
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its sunday morning... hope you awoke with a sticky face...lol
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KokomoCuck
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I'm glad you guys have a realistic and loving relationship that you do. Kokomo, Indiana here so Very Midwest conservative area. My wife and I don't get to play anymore in the cuck scene at all but I can definitely live vicariously though you two! Kokomo, IN
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Allen
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Quoting: carocpl So he knows you know. He takes his cock to your wife thinking she needs it and he is thinking he is good at fucking her because you let her. To top it off, she cums over and over again with his cock in her balls deep. Now he doesn't even worry about unloading his cum in her. I sat back and watched my wife take her bf twice before I joined in and showed him I could pound her pussy just as good as he could. By the time we had our second threesome he made it into a contest to see who could make her cum more. He won that round, but in his jealousy he began to brag to me how many times and locations he fucked her. WOW, it's all surreal and quite intoxicating. Keep it up Have Fun Oh yeah he knows. He and I have had many chances to talk about what he and my wife do. I have brought things up to him, but he won't take any of the chances to talk about it. In one of the instances, he and I were at the bar, and at one point in the mostly one sided conversation he said something like "yeah, a lot of couples are into it these days". So I know he knows that I am ok with it. A competition...well I would need some help. If we were to have a competition I would have to have a couple Jack N Cokes. After a couple of those my hardon won't go down. Its like viagra to me. Just a heads up competition...well...why else would she be going to his place for sex? Quoting: Meijer Hey Allen Hope you all are doing well. I agree with IWM relationships have and ebb and flow. You are also correct, your friend has this great relationship withyouandhor wife but he still feels like the odd man out. WOW! that must have been so hot when your wife and you came home and she was interested inteh cat light being on!!! We are doing well, thanks for asking. I know that things are going to be up and down, but thats the frustrating part for us. She and I would love for him to be more active in fucking her. But like it has been said...he is also in need of some companionship...other than a friends wife. As much as my wife and I do not want this to end...we are both wanting for him to find someone to settle down with. For us not to want that for a friend...well, that would be extremely selfish of us. The cat lights is a fun game for us. To get into his house, you have to take a couple steps up onto the deck that is at the back of his house. He has rope lights under the rails of the deck. So after some time he called my wife a "stray cat"...and the lights..."the cat lights". Quoting: dirtyd369369 its sunday morning... hope you awoke with a sticky face...lol Sorry dirty...no luck this weekend. I guess my wife will have to settle for sex with me for the time being.
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Allen
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Quoting: KokomoCuck I'm glad you guys have a realistic and loving relationship that you do. Kokomo, Indiana here so Very Midwest conservative area. My wife and I don't get to play anymore in the cuck scene at all but I can definitely live vicariously though you two! My wife cuckolding me has been a big plus for us. She is satisfying a her sexual desires..although she would like for it to be more often...non the less she is getting it sometimes. This has brought her and I closer. The Midwest is definately mostly conservative...and to be honest...my wife and I are mostly conservative as well. But she and I beleive that what goes on in the bedroom...well thats your business. If you chose to share...thats up to you. If you don't mind me asking...what is the story behind you and your wife? I love reading about other peoples journeys into this scene.
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I'm a crown and coke man myself, and I love cialis.
Before a date of theirs one night I asked him to start at our house. I wanted to watch/join, and he asked me how many nuts could I get in one night, two I responded, he said he could get off at least four. They went out without doing anything before hand, she came home well used. But the threesomes we had he got off over four times, more likely six each time.
It's a rush talking to another man about my wife. Really, good luck with you and yours. Our lifestyle sometimes wasn't as smooth as yours if you need to talk privately I'll be here.
Thank you Allen/Erica
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Seems I *******ed this thread, sorry allen, I will just sit back and take my crown, thats what she said
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carocpl: Its not you...its the wifes bf. He just does not seem to be really into this anymore. I think that my cuckolding has come to...or is close an end.
My wife and I knew that this would happen eventually, but thought it would be later...not sooner. Although we are disappointed that he has been distant with fucking her...he is still my best friend and my respect for him is no different.
I would definately like for my wife to continue to cuckold me, I know she won't. She has a connection with the neighbor...that I can't see her having with someone else. She seems to want or need some sort of connection with someone before she would even think about being intimate. I love my wife and do not want her to do anything she does not feel comfortable with. It is completely up to her if we were to continue...with someone else.
This has definately been a cuckolding of convenience. If we didn't have the neighbor and friend we do...it would not have happened. I have enjoyed everyones comments, words of encouragement, and advice. I will of course post any updates as they may come along.
Are we done with the neighbor?...Mostly yes Will my wife cuckold me again?...No
This was an incredible journey for my wife and I. I will continue to visit cuckold place, commenting on posts, continue reading on how some new "friends" continue their journey as cuckolds and of course read up on those working to become a cuckold.
Thank you everyone.
-Allen & Erika
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iwmwtcm
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That would suck if they stopped, Allen. But didnt the same thing happen a week or so ago?
Frequency of sex goes up and down all time, even in healthy marriages. So dont give up.
Maybe its time for your wife to have a serious talk with him. If you are all such good friends, he should be open to it. Maybe say to him, "(name), theres something on my mind that I need to talk to you about." Then she can just reassure him that he is both of your best friend, that it has been a lot of fun playing with him, and that she wants him to be happy. Maybe she can get him to open up whats going on inside him. Maybe he feels guilty, or sad about not having a girlfriend of his own. Maybe he's worried about hurting your wife when he does get a girlfriend that he wants to be exclusive with. Maybe he's worried about losing your friendship when that happens. I can see that. I know I dont have all the details, but maybe its just a matter of reassuring him that you will always be friends no matter what.
In any case, I hope you dont leave the forum. Your comments and advice to me have been very encouraging and I would miss it.
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They did get together not that long ago. I think that they will from time to time mess around...even have sex...but it will be few and far between. I know he is feeling lonely...wanting someone for himself. I can't blame him for that...no one wants to be alone.
I also think that my wife needs to talk to him. I have given him many chances to open up to me, but he won't. He did on one occasion come over to my house to talk with my wife (I was not home). I was asked not to mention what they talked about. So, he seems to be able to open to her...now its her turn to come to him. That won't happen for a couple days though. He is out of town till Sunday. I want her to take that opportunity to get it out of him. Lets see what happens.
As for me...I won't be leaving the forum. I love it here. This place was here for me when I was a wannabe to when I became a cuckold. I love reading on how others are progressing, the pics, caps...pretty much everthing.
Overall, unless the neighbor decides to step it up with my wife...I think this thread is about finished. And that ladies and gentlemen...would suck.
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allen so sorry to here how its turning out so far.but remember even thou it was short lived as mine was, you and erika have had more than a lot of people here and that my friend is something to be proud of.its nice to have real people here to follow cause there are ups and downs to this,and you were always honest with us not making things up we wanted to hear. hope we dont lose you two. i for one would love to have you keep this thread going with updates about you and erika,and your life together. i think erika and the neighbor need to get away for a weekend together to have time alone and talk (or whatever).really wanted her to help him paint topless lol
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Wow this was such a great thread. I would hope it doesn't end. You have been a real inspiration to all of us Allen
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Allen
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Update: The neighbor seems to be moving on with a woman for his very own. While I would prefer he be moving to a more frequent sexaual relationship with my wife...I can't blame him for wanting someone in his life to "be" with.
Ok, now this might sound "sappy"...but he is first and foremost my best friend. He, my wife, and I shared a great fantasy. This has brought my wife and I closer together, and now with him departing from the fantasy...its time for my wife and I to become even more close. With her emotional attatchment this will be harder for her than me. I will have to step up my support for her to keep us out of any "funk".
Overall, I need to make sure that when we do still come together as friends...we keep things like nothing happended. I can...but it will be hard for my wife.
I know that he has begun to move on, based on my conversation with him last night. I was going to come over to have a couple beers and just hang out. He mentioned he had some cleaning up to do...(ok, not that unusual), but he seemed in a hurry to get things done. I told him that I would catch him tomorrow. Later, as I was getting ready for bed I noticed a strange car in his drive...and knew. I can't say for sure that my wife and the neighbor will never get together again, but it will most likely not be as it was before.
TO ALL THAT HAVE READ AND SUPPORTED MY WIFE AND I ON THIS THREAD:
Thank you all for your support, your words of encouragement, your advice, and of course all the comments. I know that I will still frequent this forum, watching, reading, and commenting. Its now my turn to see how others keep their cuckold relationships going...and how others try to start a cuckold relationship. If something were to change, I would definately report it.
This has been a fun one...and I hope to some day be a cuckold again.
-A&E
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iwmwtcm
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Well said, Allen. Well said.
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I'm going to miss this tread. Thanks Allen for all the insights.
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HIT1969
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Maybe you should give us his email address... HIT1969
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I started reading this thread a little late. I have to say it is one of the best threads on this site. Thank you for allowing all of us to share this experience with you and your wife.
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dirtyd369369
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iwmwtcm said it best....A&E it was a fun ride, but dont give up cause once ya get the taste it hard to go without. thank you... keep in touch
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Hi Allen, I've been offline for a little while, so have just caught up on your latest posts. What a bummer it looks like it's all come to an end, but obviously the friendship the three of you share is the most important thing of all. I wonder, do you think the neighbour was starting to develop feelings for Erika, so has pulled back before things got out of hand? Isn't that part of the risk and the angst of the cuckold - that the wife and the lover will develop a bond that the husband is not a part of? I have to say that I have you and Erika to thank for our foray into my wife experiencing another man. It was definitely your postings that finally made her agreeable to the idea. She has only had a few meetings with the one guy, but she is keen to keep things going. So, to you and Erika, thanks so much for sharing your experiences. Don't leave the forum, and please keep in touch.
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My wife and I talked about this, pondered what really made the neighbor change. She and I think a couple factors were part of it. One, he is most likely lonely. All of our friends have someone, a gf, or a wife. Most have started families and are moving forward with life. Secondly, he most certainly has feelings for Erika. He and I both have roughly the same taste in women. He and I are a lot alike in permisterality. I would have to say that if my wife and I didn't have kids, and things were just a little different...she may have left me for him. And yes, for some reamister that turns me on. Definately part of the angst...exspecially when she spent the night on new years...and he was the first to have her in the new year. The neighbor has also met someone new. He and I ran into this girl last week. As it turns out, they went to school together. Funny thing...she and I have a mutual friend. Small world hey? Anyway, I went with him on Tuesday to watch him bowl. We then met her at a local bar after bowling. She came back to his place after. I was not bothered by it so much. However the wife did see them walk into his house...and that she said it was a bit hurtful. Last night, after the kids were in bed for a bit...she and I walked next door where he was in the upper unit of his duplex. A friend of ours was there with him...helping remodel. When we walked in I could see he was unsure and a bit fidgity. He had a hard time making eye contact with the wife. She and I both knew he was uneasy about her being there. He was in one of the rooms putting up a ceiling fan, so to help push things between them...I asked the friend a question about something going on in the other room. He and I walked out...leaving my wife and the neighbor alone in the room. She told me it took a minute for him to begin to talk with her. She said it seem hard for him...obviously he cared. It didn't take long before it things got to a normal level. She wanted him to know that she was Ok with him...and that things shouldn't be weird. She said that they seemed to get a "were cool about this" betweem them. drpool: I am honored to know that my wife and I (and the neighbor) were a contributing factor in your "wife experiencing another man". That put a smile on my face this morning. Congrats and enjoy the ride....I bet your wife is.
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hey allen & erika, how are you guys doing? really miss you guys feels like my best friends moved out of town. i bet shes got you wore the fuck out picking up the slack. keep in touch if just to update your life together, miss ya....steve
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