Quoting: TedtheBellhop
the emotional impact on your wife.
She is sad and mad at the same time. Sad because she really does love him and wants to be with him more...but mad...at herself for being selfish and wanting to keep him.
Quoting: iwmwtcm
He also needs love with a committed partner just like you and your wife have with each other.
Right on the head....
Quoting: iwmwtcm
Maybe you can make it crystal clear that she has your permission to date or fuck any man that she is attracted to.
She has and knows that I have given her the green light to do just that. Although I think it will be hard for her...she will want to make sure she has a high level of trust.
Quoting: iwmwtcm
I find it interesting that your wife wont settle for "seconds" even though she has no problem giving you "sloppy seconds".
She is actually (she will admit it)...a jealous woman. She does not want to share. Thats why it will be hard for her to let him go....at some point.
Quoting: iwmwtcm
I think it is because women need that security much more than men do - in fact I am certain of it.
It does give me hope that, in general, our wives are instinctively inclined to be open to the idea of relaxing with others.
Again I think you got it right on the head...its the natural way of men and women.
Quoting: orban victoria
If somebody has a date... well, it doesn't mean that he has a girlfriend. I think it's kind of escape from the situation where he makes you cuck. I'm absolutely sure that he is going to fuck your wife many times in the future.
But you are right. You have to play the wait and see game.
I wouldn't be surprised if he fucked your wife tonight.
Well, the date didn't pan out for him. I do know that he is planning on making another go at two of the three women he met Wednesday night. He went to a local bar that had ladies night. He was one of the few men that made it out that night to that bar...he said it was close to 5 to 1 odds...women to men. No wonder he picked up on three...
Last night: He was supposed to meet one of the women, but first he, my wife, kids, and I went out to eat. We came back home, got the kids ready for bed, got the babysitter settled and we all went to go meet this girl of his. She ended up not making it out...she flaked. My wife feeling more at ease wanted to meet this chick. I told my wife to be nice and put the cat claws away for the time being.
So...we went to few bars, met some other friends as well. Both the neighbor and I fell in love with a bartender...so I asked her to come to our New Years Bus Tour party. We eventually came home...and...
As we were walking in...my wife asked if she was going to be able to come and play. He said the cat lights will be on. She texted him after the babysitter left..."door unlocked"...he then responded "live nudes"...we looked over at his house and the live nudes neon sign is in the window. Ding, ding...we have a winner!!! This time I kept my ass in the kitchen and watched my wife go over. What a weird feeling it is to watch your wife walking away from you to another mans house...knowing they are going to have sex.
She entered his house and right away they went at it at the door. That I can't see, but as she walked further into the kitchen...I saw her then quickly he pulled her back...he hair jerking in one direction and her body in another. He was being really rough/agressive with her. They made out for a short time and then I saw him push her back, and then push/shove her into his bedroom and then onto the bed...he then shut the damn lights off...I couldn't see anything else. I waited a few moments, and then quickly jumped into the shower to get ready for her return.
I fell to relax...and it was a little more than an hour later...she came in. A huge smile on her face...she undressed, and prepped me for my present. A fresh fucked and cummy pussy. She tasted oh so freaking good and she squeezed out whatever amount of cum she still had in her...I wish my tongue was longer!!! I shoved my tongue in her as far as I could...sucking and licking with everything I had. Like a fiesty rodent!!!
After she was satisfied she rolled off me and I went right back at her pussy eating and sucking her. She was red, swollen and sore. She pushed me off of her and was done...but I wasn't. I had to fuck her, I had to feel her stretched pussy with my cock.
She didn't protest...but she whispered to me as I fucked her...
He fucked me so good...I came so hard for him. How does it feel to fuck my pussy after he did? He is so much bigger than you, better than you, he fucks me so much better than you. You like eating my pussy after he cums in me? Oh baby...you are just not as good as he is...thats why I have to fuck him first...and you second...
I only fucked her for a few minutes...I came so damn hard in her...I was so turned on the way she was talking to me, I thought I was going to explode. After I came...we both cleaned up...I was actually ready for a round two...she wasn't. She was sore and very tired. I guess I can't blame her. We held each other as we fell to relax. This morning she told me that when she came with him...it was probably one of the top two hardest orgasms she has ever experienced. WOW!!!
So, things may not be over, but my wife and I still have to be ready for when the time does come. I don't want to sound selfish...but I hope things stay as they are through New Years. She wants to spend the night at his house after our bus tour. The kids will be gone for the night.
Thank you everybody for your support...for now the journey continues.