battered_husband:
Yes. He slapped me because he caught me staring at my wife's ass!
My wife's boyfriend is not really a bull in the conventional sense, but as things have heated up between them he has become possessive.
Shortly after he moved in with us we had been takeing and I put my hand on my wife's thigh. Now this is off limits by the boundaries the three of us had agreed on, but power of habit and holy water got the better of me that night, and he slapped me in face and told me to keep my hands to myself.
I was shocked, as he is younger than me, and weaker, and had previously been respectful. I didn't do anything but the next day was ready to kick him out, but instead we wound up having a good talk.
"Look when you had female roommates when you were younger did you make a habit of touching their legs in front of their boyfriends? It's creepy behavior that I will not tolerate."
He then acknowledged his physical and financial weakness, relative to mine. But he likened himself to my clients, some of whom I must take use from at times. He reminded me that my wife really wanted the new living arrangement to work, and suggested that if I was willing to take guff in business for money surely accepting corporal punishment to make her happy was within my reach.
We agreed on a system of punishments involving slaps, spankings with the belt, and my being "grounded".
I've been slapped once since for inappropriate staring and grounded last weekend for leaving the lights on. No belt yet, and I aim to keep it that way as I am not into that form of BDSM at all.
But as others said I know I deserved it. Three people under the roof is different than a couple and rules are needed. Someone has to wear the pants so to speak, and since he's the only one of us who doesn't wear panTIES it's logical that permister be him.