Got her to do it once, but I want it again.

A few months ago, I somehow finally talked my wife into fucking my ass with a strap-on. And as I'm sure with most of you here who have done it, I was hooked after the first try. She used a nice, thick black dildo on me, decent size around but not obscenely big. She was trying to use a smaller one, but I told her to use that one.

I got on the bed; face down, ass up as they say. A nice amount of this lube we got called 'Anal Slide' and a little bit of pushing, and she was in. She started off slow, just the tip and a little bit extra. It did hurt a little bit, not sure if it was just some crap lube, but she had to reapply it a few times. She only wanted to put about half in (its 8" long) but the way I was moaning, I wanted more.

I flipped over on my back so she could see my face as she fucked my ass. I wanted her to tug on my cock also, but the dildo was the floppy soft kind, so she had to use one hand to guide it in and the other was wherever. We did this for about 10 or 15 minutes, and she was extremely turned on. She wanted my cock in her pussy (which was near dripping wet), so I fucked her doggy style and came really fast.

I loved it so much, and I've been trying to get her to do it again, but she seems to be avoiding it. We set up a time when we could be alone (we sent the kid off to a relaxover, just like the first time). But she was out working late and came home kinda out of it. I showed her I was wearing a pair of red stockings underneath my pants, but she just kinda shrugged it off. She went to bed tired.

I really want her to try again. I know she liked the first time, but her sex drive is kinda up and down (she takes anti-anxiety meds). Maybe I'll get her a new dildo for her strap on, a nice stiff one so she can have her hands free, and maybe that will get her interested. Otherwise, I guess I'll just have to keep hoping for another fluke night like that one.

That is awesome! My wife and I are in the market for a strapon so she can do me as well.
My wife used to have to take anti depressants so I know what you are talking about her sex drive being up and down (mostly down).
If I were you I would keep the strapon close by the bed during your regular lovemaking times. Get her worked up with lots of foreplay and then ask her. She will be MUCH more agreeable to it when she is horny.
You might also try to buy one of those double ended strapons so she can feel some penetration at the same time.
Good luck!

Anyone know of a good solid harness with some form of stimulation for her, maybe like a little vibrating egg or something? I'm looking around but having a hard time finding stuff.

I'm jealous..my wife has taken me a few times with her strapon but it's so painful...burning...that I can't take much and we have to stop....even w/ tons of lube. So i'll have to live vicariously thru u 2 !

Draclif:

If you're feeling a burning sensation, it could be because of the dildo material itself. Try it again with a condom over the dildo.

wow, that actually made a huge difference. I didn't feel the "sting" I used to feel. now I just felt the stretching of my ass while she reamed me. Thanks for that great advice!