"Dressing" for your wife will get her started

One thing I have noticed here is that many cucks, like me, also have at least a passing interest in dressing in womens lingerie or in some form of feminization. It is not universal of course but it seems to be common.

This may come in handy when getting your wife started to the cuckold lifestyle. In our early days of discussing her with another man, my wife seemed interested but a bit on the fence. One night, without any great planning, I supprised her by coming out of the bath room wearing one of her bras. I laid down on the bed next to her, with my genitals tucked between my legs and my legs together.

She was a bit surprised, but not freaked out and a bit turned on. She talked about once (years before) she had really wanted to pluck my eyebrows and got turned on thinking about making my face up. I didn't know she had feelings like that.

At any rate while she was open to me in a bra and a bit turned on, I am sure that she say me in a new light. While we remain just as close, and clearly close partners in an erotic lifestyle, she perhaps began to think of me as a girlfriend and confident, a sex partner in crime as it were. Far different from a masculine lover to dominate and conquer her.

Not long after that she began bugging me on a fairly regular basis about when we were going to hook up with a guy that had a big cock. I think seeking me dressed helped close the deal.

Anyone else with similar exprerience?

I have crossdressed for years, wife has always dealt with it sometimes she wanted the girlfriend some times she wanted the man. She then had an affair while overseas in operation iraqi freedom with a soldier she is civillian (3yrs ago). Well when she finally told me about it after I caught her through snooping her email she asked me to dress in lingerie for her confession. She said she was more comfortable telling her girlfriend. That sealed it I have never been to bed with out lingerie since then and I am always in panties 24/7 (dont own one male pair of underwear)and a bra about 3 days a week all day. She has a boyfriend and I am just her sissy girlfriend now. We have a great marruage and relationship. It is much better this way she doesnt have to fake liking to fuck me and I dont have to feel like I have to live up to a standard of what she expects a lover to preform like. Both of us a very happy....
I have finally decided to take control (total) and have sissy in panties daily lock sissy in her CB 6000s for good. No more feeling sorry after a few weeks and no more giving into her pleas for mercy! Welcome the NEW MISTRESS!

thanks for sharing. you seemed to have discovered what makes you both happy.

anyone else found that "dressing" created a change in your ladies feelings?

Hi girls,
I can speak from my own experience that wearing female clothing has had a very positive effect on my marital relationship. Even before we married she knew of my crossdressing tendencies.
Over the years she grew tired of me dressing. I have had several purge cycles and always gave in to my weakness for dressing. Eventually she came to realize that I was addicted to womens clothing and has finally accepted me as a sissy fag. Now we relax in separate rooms and she "hangs out" with her friends. She refers to them as her "adult" friends and goes out with them whenever possible while Daisy (me) stays home and plays girly. She accepts me as "just another woman" and we live as two females. Sometimes we act catty toward each other as women will do.
In any event whenever she goes out she has no need to feel guilty about dating because I am no longer her "husband" and she can easily compare me to a man and realize that she isn't cheating because I am now a female in her eyes. I urge all sissies to share their dressing with their spouse so that you can both be the women that you truly are. Daisy.
Being a sissy maid is so much fun!

My wife manipulated me into Crossdressing and Feminization because she knew it would make it easier for her to cuckold me.......and......it definitely did faciliate her eventually taking several Big Black Bull Lovers.......and......she loved having a feminine partner to confide her emotions and feelings.......

Very cuck, but not the slightest bit interested in cd!

My antidotal experiences seem to agree with the first poster, females tend to become interested...

my wife and had experimented with dressing in college. I wore her undies or stockings, turned me/her on. Of couse I had been dressing since i was like 12 all the way, but she never knew. Told her about 5 years ago, at first she turned on, then it waned. Now she could care less. i think she started seeing me a a wuss and not as a man. she startd teasing me about wearing girls clothes and leaving me chores when she went out. she doesn't fuck me ever anymore...

after my wife caught me crossdressing, she never wanted to fuck me again and would only cheat to cuckold me - no cleanup, no stories, no anything- but i still dress after we've divorced and want a new wife to cuckold me still

Like to slip on a pair of panties to jerk off but that's about it.