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I am in the same situation, except my wife is less dominant, so I have accepted it on my own. I am happy with it. I have not found a regular top yet, but have chatted with some guys who are interested in using me for their pleasure. My last top is her lover and they have become exclusive to each other now.

I alkways felt guilty when I couldn't give her the athletic, alpha male sex that she craves. Now, the pressure's off and I find it a relief to know that her needs are being met.

Like you, I am not gay. That is, I am not attracted to men at all; I never get hard or cum with a guy. I don't have romantic feelings with men. But I love to submit to a sexually superior man for his pleasure. I cum only by masturbation, either alone or when I get to watch my wife and her lover.

I want my sweet wife to watch me get fucked sometime. She is reluctant, but supportive.

You asked what we think of this arrangement. It sounds great to me. Your wife is more dominant than mine is. I kind of envy you that. The bottom line is, if you like it, go with it, since she is encouraging it.

I expect that my wife and I will be together the rest of our lives, although in a different capacity. She loves me as a husband and partner, yet she is his woman romantically and sexually. We haven't had intercourse in 6 months and neither of us miss it. I get to eat her cream pie once in awhile and I love that.

I have moved into the guest room. That way, when he visits, they can have the master bedroom. If he finds a job in our town, I expect he'll move into the master bedroom and they will be the couple. I will be the roomate, and sort of her best girlfriend who she talks to about her lover.

It satisfies me sexually (good masturbation material), and it fills a need I have to be a pleaser. She is taken care of, and I cen please a man or men, which makes me feel good. Everyone's happy.

The keye here is trust. She and I know each other's character and we trust each other.

Good luck! I'd love to hear more. If you want to chat, I am randy4fun417 on yahoo as well for chat or email.

Randy

randy you are very lucky your fantasy is wonderfulRandy4Fun417
i want to see my wife with other guys (especially big dick black man) fuck.so i m jelaous of you.i hope you are very happy.i want to lick your wife pussy

Thank you! It's late and I need to go to bed, but I thought I'd shaer some pics.

The first shows how beautiful they are when they make love. The second shows me stroking my pathetically small dicklet as I watch a real man seduce my wife and make her his.

He spent the night Saturday, and even tho I couldn't watch, I heard her cumming louder than usual. I had to masturbate. We went to breakfast the next morning and it was like I was a friend accompanying a couple to breakfast.

Yesterday, she told me that very little of his load leaked out, that he got deeper this time. She said her body absorbed his cum. His essence became part of my wife! That is so hot!

Interesting, I always felt most cucks are closet gays.....


male lover? nothing more than the next step (or finally out in the open)

Well, let's see how this goes

Big surprise...50% admit their gay.

well, more... so cucks tell us you thoughts on this....
up to now, "in the closet" no?

I think the bulls are justs as gay as the cuck if they dont mind a cuck sucking on there dick

Randy
very thoughtful post indeed....you will come to find find out that I am almost perfectly open and non judgemental to other's lifestyles, including bi gay...and the stuff here. I have a label for my self...but truth be known, as I gained maturity...the edges became somewhat blurry.

I was interested in see what people labeled themselves, hense the poll.....do I have an opinion? You bet. But I'll tell you that I don't judge onother based on a single sex act...or three.

My observation was general in nature, based on my (I admit) limited antidotal experiences. Perhaps I should'nt have expressed it that way, but that was my sensing.

As to the poster suggesting that bulls must be gay...I never met one, could they exist? sure, but by defination, the focus is on the hot wife....not the cuck. Seems to me that many bulls are bi however, but still focused more on the female. I'd tell you that the cuck is most often used as a tool to elevate the sensual/sexual sensations of the hot wife. The cuck is never the primary focus in my experience, (permisteral and other bulls I know)

That being the case, it sort of puts the gay cucks in a really unhappy situation, no?

Agreed! They are left out in the cold.

I also agree 100% about the focus being on the wife and not the cuck. I have had occasion in the affiliated chat room to make the point that it’s about the hot wife’s pleasure, not the cuckold’s fantasies. Some members of the community seem to focus on their own fantasy, where others are merely puppets to do their bidding. That’s not how it works. Then, they wonder why they can’t convince their wife to try the lifestyle. Wives know if a guy is after his pleasure or wanting to support the wife’s pleasure. I like being used as a tool to elevate my wife’s experiences.

Being experienced in various flavors of the lifestyle, swinging, orgies, cuckold, and bi play, I have learned that the more we focus on meeting the needs of others, the more our needs are met. Of course, being a pleaser, that’s how I operate.

And, yes, that permister who tried to reply to you went overboard the other way, perhaps on purpose, to make his point. It would be sad if a gay bull could please my wife better than I can.

Well, every individual has his/her own attituded, beliefs, values....together a sort of compass on how to approach things in thier life. I'm way past the judgemental point.....but it does intrigue me to try to understand others.

Now...I'm a bull, as I approach cucks in a relationship, I am strong, directive, demanding, creative and tuned into thier expectations....together with the hot wife, i give my cucks as much as they can handle...to the edge. But be clear, my focus is the sexual satisfaction of my hot wife and myself.

My wife wants me also to have a male to please on a regular basis. I am or have always considered myself BI but as we get farther into cuckolding and myelf being feminized at the hand of my wife I find myself more and more attrated to the male gender and less and less engrossed in females. I have however found there has been a strong attraction towards TV's and CD's or feminized men. Wife excepts all of these feelings and has embraced them using them to her advantage and pleasure. She often has stated that she is married to her best gurlfriend and enjoys the occasional sharing of a male friend where I am just a little sissy fag helping to please the man in the room. Although she doesnt use the term gay she admitts it is what it is. Jess
I have finally decided to take control (total) and have sissy in panties daily lock sissy in her CB 6000s for good. No more feeling sorry after a few weeks and no more giving into her pleas for mercy! Welcome the NEW MISTRESS!

this thead helps so much

I have always thought he was gay maybe.

It was his idea to learn to suck my bulls.

I am going to arrange for a male escort just for him to see if he enjoys it
I will report back

I was looking at some threads here tonight and there were pics of women that were posted (I was just checking all new posts for anaything interesting) Well Jeanne scolded me for looking at a post with females pictured and commanded that I will only be permitted to look at pics of men, Gay sex scenes, or cross dressers, tv, cd material now. If I am caught looking at anything besides what has been deemed appropriate material for a sissy I will not be allowed to cum for one week per offense, she will check the lap top history to see what I have looked at. As far as my chance to cum once a week I am permitted to only look at mens cocks for my visual material, not even her pussy any more. I guess she is more serious about turning me Gay then I realized. It's okay though if thats what my beautiful wife wishes of me then thats what I will be if it makes her happy I will also be happy long as I get to serve her. I will keep everyone informed of any progessions. Sissy Jess
I have finally decided to take control (total) and have sissy in panties daily lock sissy in her CB 6000s for good. No more feeling sorry after a few weeks and no more giving into her pleas for mercy! Welcome the NEW MISTRESS!

laurelready


Like to hear how that unfolds.

Well, yes, this is a very comples encounter, lots of interesting emotions, some expected, some not. I enjoy the whole piece....sure being the king...directing...feeling perhaps more powerful or desirable than the cuck husband, having possesion of the hot wife. All of this is part of the whole, just as the sexual is. Having use of the female without involvement of the husband is not nearly as interesting...but for me the husband is no big sexual sensual attraction, simply a tool to elevate the hotwives experience. (and perhaps, initially the door keeper to the hot wife)

That's "complex"

cassie


perhaps this is the bi option:

I cross dress & suck my bull when he asks, but I'm not gay

Of course this is totally up to the bull and woman. But I believe that the cuck should have a boi lover. This send so many messages of emasculation. Since the cuck cant get close to pleasing the woman, the cuck deserves gay relations only. This further cements his postion as a sissy bitch. The bull and woman should invite as many friends as possible to watch the cuck get it on with a fellow bitch for their amusment. How much fun is that?!

tinyguy102


that would be fine w/ me.

Threads like this one are one of the reamisters that my wife and I follow this message board. We’re very interested in the feelings and motivations involved with alternative lifestyles. I guess you could call it psychological voyeurism.

Anyway, we’ve been involved with alternative lifestyles for years and have at least played on the fringes of most lifestyles. (And, yes…There are exceptions!) In our adventures, we’ve both experienced aspects of BDSM from both the dominant and submissive perspectives. In the cuckold lifestyle, I’ve found pleasure as the bull and the cuckold. My wife will not be submissive to any man, other than me. She will and prefers a relationship of equality with the bull. Her pleasure comes from surrendering to her permisteral fantasies and to my pleasure as a submissive.

We’ve also experienced this play in straight and bisexual roles. What we’ve observed is that everyone has their own idea of what constitutes gay, straight and bi. Plus, everyone will put up with at least a small amount of same sex contact. This may involve anything from same bed couples swinging to voluntary same sex intercourse.

We’ve also been profoundly surprised about which men or women involved in alternative lifestyles truly enjoy same sex play. With men in the swinging community this is rarely talked about and if it is, it’s talked about in hushed and negative tones—whispers in dark corners. But, a number of those same people will participate, even instigate, same sex activity once the play begins. Race, natural origin and social status appear to be irrelevant.

In other words, nothing really surprises us outside of non-consensual sex. Even the assholes become a part of the landscape.

So, if someone wants to believe that a cuckold is a closeted “faggot”, then, that’s okay. It plays into the fantasies of a number of hot wives and their cuckolds. If another wants to believe that they can cross-dress and perform fellatio on another man, and that doesn’t make them even a little bi…well…that’s okay, too. Only that permister knows how they really feel.

There are two things I do agree with, though. One is that cuckolding is essentially about the pleasure of the hot wife and her lover and for that reamister a gay bull would seem just a bit incomprehensible unless all participants belong to the same gender.
All universal moral principles are idle fancies.
- Marquis de Sade

Piltdown

Clear thinking, effectively written.

The point is that there is a lot more going on below the presented veneer than often is admitted to. Sure the dynamics are quit complex, even unpredictable. People come to this to satisfy some inner fantasy. I enjoy exploring these desires and the expectations they create. The individual expression of sexuality is not always clear, not even to self. One of the things that attract me to this lifestyle (as a bull) is getting my arms around the wild sweep of interpermisteral dynamics. Rightness and wrongness?….its really not that concrete. It takes both years of experience and a willingness to be completely open in order to enjoy a complete experience. When that happens, pretty cool for all involved.


Sad to say the bull/hotwife/cuckold scene is almost never quit lives up to what it seems.....

jennifer85_2007after being emasculated by my gf, we met a bisexual blk male and i surrendered to him like a lil sissy. i accepted that my role was to pleasure him..but when he slid his manhood and started to rock my insides i found myself enjoying his cock like a bitch. i knew that if he wanted feminize me i could not stop him.

straight/gay/bi, heterosexual/bisexual/homosexual, dominant/submissive, are very broad labels. They have colloquial usages as well as more "scientific" usages.

I am happily married and have a very vanilla relationship with my wife. I occasionally have sexual interactions with submissives. Some of these involve me inserting my penis into the mouths of males.

There are a variety of labels that could be attributed to me. Someone at the Kinsey Institute would have one; a guy down at the local biker bar another; down at the local gay counseling center it would probably have a different spin.

I don't need to "come out". I don't intend on forming a long-term relationship with another male. I probably spend more time getting my haircut in a year than using males.

I know that others will disagree with me, but that's on them.

I am what I am. I do what I do. And, in this country (being the US), I expect the freedom to do it and call it what I choose to.

DomTop4SubSkrs

There you go. Good for you.

I had the same experience as latin4blk2. I never considered myself bi and certainly not gay. I dated lots of women and went to bed with lots of them and loved pussy. However I was born without a cock; instead, I have a tiny nubbin of flesh not much bigger than a clit. Consequently, my wife and her Black Domme Girlfriend emasculated me, transitioned, transformed and trained me to serve, worshi and obey their Black Bull Lovers.........and......I still didn't consider myself gay.......until........they started fucking my sissypussy......and.....once I started having Big Black Cocks penetrate, stretch, fill and pleasure me........I had the same feelings of feminine surrender, erotic ecstasy and multiple orgasms as a genetic girl.......and......it became very easy for the Black Bull to feminize me and to turn me into a cock-craving sissyfaggot fairy queen.......Now, I am totally obsessed with sucking cock and getting fucked.......It is all I think about.....and.....if given the choice between being able to fuck a girl and being fucked myself by a Black Bull......I would choose the Black Bull and a deep, sensuous fucking of my sissypussy....

This sounds like a nice idea.

Do any cuck hubbies have 'boyfriends'? Have you shifted from sex with the Mrs. To exclusively having sex with Men?