Turning wife into a hotwife

Hello everyone.  I just joined this site and am very, very excited to be here.  Wanted to do it for a long time. So here's my story.  My wife is 5th generation American born Chinese.  So she is totally Americanized but fully Asian in her looks.  She is a dancer and very attractice.  (I'm on a business trip now or I would post pics.)  She is 35today.  5 years ago she had a 7 month long affair with an older coworker.  They did everything that normal couples would.  Blow jobs, anal, he came insde of her, etc.  I only found out after they ended it and she told me. So it's been 5 years and we are good relationship wise.  Last summer I told her that the details of her affair really turned me on.  So we had mind blowing sex for about 4 months where she told me everything.  She was even super into it.  Cumming harder and more than ever before. She even told me a few times that she would like to have sex while I watched (which is now my ultimate fantasy).  Unfortunately in the last couple of months it has died back off again.  Now she thinks all of that was a bad idea and doesn't really like to talk about it.  I permisterally know that in the perfect sitution I could get her to have sex with someone else while I watch.  Perfect is hard to come by (some takes, she's attracted to the guy, etc.).  That's my story.  I want to turn it over to the "experienced" group and hear what you think.  Please feel free to ask me anything about her affair, the details of us, her, how I could get her fucked, etc.  I an assure you I'm not the guy who is makng this up.  It's all legit.  If I can get to a place where she actually goes through with it... my friends here will know all of the details .

Seems like a fine ambition.

My experience has been that the wives tend to go and do it without their husband knowing all the details or not even being aware. They like to keep things secret.

I've been pondering the same issue (sort of). Meeting the right guy is a problem. From posting her photos we have had several guys and couples chatting to us. She has chatted to them about sex and shared more photos etc. which is good. This has opened her up and got her back into showing herself (she was a dancer too) but so far nothing more eventuates mainly because of distance. Shes reluctant to do as much with the nearby ones, at least while I am involved. She currently has at least 2 other guys fucking her. She knows I want her to fuck them. If I ask questions I get to know basic details - like when and where the guys cum and how many times she cums etc. She likes to keep it to herself. Her husband does not even get this much info.

I have concluded that if I am going to be involved as well I will need to get a friend to make advances on her. Strangely he's already agreed. She is submissive so I can have her wearing only a mans t-shirt or similar. Obviously setting the scene and timing it right are critical factors. It's taking a long time.

You have a good start that she told you she was fucking around. Good luck!

Thanks. If i could make this happen it would be unreal.

My wife ALWAYS plays alone. I've given up on the idea of her doing in front of me. I've grown to be happy she does it and tells me about it after the fact.

I know she would do it in the right situation. No doubt about it. I just need to get us there. Does anyone have any questions about her out her affair?

One more comment. If anyone takes a special interest in me i would be open to a online bull relationship.

You have PM

she sounds amazing and i am a switch but would love to help

Ok first lets hear more about your wife, her body her likes and dislikes. Has she had a lot of guys, any girls? then can you expalin what she did with the co-worker. I think it would be beneficial to get down as many details as you can recall actually. I expect it turns her on to think about it so your clear understanding of the events can be used to your advantage.
Try to get it all clear and sequential, What was happening in her life at the time? Did she dress differently for work? How did they get together in the start? What was he like? How often did they fuck? Did she dress up? Start shaving her pussy? Any games or toys? Spend weekends with him? Photos? Is he married also? Why did they break up? Did you have any clues it was happening? How was she with you?
I'm starting to worry about me now, but just about anything is good. Tell it all

Alright, love the question. She is 5'2, 109, Chinese (totally Americanized), very fit , shaved, 34b. Sexually she just likes to be turned on. She can be very boring if you don't get her to that super horny state which is hard to do. She's only had sex with myself and the dude she had the affair with. Kissed girls but never done anything more.

When she was with him they had sex about once a week for 7 months. They pretty much did everything. He owned a rental unit that was empty which he would take her to. They didn't use condoms and he came in her. She did not get pregnant. She says they didn't do anal but I don't believe her.

She didn't really dress differently. The big difference was we had only been married a few years and she was having a hard time coming around to being in the marriage. She never spent weekend with him but I do believe they spent one night together. And yes, he was married also. I've attached one pic of her to this email. She says they broke up b/c she felt guilty.

damn, is that an asian hot gurl............. i like her

me too

Hi thanks for the pic she sounds and looks nice. Not so good about the fully Americanized aspect.
Did she go into details about the "pretty much...everythng" they go up to? She sounds in-experienced and not very imaginative so I'm curious what "everything" is for her.
Possibly she is getting bored - or curious if there is more and hence her trying and older and hopefully more advenureous lover. At least he was fucking her properly.
Dare I suggest she exhausted the possibilities with him and her interest slid below the guilt and fear of getting caught level so it ended. Perhaps he got bored with her if shes a starfish in bed?
Was she easier to get horny when you first met her?
Does she cum normally with you? On her own? While you watch?
What makes you confident they did anal?

More photos please.

talk to her while having sex, about how she loves big cock and she loves being a bad girl,,, go from there

she sounds perfect as a hotwife,

What worked for me was always reinpowering that she had my permission. She travels a lot for work so when we go shopping I encourage her to buy clothes to turn on the guys. I say things like please have fun if you have time. This time she said ok.. Love you. These days her playing is just a Normal part of our life.. But me getting to watch is a no no so I don't bug her anymore about it. I've got it pretty good now so why rock the boat? Good luck and yeah... Post more pics

Yes, she explained every detail. And you are correct, she is very inexperienced. She said she ended it due to guilt. I always thought it could have been an easy out for him to if he had gotten bored. But, as a guy, we all know new sex is still better than no sex.

What else would those of you on this string like to know??? I love sharing.