Reading wife's email...

Like one of the other members, I think that it is important for you to make it perfectly clear to your wife that YOU yourself have no interest whatsoever in any woman apart from her....and that the only reamister you have opened discussions about the idea of her having sex with other men, is that even the thought of her doing so turns you on like crazy. If she understands that, and that she has your expressed approval to actually do that....I'm sure she's bound to relax, secure in the knowledge that her doing so is not going to cause any negative fallout between you, but rather, is likely to make things between you even better. Her only concern may be that you also, may be doing this because you too, wish to fool around with other women. Reassure her that is not the case at all, and reassure her that you love her and only have eyes for her. If she truly wants to explore and engage in no-emotional-strings-attached sex with other guys...that will be like music to her ears.

Sure looks like you are on the right track already...

You need to make it very clear to her, that you want her to have sex with other men, not just bedroom talk!

I think, having broken through this crucial barrier with your Japanese wife and bringing this issue out into the open, you should perhaps soon confess to her your own desires, for her to have a few well-hung and insatiable BULLs in her life...discretely...that will fuck her and give her a lot of sexual excitement on an on-going basis. Once you open that subject, you'll make the matter open for discussion and negotiation. Either you may get to be present as they mate with her...or she may reward you for giving her that sexual freedom, by making video footage of the action and allowing you to enjoy it, after the acts. Tell her you would rather her keep 2 Bulls on the side, and make them aware of each others existence, so that both compete....and so that neither get emotionally attached. Whatever happens...I hope your lovely Japanese wife is soon regularly welcoming a new BULL or two's cocks into her mouth, pussy and ass....getting a solid fucking and returning home to you with all the proof for you to enjoy. Who knows...you might even get to recruit and screen potential candidates for her to meet and consider.

I know you are all impatient to have her take on a new bull. And yes, we have reached a point where is fantasy is turning to reality...though with an expected turn. I have been having fun though taking it slow. After all, as good as it is to see a woman nude, isn't it better if she strips slowly?

I have been pushing my wife a little bit further along every chance I get. A little bit more explicit in my desire to see her with another man. I can feel her inhibition lessening. She too is becoming more explicit. What finally tipped her over is our last conversation in bed. As I commented again on how erotic it would be to see her with another man, she took me up on that challenge and asked, "If there was another man right now in this room, what would you do?" I told her that I would have him sit in a chair and make her stand in front of him. Then I would slowly undress her in front of him. Taking off one piece of cloth at a time. Slipping her dress off her shoulders and letting it drop to the ground. Unhooking her bra and slipping the straps off her shoulders one at a time. Then pulling down her panties to her ankles and have her step out of them until she stands naked in front of him. I would then have her kneel in front of him, unzip his trousers, and pull his cock out. I would have her caress his balls and run her tongue up and down his shaft until he is hard. Then I would have her take him in her mouth and enjoy the taste of him. When she can't take it anymore and long to have him inside her, I would lie her down on her back on the bed facing him. I would spread her legs while he enters her.

At this point she was so excited she was breathing heavily and moaning. She blurted out "Fine, let's find someone!" I asked her if she wants me to find someone or if she wants to find someone herself. She said she is not sure. After a moment of silence she then said something unexpected. She said "I want to see you with another woman first before I do anything." Yes, I was a bit shocked. I had told her many times that her being with another man is for her pleasure. It would be exciting for me to know that she is being pleasured but I am not looking to be with another woman. With her comment, I think perhaps she wants me to be with another woman so that she feels it is fair? It gives her permission? Removes the guilt? Anyway, so here we are on the cusp of doing this and she throws a curve ball. What a woman!

That's great news that you're getting so close. I've been following your story since you started posting here...you've been working at this for a while!

Maybe she feels guilty because she's going to get what she has been wanting for a long time, so she feels she will only be able to enjoy it if she doesn't have to worry about you.

Perhaps you should be careful though, make her in charge of this, where/when how it happens.

Based on what she said....why don't you consider hooking up with a couple? That would let her get her wish, and you, yours. Also, it would be a safe way to go. You could even go to a swingers club, just for a look. Great to know she has opened the door on this...

I keep going back and forth on this. Does she really want me to be with another woman (even if couple) as a way to ease the guilt? Or is she testing me to make sure I do not start relaxing around with other women?

If it were me, I would not be into that anyway. Seeing my girlfriend with another man is 100 times hotter than me being with another woman.

can't you just ask her straight? "is it because you are worried about me trying to find an excuse to be with another woman? Because I'll do it but I don't want to do it really."

If I were you, I'd explain to her that it is the thought of her having sex with other men that turns you on like crazy. Say to her that you're content having sex with only her, and don't really have any interest in relaxing with other women.....BUT...if she really wants you to do that, you will, to satisfy her fantasy. Tell her though, that you don't have to, or don't really even want to do that.... You simply get extremely turned on at even the thought of her having sex with another man. She might be testing you.....so I think that responding that way would hit the ball back into her court. Tell her that all you want, is the thrill of knowing she is having sex with another man. Tell her it would drive you wild with lust, to know she was keeping a BULL on the side...for her own sexual pleasure. I'm sure you can pass the test. The truth is you don't want to relax with other women....and I'd make that perfectly clear to her. Reassure her that you truly do love her, and that you are 100% content with her in your marriage...in every way. I'm sure you can be convincing...because it truly is how you feel about this. She will also feel that honesty.

Got a new computer and cleaning out the hard disk. Came across a bunch of old pictures. Here are a couple from a trip to Japan. Not very revealing but I love being the voyeur.

Very nice.

Any updates? Have you and her discussed things further?

Basically, I called her "bluff" and told her that while I have no interest in being with another woman, if it is something she really wants to happen, I am willing to fulfill that fantasy for her. It could be with another woman or with another couple. She can find that permister or permisters or I can find them. But, what I told her is that I want her to at least be in the same room.

This seemed to have satisfied her because while we talk about it from time to time, it no longer seems to be an obstacle because within a week of my telling her this, she got back in touch with Peter (remember him)? She emailed him to wish him happy new year and just to say hello but pretty soon the emails became flirtatious again. This time though, I have not gotten in touch with Peter. I think what ended up giving Peter cold feet last time was knowing that I was following the progress. A guy needs room to maneuver right? Also I think, like for my wife, the illicit nature of the relationship is a huge turn on.

So I will just let them proceed themselves and simply follow along on my wife's emails and chats. I won't be able to catch all the details of course. I also won't be able to get any pictures from their meetings. But perhaps she will tell me about it herself sometimes since she now knows I am OK with her having sex with other men. Or I will get in touch with Peter after he has tasted my wife for himself. I think the best thing for now is to make sure they get together in permister again and start enjoying each other. I am sure my wife has been aching for Peter's cock to fill her up for quite some time now.

I think you're right... maybe giving her and him a bit of room to manoever is the way to go. By the sounds of it, you have pushed things over the obstacles and now it is probably time to just stand back and let things take there natural course. Now that she's got a green light from you to actually do it if she chooses to, with no adverse consequences, clearly she doesn't need to fear being caught and therefore will be more proactive in making opportunities for herself. One way or another, I'm sure she intends to make it worth your while...to reward you for allowing her that freedom, without even wanting to fool around with other women yourself...which will probably have scored you double points in her book.

Whether it is Peter who gets to start nailing her, or some other lucky guy, I hope that starts soon...for both your sakes. ^_^

Wow! I am very jealous. I hope you both enjoy this adventure.

I have read other peoples experiences on this site and one thing that seems to be consistent is that once it starts, it gathers speed very quickly. Have you thought about exactly what you want from this? Cuckolding has many flavors. Do you want this to be a fling? Do you want Peter to be a regular boyfriend on the side? Do you want her to start reducing the sex she has with you due to the fact that she is being satisfied by him? How involved do you want to be? How would you feel if he spent the night with her in your bed while you slept on the couch? Sorry for all the questions but enquiring minds want to know, lol.

hi YouHerUs, great to hear your latest update and delighted that things seem to be moving in the right direction according to your desires... i agree that you did the right move in terms of making it clear to her that you are not interested in being with other women... i would love to know if she has let you know that she has been in touch with Peter herself or if you accessed her email account yourself and found out that way... i am also interested in knowing a little more about what direction you want things to go in... i get the feeling from your posts that you are not interested in all the offense and fetish stuff so often attached to the cuckolding fantasies on here but rather that you just enjoy the thought of your wife enjoying herself sexually with another man or men... i also wonder (and maybe you have answered this before) if you have always been interested in cuckolding or if it is a recent thing....

i also apologise for all my questions but i am really inteterested in your posts... and i am anxiously awaiting your next your next post to hear the latest update!!

just wondering also, if you dont mind... how old are both you and your wife and how long married?

Her legs are really hot! Anymore pics of her would be GREATLY appreciated!

I think this is my new favourite thread! I love it because you are so genuine with what you write and I can really imagine everything that is going on. Your wife sounds incredible...can't wait to hear more of her "sexual awakening".

Please don't take too long before the next update!

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Nice to know there are so many interested readers and I am glad to share this experience with you. Many questions have been posed and I will try to answer them.

My wife is 39 (sexual peak!) but as with many Asian women, looks much younger. She can easily pass for someone in late 20s. As for where I am looking to take this? I am really just going to let it go where it goes. It is about pleasure for her. Next time you make love to a woman, take the time to look at her face. She drops much of her inhibitions and becomes a different permister from her usual self. The pleasure on her face (assuming you are doing it right!) is amazing to see. That transformation, that hidden side, is so exciting.

I also love to watch her touch herself. Women know what they want even if sometimes they are too shy to tell you. But if you encourage them to pleasure themselves they will do so and you can learn something. Where they rub themselves. How fast. The angle of their hips. I just find it fascinating to watch her do that. What really opened my eyes was when I saw her masturbating with a sex toy when I came home one day unexpectedly. In her private moment, she was much more...I don't know what is the best way to describe this...aggressive? sexual? hot? slutty? adventurous?...I think you know what I am trying to say. She was sticking that thing into her deeper than I imagined possible and really pumping it in and out. Even though I was watching her from the hallway quite some distance from the half open door to our bedroom, I could still hear how wet she was. Her legs were wide open and lifted a couple of feet off the bed. It was just an incredible sight that I don't get to see when I make love to her because I am too close to her and because she does not fully let herself go wild. I did not watch how that ended because I did not want her to know I saw that. Frankly, I was also a little shocked. But I became very excited every time I think about her being so slutty. Really was not thinking about cuckolding. At first just loved seeing her masturbate and encouraged her to do that more and more in front of me. Not the same though as when she was doing it thinking she was alone.

Then, and this is much later, I stumred across that first set of emails with her ex-boyfriend and realized she is fulfilling some of her fantasies that way. And I was fine with it. It was very much like her masturbating in private. She gets great pleasure in those situations and if another man is involved, she gets even more pleasure. Opening her legs for another man is just that much more exciting for her and thus for me.

In her recent resumption of emails with Peter, she did not tell me about it. It was through her emails again. But I have a feeling...no real reamister, just a feeling...that she might tell me about it someday. In her own way. I am not going to push on anything now. She is not a "slut wife." She will not jump into bed with anybody. She wants to be seduced. She wants to flirt. I think she enjoys the illicit nature of it all and the forbidden aspect of the sex is part of the thrill. She now knows I am fine with her being with another man but at the same time I think she still likes it to be a "behind closed doors" affair. It is more exciting for her and in some ways for me as well. I am very secure in the relationship because I think she clearly differentiates between love/marriage and sex/affair. If anything our sex life has become better. She has become more sexually adventurous with me. She is even letting me take more pictures of her nude now. And yes, I will share what I can though with certain edits.

Potential cuckolding at its best, in my opinion. A loving husband who just wants his wife to have the greatest pleasure and a wife who loves her husband but also wants to experience getting romanced, seduced, and fucked by another man. Its a beautiful thing.

Here are a couple of recent pictures. I wanted her to spread those lips for me but she would not. Maybe next time. Luscious in any case no? Enjoy and feel free to repost with your special deposits.

Would love to see her tits! Nice looking pussy and ass too.

I was re-reading your thread and I tried to imagine what it would feel like to be in your shoes. Wow! Just knowing that your wife will soon take a lover must be mind blowing!

And the way you described how she was aggressively pumping herself with her sex toy...wow again! How exciting.

I read something interesting once about people who cheat on their spouses. Studies have shown that people are much more likely to ask their new partner for certain sexual favors than they would their spouse. And they are much more likely to perform certain sexual favors for their new partner than they would their spouse. It has to do with being in a new relationship and the natural desire to please their new partner and not disappoint them.

Now, I dont believe cuckolding is necessarily the same as cheating because the wife basically has permission to have the affair, but...

...you should realize that Peter may soon be doing things to your wife that you have never done, or will ever do. You may not even ever know all the things they will do together in bed. This will be a very exciting time for her. I hope it is for you too.

Btw, very sexy pictures. Peter is going to enjoy getting a slice of that!

Some more pictures. A little less shy every time.

3 more just because I have them

We must be married to the same woman.
Sukebe

Youherus,

Please write more about what she says during your sex talks about other men, role-play, what they would do to her, her flirting, or any other aspect. It turns me on so much.

Unlike others, I love the secret part of your situation. I'd love a wife to secretly play and discover the clues. I wouldn't confront her about her resuming the affair, nor would I contact him as you did before. I'd encourage her advancing openness during sex talk and see where that goes.

You might try a sex talk scenario where she arranges to meet with another man on her own, say at a motel. She arrives first and sets up a laptop on the desk with it's integral webcam facing the bed. She calls you to confirm the cam is on and the wireless connection allows you to see the bed clearly. Her lover arrives thinking she's cheating behind your back. He has no idea that she's set it up for you to watch and listen by computer.

When the fellow goes to the bathroom after they have sex, your wife can move near the computer so you see his cum running down her legs and see her stick her fingers in her cum-filled pussy and lick them off. She'd whisper that she promises not to clean up before she returns home, or if he's leaving, she'd wait for you on the hotel bed, wet and used, for you to arrive.

Unlike others, I see no need for a Bull. Just let her find and fuck who she wants or arrange something she agrees to in your pillow talk.

I agree. Let her do it on her own. I think you would enjoy it better if you knew that she did it without your help. Your job of giving her the permission is complete. Now you just need to figure out how to make the best of it as it sounds like she will be doing it secretly.

I think it would be a most delicious pleasure if she discusses being with another man during pillow talk but acts as if she's edging closer to doing it, but you know from her emails that she's actually finding and fucking other men. As you did before, it would be grand fun to know a prospective lover was available and tell your sweet innocent wife that you'd be gone that day.

She'd say, "Oh, that's too bad. I'll miss you," but you'd see a gleam in her eye and know she was secretly rejoicing and planning to take advantage of your absence to spread her legs for someone, hopefully in your marriage bed.