When was the first time you realised cuckolding existed?

Exciting thought for sure.Hope you check it out.

Honestly, looking back on a lifetime of eroticism leaves me only looking forward built agreeably upon each steppingstone thereof, sharing life with gusto for more, more, more.

But my first so-called inclination others were open to more than the monogamous openly practiced, was when a young married girl (20-21yrs old) of African decent married to a 26yr old Caribbean islander from the Cayman invited me back to their home for supper...lol. But, lets just say, the threesome that was dessert was a tri0ple play!

But since I'm of both native-borne Appalachian Cherokee & Irish American decent going back to early 1620s, I guess such was inevitable...lol But with a very hard 10inches at 15yrs old and standing 5'11" age never enter our equations...lol But thereafter, we stayed friends for years and only recently, passing with time like all good friends from time to time. So remember, be excellent to one another...lol.

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Awesome! TY for sharing!!

When I realized that this fetish existed and people were actually considering it. I know I have a smaller penis, and struggle at times staying hard for my wife, so I was curious about the topic. I am new here and would like to make friends and here some advice. Mike

I read a book written by Alberto Morivara. About a man who discovers that his wife has a lover and the lover is his ******.
He could connect things after walking in on his ****** fucking his ****** and asking her to say "I am your whore".
The wife said the lover fucked her rough and called her his whore and she loved it. Opened my mind a gave me ideas, many.
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funhubby10

Welcome on board, though I see you've been lurking here for over a year. There are plenty of like-minded people here who will be only too happy to offer you some tips and advice - and the odd idiot too unfortunately! - so feel free to start a new thread and ask away whenever you're ready. We've all had to start somewhere.
Peter C

Peter C
Thanks Peter, appreciate the quick reply. I definitely will take you up on your advice. You been here a while yourself?

funhubby10

Yes, since 2006. After a couple of years talking about it and some role-play in the bedroom, my wife finally took the plunge in 1999, accepting the offer of a dr1nk after work from a young customer at the shop she worked in, an evening which ended up with her in his bed being fucked 3 times.

Despite my excitement at the time, "cuckold angst" kicked in a couple of days later and, long story short, I was unable to persuade Debbie to give it another try until early 2009. This was more successful for her and for me and she went with several other men over the course of the next 2-3 years including an ex-workmate of mine who'd been after her pussy for 20 years and finally got it and her best mate's step-dad.

Sadly we drifted apart and separated in 2012, divorced amicably two years later. but the cuckold tendencies never leave you hence I guess why I'm still here in 2023, re-living the memories. I'm not a "wannabe", I'm a "usedtobe", but I now have a shy, inexperienced much younger girlfriend who I have encouraged gradually to come out of her shell somewhat to the point where she now openly chats to men online, black men at that, though she insists she wouldn't do anything with any of them. I think they have other ideas though!
Peter C

L was still in college when we met. I was older and out in the workforce, and I'd visit her on weekends. I was insanely jealous when I caught guys her age flirting with her on campus. It became very apparent that a few of them "knew" her a lot better than she would admit. She loved teasing me about it, and that made me crazy. I'd obsess about her with them while I was away, going further and further with my angsty imagination. Were they kissing, fucking? How many were there? How often? L was a virgin when we met, and I was her first. Had I awakened her thirst for sex and she had found more opportunities to explore than I had ever counted on? I watched guys hit on her constantly.

Eventually I began to get erections as I worried about her fidelity. Then I began to masturbate to fantasies of her with the guys she met on campus. It was very strange and weird - I didn't understand why it excited me, and I felt much worse after I came - more worry and then shame. I was hooked, and although she never admitted any infidelities, my fantasies about her with other men continued after we were married. I had no idea what "it" was called, until I discovered Usenet and the cuckold stories on newsgroups. I kept my fantasies secret from L back then, so I began to write my own stories and post them as an outlet for my frustrations.

I remember seeing the word "cuckold" there for the first time, and wondering what it was. And holy **** - other men had fantasies just like mine! All that time I thought I might be sick, or at least different than everyone else. Eventually, years later, I confessed to L, and to my surprise, she found it exciting as well. She confessed to fucking three of those guys on campus back then. She found it fun to tell me a few stories about what they did together (after she was sure it got me off), and we were off on our journeys to hotwifing when the "right" guy hit on her at a friend's party. It's still surprising to me that it's become so mainstream today vs. back when I learned a new word.

Don

I had a girlfriend in High School who I later learned was what you call easy. When we had sex she would take me between her two fingers to get hard and then we would make love and after about 3 or 4 strokes I would cum and she taught me to eat her after I had cum to get me used to it.

Another great thread!

Don't know when I learned the terms cuckold or hotwife. But it was Penthouse letters when a teenager that introduced me to wives fucking other men with big dicks, and the fantasy grew from there.

When I discovered my wife was cheating on me. She then admitted it and told me she was going to fuck local guys.

Seeing The Get Away 1972 version with Sally Struthers. Then Penthouse letters.
BrianD43

Lost my mom right after I was born, then lost my dad when I was 17, one year after he married a woman from China. A very attractive woman I might add. So, raised by a single step-mom from China. She was a part time Math instructor at a community college, and part time swimming and track coach at our community center.

She was also a perverted nympho.

It wasn't until I turned 18 that I realized the bed squeaking and floor creaking noise wasn't her doing exercise. I think she was fucking half of her coaching/tutoring clientele.

I probably listened to her having sex 20 times or more before I got a secret peek of her having sex with a super dark African guy.

So yeah, it kind of sticks with you.

Great question, I was in germany in the military, had a friend there he was married to Sandy and goodness she was a blond goddess. Anyway we did alot of stuff together and one night I was shooting pool with another friend when he said hey man did you hear about Sandy and I said no what?? He said she pulled a train last week in the barracks and I said what the hell are you talking about and he said you dont know what a train is and I said yeah I know what a damm train is and he laughed and said you nut 8 or nine guys nailed her with her hubby right there and I said you are kidding me.
Long story short my wife Donna has pulled one train and we are always looking for another it turns me on so much

I first realized that i was turned on by this was in University. i went to visit my girlfriend at the time at her school, she introduced me to a study group she was a part of and we went out to party. once back at her dorm, her flatmates went to ***** one by one until it was me, her, and another guy. i went to the bathroom and came back to my gf and the guy making out, my gf looked guilty and apologized, i said it was okay and they can keep going.
i watched him make out with her, touch her, strip her until all she was wearing her tiny g string. as he fingered her, she looked to me and asked if she can fuck him. i simply nodded while stroking my own dick. he played with her for over an hour before even fucking her, we only had one condom, so after the first time, we both took turns cumming in her the rest of the night.
they became regular fuck buddies, she would do things with him that i wouldve never thought of asking for, she would wear short skirts with no panties, she got her nipples pierced, about three months in, i hadnt visited for a while, while i was fucking her, her pussy felt extra loose she bit her lower lip as she told me that she had started to have threesomes and moresomes with the guy and his roomates, and they all were tested and she was on the pill so they all barebacked her on the regular.

I think back about 15 years ago, when my ex-wife cheated on me for the first time with a black man. see his seed

When I got to watch a friend fuck my wife and I shot the biggest load of my life. After that it was all I could think about and want to be.....a cuckold.

Didn't have a clue the word existed when it first started happening to me. But like many I guess sneaking a read of Penthouse letters got me in the mood for it, the idea of watching your girl being pounded by other men. So for me the idea was planted while I was a teenager. Best thing is the first experiences were while I was a teen as well! Sort of been a theme in my pervy sex life you could say

Being cheated on led to it ,

and an incendent I witness of another couple cheating, i had no clue it was a thing , and found out . I was 18 - 19 yrs old, and of course when I went through it of couse i heard of seinging and cheating but not mixed with this aspect,. And
not long before that I knew I fell into the category, I realized I may be a cuck or have beem with out knowing, how can others do this , I couldn't ever do something like that but it turned me on

dany dingo

I never had any cuckold tendencies with my first wife nor the woman I lived with after we divorced, but with my second wife Debbie, it definitely became a thing that aroused me over time. I worked shifts, one week early, one week late, and Debbie developed a social life of her own. I guess our relationship was stronger and more trusting than the two I'd been in before, but knowing Debbie was out with friends and more than likely getting chatted up by men turned me on. Even more arousing was the prospect of her cheating on me, which I considered by now to be almost inevitable bearing in mind how horny she would get after a few dr1nks.

Somewhere along the line I decided that if she was going to do it, I'd rather know about it and over the course of about two years I slowly encouraged and persuaded her that I'd be okay about it if she did end up in bed with another guy. She was doubtful at first, but some role-play in the bedroom with a realistic looking dildo as "the other Man" eventually swung it and her first extra-marital encounter (that I knew about at least) was with a young customer at the shop she worked in. Debbie was assistant manageress, 35 and married with 4 kids, but that didn't put off this 23 year old lad from asking her out for a dr1nk. He got to fuck my wife 3 times and I was so proud of her.
Peter C

Great thread. Like many here I first knew the word as a Shakespearean word meaning a man whose wife was unfaithful. There was no hint of eroticism in the meaning, just shame and pity.
I became sexual active back around 1970. After a while discovered Penthouse Forum and other letters, but I do not think any of them used the cuckold (in my recollection). Nor do I recall a cheating wife being a topic. Hotwives, swinging and wife swapping was a big thing in the letters that I enjoyed.
I came to think of my fetish as voyeurism and exhibitionism. And I engaged in a lot of that from the start.
I was also repeatedly cucked, but did not realize that it was a turn on for me or others. When I first found internet porn one of the first sites was voyeurweb. From there I found hot wife forums, but the most erotic stuff was often banned. Lots of men with hotwives have all the best cuckold aspects, SPH, interracial, sissies, helping... So they created a separate group for that stuff which eventually lead here.

I do not think my first girl friend cucked me, but we had fun. We met a photographer who asked her to model. Seemed like a good idea. He took lots of nude pics (I was not present). It was a big turn on.
My second girlfriend we were on and off for years. She cucked me repeatedly. Once on a camping trip while I was in the tent in my own bag. They did not want me to participate. I quietly cried and jerked off. She was the first to ask me "is it in?" and "are you done?". But not the last.

My third girlfriend was older than me. She had 2 other lovers. She kept as all separate.

I was in a long distant relationship one time. A friend and I went to visit her. The first night my friend slept in the living room and I slept in her bedroom. She was not in the mood that night and would not let me touch her. Second night we invited her to go out with us but she said she already had plans. We got back late and when I went into the bedroom a guy was mounting her. I do not know what, if anything I said, but she said, I put a note on the door. I look at the note "sle ep in the living room, I put out blankets". When we woke up he was already gone. She was sitting at the kitchen table having coffee, totally relaxed, her robe open enough to show her tits and she had the most satisfied, freshly fucked face I think I had ever seen.

And on and on. But still I did not know that this was a fetish that I could cultivate and others shared until I found it on the web.
Thank you all for sharing my interests. I can add or expand stories if there is a demand.

The first I heard it was a "thing" was about 1976. My wife and I had been married for about a year and a half and we had our first little one. She seemed to have lost interest in sex and I was reading "how too" books and magazines and watching porn trying to get her interested.

Doctor Ruth had a late night tv show, and she talked about sex. At the end of the show, she took calls from viewers. One call was a young wife that explained that her husband would bring home his friends to have sex with her, and she asked if it was okay. Dr Ruth asked if she was using condoms, and she said yes. Then Dr Ruth said it was fine. I remember my wife and I looking at each other in shock. Also reading Penthouse forum helped.

Late in 78, we had moved in with another couple and when I got home from my first day of work, my wife explained my friend had come home for lunch and was flirting with her. I asked her if she wanted me to talk to him and she said no. Knowing I was unable to get her interested in sex, I asked her if she was interested in having "fun" with him and she replied I don't know...maybe. So the next morning before I left for work I told her to put on a large t-shirt with nothing under it. When I got home that evening I asked if anything happened and she pulled me aside with a big smile on her face and said yes, and she really enjoyed it.

He continued to come home for lunch and fuck my wife and when we moved into our own apt, he would still come over to take care of her until she got pregnant.

Over the years she fucked a few other guys and she was enjoying it very much, but I don't remember it being called "cuckolding" until the 90's. I think the Darkwanderer.net was one of the first I remember calling it cuckolding.
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