When was the first time you realised cuckolding existed?

When was the first time you remember realising what we know as cuckolding was something men and women enjoyed? I don't just mean 'when did your wife make you a cuckold' that's been discussed lots of times, I mean when did the penny drop that people got a kick out of their partner having sex with someone else?
Was it a movie or a song ? Or was it a comment about a wife 'putting it about ' and her husband not minding or a personal experience -something someone introduced you to? Or was it a discovery of a whole genre of porn and discussion forums that explore this subject.
Personally my eyes were opened by an older lady. I was 16 buying my first pair of jeans and she came into the changing rooms. My cock was hard in a millisecond and she soon realised I was a virgin and gave me my first blowjob- I reckon lasted all of 20 seconds!! She told me to come back for a second lesson and I was back the next day! She took me upstairs to the stock room and I had my first proper fuck. She was a big breasted blond in her 40's and wasted no time showing me how to fuck her hairy pussy. I was in heaven and came twice without even getting soft. Her pussy was absolutely dripping with my cum. She pulled her panties up and hurried downstairs. When I followed a few minutes later I asked the other shop assistant where she had gone. She told me she'd gone home to her husband- I was panicking, I thought I was in trouble but she said 'don't worry, he loves it, the fuller and fresher the better. He'll probably want to watch next time!!'
It was the first time I had ever heard of such a thing but the erotic charge it gave me fuelled an obsession for the rest of my life.
How about you?

I got funny feelings "down there" way back when I was a little kid in the early 1970s and saw the Batman episode where Catwoman brainwashes Batman, and they team up against Robin and tie him up. Julie Newmar in a tight-ass bodysuit and holding a whip is enough to slay any young lad, but when she and Batman were towering over poor, bound Robin with evil glints in their eyes, I remember getting that exciting feeling. Alas, Batman overcame the spell and rescued his little buddy, and so the image of Burt Ward wearing a maid's dress while serving Mistress Catwoman and Master Batman shall remain but a fantasy!

The fetish was brought into focus for me in the late '80s, when the only way to find kinky porn was in the adult bookstores, which sold tabular mags called "Corporal" and "Dominant Mystique" that contained "Dear Sandy" fantasy letters. One of these letters was about Rebecca, a gold digger who had a lover named Michael.

A scene from that story which is burned into my memory: The wimp hubby buys his bitchy wife a few car and she says, "darling I'm so happy. I'm going to drive by Michael and show it to him. Here, you can look at my legs for a minute."

And then she pulled up her dress a touch to let hubby look at her legs before driving away to show the new car to her lover!

That's my long answer!

Like many others I was first awakened to this by way of "Penthouse Letters". I was a young guy in the throws of puberty and would "read" every girly magazine available. Once I discovered the letters section of Penthouse I never looked anywhere else. Most of the stories caused hard erections but there was something special about the wife cheating and the wife sharing letters. Later in life after the internet became available I learned the terms cuckold and hot wife.

These became absolutely required in my relationships. My high school girlfriend cheated on me several times and I always took her back. Later when I married, I married a girl that had told me she was sorry for her repeated cheating, but it made her happy when a guy wanted to have sex with her and she could not find it in her to tell them no. I, of course learned at this same time that I had been eating cream pies. I remember telling her that she was so very wet, and her response had been that she was so wet because she wanted sex with me.

cwcobblestone
I love the Batman tale. I can relate to the frisson from seeing it in popular culture. I remember as a lad getting hot seeing the ex boyfriend carry on with Susan George in straw dogs ( not the infamous scene)but also getting that now familiar 'fizz' hearing Leonard cohen sing - 'you need to meet everyone just without any clothes' in the song 'everybody knows.'

subrookie
Hi. I can remember seeing a story in either penthouse letters or fiesta as a young man, newly married. It was a confessional tale of a husband seeing his ***** young wife used by a group of men at a party. I found it reproduced in literotica here The hyperlink is visible to registered members only!
It had a profound effect on me and I tried to reproduce the events with my young wife. It was not long before my wish materialised she was 18, very sexy with huge tits and adventurous. I watched as she was fucked by 4 older guys in a back room at a party in front of many of the guests. I still find the memory incredibly arousing

What memories do you have of your first awakening to this aspect of sexuality?

I think for me it was also some stories in the Penthouse Forum then I was young. During most of our own sub / hot-wife adventures, we didn't even know the term "cuckold." I'm not sure when I learned that term, but eventually discovering this site was a massive "ah-ha!" moment for me

One of my first jobs there was a guy used to read the letters out to the young lads and show us the readers wives. He used to say the redheads looked like his wife and asked if we would fuck her. He was a real perve and I know he persuaded some of the apprentices to get their cocks out..

"Anne Helps Her Husband" a trashy 10cent paperback that made its way around every one of us counselors at the boy scout camp during my 14th year. NEVER had I read anything so very shocking. A pretty young wife who purposefully lets her husband's boss, and his friends, fuck her to help her mate keep his job. IMPOSSIBLE! That could never happen! I wondered what would happen if her husband found out. And he did find out. And she explained that she was doing what was necessary for them to keep their house and their lifestyle. And he had to surrender to her logic and meekly accept what was going on.

Then I was shocked and disgusted again, when late in the book his boss throws a party at Anne's house and Anne's husband has to dress as the maid and served the men fucking his wife. And that husband again meekly gave in, including when he was told to fluff some of those guys.

Later that summer, one of the other counselors and I were talking about the book, and he confessed that he wished he could be Anne! He wanted to grow up to become a very promiscuous cheating wife. Later that night, for my first time, I shot my cum in his mouth.

Ever since, my fantasy is a very promiscuous woman, and if she has a very submissive husband, all the better.

Married_Dom
So it makes it hotter for you that she fucks around?
I'm fascinated, do you think it's HER experience or sluttyness that makes this powerful for you, or is it knowing how her submissive husband is humi1iated knowing every man he meets may have cum in his wife?

Fiesta Magazine as a teenager in the 1990's.

I enjoyed the stories -especially the "Wife Watching" Cuckold ones.
Even as a dopey teen I knew the stories were made up but I still loved them.

To this day, I'm hooked on Cuckold Porn!

rolio123
The type of slutty woman that I like is the kind who cannot say no. The type that feels bad for the guy so they agree to a date and once they go out on a date they are powerless to say no to sex.

Very rare to see that kind of submissive slutty woman married to a submissive powerless man.

But that is what I am attracted to. Submissive. Powerless. Free to use as I please. And one more thing, I prefer a soaking wet and very loose pussy to a tight one that needs to get lubed. But that is another story.

cwcobblestone

That Batman and Catwoman scene sounds amazing. I tried looking it up, but can't find it

Married_Dom
Would this be the kind of wet pussy you look for- it's my wife's....

I'm interested that quite a few of the replies say they were aroused by this before they heard the phrase 'cuckolding'.
I'm pretty sure it's a very old term, but does it seem to have become more commonly used in the last 25 years or so?
I seem to remember, although there was quite a lot written in penthouse letters, forum and 'I confess', I recall it was usually called wife sharing, wife watching or a hotwife story, and was often lumped in with swinging. Or maybe the internet just enabled the more specific 'kink' we would call cuckolding to become distinct...
What do you remember about how and when this became so distinct?

Yes, I don't think I was even aware of the term "cuckolding" until several years after my wife Debbie and I had discussed the possibility and agreed that she could go out for a dr1nk with a young customer from the shop she worked in. He was only 23, 12 years younger than Debbie, which appealed to her and we were both well aware that he fully intended to fuck her, married with 4 kids or not. Needless to say, he got what he wanted very easily.

Looking back, like others here, it was reading about unfaithful wives in the readers letters in magazines such as Fiesta, Mayfair, Penthouse and Whitehouse that especially aroused me. I never thought back then though that I'd get off on my own wife getting laid by other men, but I did and very much so.

Even though Debbie left me for another guy and we divorced over 8 years ago, here I am still enjoying cuckold websites, so these tendencies clearly never leave you.
Peter C

rolio123
would love to lick her for hours....
cocu a petite bite aimant porter de la lingerie

rolio123
Looks delicious!
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rolio123

I'm with pat87 and bobbye on this one. Your wife has an amazing looking cunt and I'd love to bury my face between her legs. I bet she tastes as good as she looks.
Peter C

I didn't have very much exposure to porn as a teenager. I think it was much less common for girls to look at it than boys. I had one friend that had some copies of Playgirl that we sometimes looked at during **********, but I don't recall anything about cuckolding in those. It wasn't until after I was married that my husband asked me to look at Penthouse with him. Although we read wife sharing stories, I didn't pay those particular attention. So, I was aware of the practice at that time, but not the term cuckolding.

After we had been married for a few years, our marriage gradually evolved into what would now be called a wife led marriage, although we didn't know the term. We didn't learn the terms wife led marriage and cuckolding until internet porn became easily accessible.

My first time was nearly 20 years ago. I'd had this girlfriend that I never had sex with, but she had a reputation for being easy. We only last about 2 months. It wasn't the best time, I must admit. But after I broke it off with her from being sick of being her meal ticket, I started to fantasise of her with others. Then I came across the term on the net and have been hooked ever since

The word cuckold goes way back-- to the middle ages. It was used by Shakespeare in several of his plays. But th meaning was simply "a man whose wife screwed someone else.
I got my wife to play with other men many years ago, and I referred to myself as a cuckold. But I was confused when I first joined chat rooms and other sex sites, when people asked questions like "did you prep him or clean him?" or "were you caged?" etc. I had no concept of such things. And then guys even would say that I wasn't a cuckold since I wasn't submissive or serve the "bull" etc. I spent some time trying to "correct" guys and explaining to them that cuckold simply means a man whose wife screws others...but I gave up!!! So many now assume all the other meanings that have become attached to the word. Now I don't even call myself that, but just say I shared my wife. Words change meaning; this one really has.

I remember first fantasising about it in my mid teens. In those days the internet didn't exist, so the best source of material to read was "readers letters" from UK "girlie mags", found on the top shelves of news agents (which I found hugely embarrassing to buy). There was a small one, mainly stories and letters, called Forum, that was better than most.

Yes, I liked Forum too!
Peter C

rolio123
I started cuckolding myself.Have allways Loved It.
My wife has allways told me,Your Such a good friend,Your such a good brother,Your Such a good s-on we were BNWO since 81.
I Love my wife being The Best Whore I Fuck her but do a lot of SO Many Great Memories!
Cuck me Cuck me Baby

Hubby Here:
When I was a teenager, I started going through my parents drawers looking for pot. What I found was something else entirely. There was a bunch of poloroids of my mom in various states of undress and sometimes just her spread for the camera with her pussy in full view. I was shocked and aroused but put them away. Yet, I couldn't get it out of my mind. I went back and there was a video and some dildos too, one being black. Naturally, I put in the video and found it to be my parents, fucking from when they were much younger. The video looked to be from the early 80's and was on beta.

When I went back again, there was a few notes between my parents with subtle things like "Did you like it chocolate?" or "we are gonna wake you up with your cocks." She would reply coyly and then once time, there was a note that something to the effect "I'm sorry I didn't bring you for a 3 some. I'm sorry. But I loved every minute of it." It was around this time that my ****** had changed jobs and I had a suspicion what she eluded to was with someone from her new work. I know this sounds made up but what I feared was that it was with one of the people I knew, who was black but that she hired to work at her office. Strangely, I never found any more notes but that friend did stop by to see us and say goodbye when he stopped working there and went to college.

A couple of years later I happened to see him and we started to catch up. We went to his house and were getting stoned and *****. I asked him outright "Did you have sex with my mom?" He stopped dead in his tracks and slowly said "Yes, but only because it was your Dad's fantasy."

I was dumbstruck. I went home and my Mom and I had a huge blow up about it. She said she was going to have my ****** explain it and strangely, we never did have that conversation. But it was at this point that it was all I could think of. It was my every fantasy. Whether it was my gf, some whore in a swingers magazine (and the finally the internet) or even my own ****** that got my rocks off each time, fucking one or more black men.

COslutwife
So,did you become a cuck?
If so,Have you cum to Love it?
I LOVE being cuckold

Yes, my wife is a hotwife and cuckolds me. We are still looking for my old friend and believe we know where he is but are too chicken to contact him.

You talking about the Black friend who Fucked your mom?

Yes, of course