Reality

Ok, time for a rant.... but the purpose of my rant is to try and educate the fantasists on here. I want to explain what reality is for a real life bull..... not what you imagine it is like, not what you "hope" it is like.... but what it is really like. I also want to give you an insight into why women might be attracted to men like me.... again the reality might be pretty far away from what you think and also what you think women want.

The reason for this post is that I am completely sick of cuckolds that talk with me and generally come onto this site with a flurry of activity and then try and build an instant relationship with me as a bull (I can't talk for other Bulls here... they might have the same issue).... anyway these fantasist cucks (fantasist in the main anyway) have their little kinky story in their minds and they try and manipulate the bull into giving them a version of their fantasy. The reality is that as a bull I do what I want. I'm a very dominant and sadist bull. When I'm with a wife I take total control..... now I do appreciate to the purists that they will say the wife comes first etc etc.... and from a duck perspective I am sure that is right..... but I take total control.... guess what? I find that is what your wives are most desperate for.... not a massive cock or countless orgasms (I think these things are cucks desires.... and wives get the orgasms but because of the mental state of being with a dominant man.) now I have been rough with women, told them exactly what I want and really pushed them, took them anally and as a sadist I've done some heavy bdsm on them..... guess what they come back to me.... they wish to be controlled. Now of course this isn't every one.... people are different. But, in my experience women want controlled, to be told what to do, they wish to be used sexually..... all the things the fantasy cuck does not do. So for folk contacting me.... be prepared for a level of reality that you don't control, your views of what you want as a cucks don't matter to me. I'm sick of so called cucks wimping out at the first deviation from what they want. There will be four or five cucks on here reading this that have contacted me in the past that will recognise themselves. They are playing at it and I'm completely fed up of cucks trying to control. You want a dominant bull controlling you, then buckle up buttercup and deal with the complicated reality that is in play. Lastly this is written from my perspective.... other bulls on here will have their own desires and ideas.

Bovril, on the whole I tend to agree with you. We are inundated with fantasists and 'wanna-bees' who have a fixed idea of what it's like to be a cuckold husband. The reality is often not what they think. I was fairly recently contacted by a husband on another UK based site who at first seemed very keen for me to cuckold him. His wife was gorgeous, very submissive, and extremely nervous. After some initial emailing and talking he wanted out, but she wanted to continue. He wants to be very controlling of his wife and cannot face the reality of the situation, i.e. that I will be in control, not him. He's now forbidden her to contact me and warned me off - he's a time waster. I still think she has a lot of potential, but I'm not going behind his back as that's her cheating on him. I prefer it to be all upfront as I get a big kick out of the actual cuckolding aspect of the situation as well as fucking the wife.

Hey take it easy you're quacking up

Could be he's a little 'quackers'!

Autocorrect is a real hunt and times ain't it??

I agree kenny.... the reality I see is a lot of cucks wanting to control the situation and play it all very safe and on their terms

Hi Kenny,

I can relate to this situation. As a fem sub cuck, I longed for the ultimate situation of a bull fully taking charge and dominating my wife the way I know she really loves, but at the same time the idea of it would sicken my powerfully, as powerfully as it turned me on! I too had a lot of doubts, and conflict, and considered laying down ground rules, boundaries etc. but I knew that to be a true cuck, I needed to man up, grit my teeth and just push through and deal with the aftermath of emotions.
I won't lie, some of the results have been tough to come to terms with. His cock is bigger than mine and she has told me honesty he gives her the better orgasms than me and it's quite simply the best sex she has ever had. But I am glad I pushed through, I have faced my fears and come out the other side, not a fantasist or a wannabe, or a time waster, but a genuine sub fem cuck. It's a difficult person to be sometimes, but at least I'm true to myself! It's cathartic....

Oh to find a true honest cuckold like you cummytights. I've given up hope though.

bovril
do not give up Sir. there are a number of us who truly understand that a cuckolding relationship is not about what we think we want or need. we are what we are because we wish for our Mistress/wife to have whatever it is that gives her the greatest possible pleasure regardless of what it means for us. yes i will admit that ********** to her every desire is in many ways exciting, arousing and has in fact become enjoy enjoyable for me (years ago i could never have imagined the exhilaration i would get from seeing the love of my life having an earth-shattering orgasm, her body writhing on the cock of a much younger and well-endowed black bull.) i have been directed to engage in what many would perceive to be utterly perverted acts, but have done it in the knowledge that it would please her and that is why i married her in the first place and that is now why i exist and why i will forever be her loving and adoring sissy cuckold for as long as she will have me.

This kind of situation often occurs when you just start poking some guy's wife before carefully reconnoitering any and all of its ramifications. Lots of baggage, drama and extra work for you and yet you are rewarded a little pussy from her and a big pissy attitude from the cuckold. Fuck that sh1t! Quit wasting time with mediocrity!

Smart fuckers go for the Bitch Wife who has everything under control! She's receptive and appreciative of your relationship with her and she is beaming her total admiration your way! The cuckold should always end up eating the sh1t, not causing the sh1t!

Select a dominant wife who knows how to rule her house and desires the occasional good fucking. Zero problems!
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!