Marriage taking a turn-maybe?

Not so much a question, as a solicitation for comment. Any welcome. I have been always in cuckold/hotwife/swing type relationships in the past. Current is male 51, f 39, wife has never played outside marriage. Recently, after much discussion, wife, who is an avid gamer on many formats, has admitted to "liking" one man, whom she has been playing one particular game with for a large percentage of her time. The male in question lives quite close, and the wife has provided much masturbation fodder through fantasizing about this male while being intimate with me. Example would be, while we are talking in bed, wife will launch into replies to questions from husband about said male, and drive me wild. I guess if i had a question, it would be, am I on the verge of something good again, or am I simply hoping against hope. There has been no discussion of a meeting between us, just the fact that in reply to my question last night, while masturbating, wife was asked if she "liked" this man, or if she "like liked him, she replied she like liked him, and intended to continue playing all her available hours with him, during which he calls her baby, and during which he has asked that he be given a name for her to call him, to which she has asked my thoughts on his new "pet name". Sorry for the length and all replies welcome.By the way, the marriage is 20 years old. They will chat via headset, and text, during play as well as he will call her in between game sets like rebooting, etc.

Good luck, but you need to encourage her.

mickle
Thanks so much, I feel I am. I really appreciate the reply

update: they are now playing together pretty much day and night. She just came in, to the bedroom, where i am, and said she asked him what he was doing, and he said laying down. She said she asked him if he was going to play, and he said i want you, and i want to play, and i love you. She asked me what she should do, so i asked her what she wanted to do. She said, I don't know what to do. I told her to do what she wants.

I think you need to be a little more positive in your responses to her if you're hoping to get some results.

kennyboy82
Could I ask how I could be more positive? I was being supportive and positive I thought. Any advice would be amazing

She just sent him a topless pic, this is getting good

they have been talking and playing together since 10 pm last night, and she just sent him another pic, totally nude. She also just texted me, and wanted to know what I would say if they wanted to meet. I told her to have him come over asap.

You don't need my advice, this is moving right along pretty good under its own steam I think! Just keep up the encouragement, without being overpowering with it. She's definitely heading in the right direction, nude photo's and making plans to meet up, it's as good as happened! Keep us informed please.

kennyboy82
kennyboy82
Will do. Have been a lurker for a long time, too long, maybe life is going to be back to normal again. I have missed it so. And thank you.

YOUR WIFE SHOILD HAVE A BULL AND LOVER. ENCOURAGE HER. This man she likes should become her first Bull. Then she should find others! She is at the perfect age and enjoy sex with various mens. Even have her try the black experience. I would love to host her at my home if possible.,

MASTERNLOVER
She actually has had exclusively black before me. She was raised by her sister, who was married to a black man, and they lived in a predominantly all black neighborhood. It looks like things are going to be good again for me. He is very handsome, and he is as sweet as he can be. He has been a slow starter, but he is really getting bolder now. I am talking to her, and texting her also while they are talking, so i look for my life to get better very soon. Thanks for the great advice and opinion to all, I relaly appreciate it

After finally going to bed at midnight, I woke up at 4 am to find her on her chat headset, talking to him. I sort of listened from the middle room, and it was very heated. I heard her ask him what he wanted at one point, and when I asked about it, she said, as she giggled, he said he wants me. I told her again, she could have him come over anytime. I asked if he had said anything else like I love you, or anything like that at all, and she said he almost always signs off that way. I asked her if she ever got wet talking to him, and she said she has. I also asked again if she felt anything specific when he did say it, and she said yes, she felt but was not specific. I did not wish to press too much, as I have seen it cause issues before. She just returned from the store with me, and they are going to talk further in an hour or so, and I told her she could have him come over, so we will see. I am so happy right now with what has already happened, but yet very excited about what may be coming soon. Thanks everyone.

Encourage them to sext naked pic's to each other. The next time you are fucking role play talking of him fucking her instead of you and by all means after you bust a nut in her go down on her while pretending it is his cum you are licking from her gash.

i122
thanks so much. I do regularly eat her after I enter her, and if I can not enter her, we "rub clits" her words, and we regularly role play that he is in her. I believe after Today, this will happen when she wants to. We had a 3 hour talk this morning, and I told her this was a situation she needs to explore and she says she is only waiting to get to know each other a bit better. She is set on doing this.I will mention the sext and the rest. Thanks so much for the great help.