My Wife is flirting....need some guidance

Ha! That is awesome! Right now, I just love the fact that this guy is flirting with her.

It's an early start to my day, but my wife is going to an all day event, and I'm watching the kids this Labor Day. This morning, before she left, she mentioned that her "friend" might be there too and that she was happy because she would have someone to talk to today. I instantly kissed her and she said "what's that all about?" and laughed. I told her, nothing, just go and have fun and I hope you find him so that you aren't alone.

It sounds like she enjoys teasing you a bit, which is wonderful. One of the best things about this lifestyle is the way it brings you closer together, sharing many little moments like that.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Ok. So I got a text. And not from my wife......it was from him saying that they were hanging out and having a great time, asking if that was ok. I haven't responded yet.....

texasranger
I hope you texted him back telling him to not do anything you wouldn't do and too have fun doing it!

I can't wait for a update!!! Best post in 2015!!!!

this is amazing. I need an update!

Ok so, sorry for the late update. So I texted him back about 10 mins after I made the last post. I told him that it was awesome you all get to hang out and have fun! I texted my wife and told her that I hear she and him were having fun. I got nothing in reply. So I texted him back about an hour later asking him to tell her to check her phone. He hit me back and said, don't worry, I'm taking care of her. Whoa!! So I tried calling her, voicemail. So I'm now at home, my heart is racing as well as my brain about what is going on. About 5 hours later I get the "on my way" message from her. She gets home and I ask how everything went and she said fine, had a great time, met up with our friend, and that was that. We went to bed and we fucked all night. Not make love......we fucked.

Soo did she say if anything happened?? Do they text or message eachother?? Have you checked her text messages or her Facebook messanger?? Sounds like things are definitely heading in the right direction. You should ask him if he had a fun time and tell him that your wife had a blast and won't stop talking about him...I really think you can start opening up to him more he sounds like he has no problem being in charge of your wife or you....be bold and tell him what you want...

I haven't checked any messages of hers. I want her to be able to tell me and still trust me so that's out of the question. I'm going to text him today and tell him thank you for taking care of her. He's ever so slowly becoming her protector, it seems. Especially if I am thanking him for being that person in her life now.

texasranger Well, like the old saying goes "Trust but verify". LOL.

She disappeared for five hours with another guy. During that time she ignored your calls and texts. When you asked for an explanation she basically dodged the question, telling you she "met up with a friend".

Face it. She probably lied. You have to decide if that's hot... or if it's not.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

I agree with PC. Because you say after she came home you fucked like crazy you should have picked up a vibe if you were the second to be in her that night. I know that if she took the time to shower and maybe douce and/or he wore a condom there may not have been much tell tale evidence but sometimes it's the little things that you can pick up on. For instance if she was supposed to have been at a bar did she smell like she just came home from a bar? Hot sweaty smokey etc or did she smell fresh from a shower? Was there any unusual marks on her body and did her pussy look red swollen or relaxed? Were there any unusual smells or tasted being emitted from her? Next time she stays out so long with "friends" and you are fucking her after she returns start to role play. Pretend like she had been fucking the guy and try to get her to engage in role play conversation. Afterward you can coyly ask her if she was only role playing or if there was a tiny bit of truth in her words. Whatever happens good luck and enjoy

I promise you if you check her phone or her Facebook messanger you will be suprised at what you find...woman are just like men and are better at getting what they want. My guess is she sends him pics....

How are thing moving along?? Would love to get a update...

Any update? No news is usually bad news on this website...
Peter C

We'd all love to hear an update!

Yes definitely update us.
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Hey everyone! My apologies for dropping off the face of the earth. Work and life, they get in the way. I do have some updates to pass along......and it seems like everyone is kinda interested. First off, let me say that I appreciate the advice and comments from all of you.

So, I did take the advice of getting us all together to go out about two weeks ago. I set everything up and of course, her customer was more than willing to meet us both at a club close by to where we live.

My wife wore (bear with me, as in a guy and I'm not sure of proper women's apparel terminology) a thin white tank top, white bra, and amazingly tight jeans. Hell yes. Let me say that prior to going, I told this guy that I was a horrible dancer and that she deserved a guy that night who she could dance with but to be advised, she gets playful when she ******. He was more than eager to show me how it's done. I jokingly mentioned to my wife that he was going to be my teacher so to speak.

So we met up with him, and of course this dude is decked out in a thin light blue button down shirt, dark jeans, dress shoes, and some damn good smelling cologne that when she saw him, the words "oh my god, you smell good" we're the first thing she said to him.

So we sat down and I bought us a round of shots (one of many) to start us off, we downed those and he said, "bro, you ready to learn?" I lean back, and said "it's all you". And he grabbed my wife by the hand and off they went up front to dance. It was crowded as hell when they started so it was tough to see at first. The music was fast and they just went out and did the usual club stuff. She was having a blast from what I could tell and when the crowd parted enough to get a glimpse of them. They did this for a couple of songs and came back to some more shots that I ordered.

THEN, the slow stuff started. You know the songs. So they both looked at each other and then he looked at me for a sort of approval to go back out there. I said "bro, THIS is the kind of dancing I need to learn". So he turned to her and said asked if she was ready and SHE lead the way! Holy hell, this was good!

So first thing, her back is to him and he grabs her hips and pulls her close. They start slowly moving in sync with each other. Both slowly moving up and down, his hands staying firmly on her waist while hers were above her head. Then the crowd started blocking the view. Maybe they moved more forward to create this effect, I couldn't tell. I had a huge buzz going. When there were gaps in the crowd, I could tell that her hands moved from in the air to behind his head and his had moved higher up. But then, I saw what may be the best part of the night. His head went down to her shoulder and neck area and he either whispered something or kissed that part of her and she immediate layed her head back onto him and turned to the right. He went in to meet her face and at that point I was convinced they were going to kiss, but her hand went to his mouth and she put a finger to his lips. Denied! He looked like he laughed and they finished out the song and came back. We took turns dancing with her and just had a great time after that.

It's not what I was hoping for, but I loved watching them together. He did kiss her on the cheek when we parted for the night.

Again, sorry for the complete lack of updates for a while. I'm back and will keep you updated.

Thanks for the update! Sounds exciting, even though the end result wasn't what you hoped for.

Maybe next time, you could stay at home and set it up so they have an evening alone?
Cuck who loves a creampie.

A great first step! She's surely had some feelings awakened by the whole experience. She'll think about what happened, and it will lead to thoughts of doing more (even if you're unaware of what she's thinking). It's all about baby steps here. Don't push. Give her time to process what happened. I wouldn't try to arrange something to get them alone. This early in the game she's probably not ready to be alone, and that would only pressure her. It could be too soon, which you don't want.

Talk with her about what happened. Let her know that you got a tingle watching the two of them dance. Tell her that you thought they might even kiss... and that you would have been okay with that. Basically you want to let her know that YOU found it exciting and you would be okay if they had done more. When you do that, it often makes them feel less guilty about any naughty thoughts they have. Talking about it should lead to a deeper discussion, which is what you want. The more you talk about it the more she'll think about it...
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

I think a number of get togethers with all three of us is in order. Either way, we all had a great time. He's a polite guy, I would love to hear what him or anyone else thinks about her. I think I'm more turned on about that than anything.

next time he sends a text to your wife, tell her what to say in her reply, keep her flirting with him and see how far she will go
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great posts!

You need to find an opportunity to pull him aside and get his thoughts on your wife. It could be very enlightening, and may also offer a chance for you give him some encouragement, let him know you're cool with the whole thing, etc.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

love this story - progress. please keep it coming as you can! thanks!!

Great story! Hope it happens soon for ya

texasranger

Any update texasranger?

I've definitely been enjoying reading this thread. Thank you for all of the messages posted in it!

My suggestion, for what it's worth, is to very (very) lightly start teasing her about "your boyfriend."

xoxoxo

Christine (not born female)

I like it! A simple, but subtle, way of helping things along.
Peter C

Thanks, I hope it's helpful.

xoxoxo

Christine