I found out I was a cuckold before I knew what it meant

My first wife and I were married in August 1970. We lived in upstairs apartment. The people who lived downstairs had a nice lawn behind their back patios, upstairs we had a balcony that over looked the back yard.

Very nice. I've got a back garden, does this make me a cuckold?

I had a similiar experience. I had never even heard the term cuckold until about 20 years ago but back in 1971, I had been involved with a woman for over a year and living with her for 5 months. When she ended the relationship, she actually brought her new boyfriend to the apartment and in front of him while he hugged and kissed her she told me that 'you have the softest erection ever' and that I never satisfied her. Oddly, as she humiliated me,I started to get hard. I should have realized then that I would end up a future cuckold.