donna4blackuse
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Next time tell her if the guy was a real hung stud, her being married wouldn't have stopped him from getting her number. It would have made him hotter for her. Loving Wife, Mother, and Bryan's Slut
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mule76
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Yeah good idea, I should have talked more about him to her to try and get to become a tolerable moment and maybe for the next time if someone ever does that she will be thinking about that, maybe thinking to herself, "hmmm wonder if this guy is a stud enough to continue to pursue me even if I am married."
She is currently somewhat out of town on a business trip. Unfortunately it isn't some business trip where something might happen, she is solo and only like 3 hours away from home, but is just staying down there for a couple days. I told her to take a toy and some naughty sexy clothes so that one night we can be naughty and text each other while she dresses up and uses the toy on herself while we talk. She really liked the idea and as far as I know she took her toy and some clothes as I looked where we keep our naughty clothes and toys and things had been moved around and I couldn't find her vibrator....Last night was her first night there and I tried to get things going, but it didn't seem she was too interested and got a little too tired.
Anyways, this could lead to something fun, especially if she is away and has her toy...I could talk to her in while she is very hot and tell her how i Imagine she's brought some stud back to the hotel room or something.
But last night when she wasn't really playing along, I decided to watch some videos online and came across a video under the cheating wives section on a site and it's a blonde chick that looks very similar to my wife. It might have been the hottest video I have ever seen, as it was an amateur video and the girl really looked so close to my wife. Super hot as she just silently rode this guys dick, all awhile I am thinkiing how hot, this girl has a husband at home and he has no idea she is sneaking around. She will go home well satisified and he has no idea.
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donna4blackuse
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Oooh, send me a link to that video.
When you talk to your wife, ask her if any studs hit on her today, looking to have an out of town married woman. That's how it happened to me the first time. It could happen to your wife. You just have to set her in the right frame of mind. Loving Wife, Mother, and Bryan's Slut
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mule76
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I will find that video and post the link. It is so hot as it's an amateur video and the side and back it looks so much like my wife I about melt in my chair when I watched it..
I told her today about the video. Told her that I was looking at some of her photos and reading a naughty story online and started looking at videos and came across one of a girl that looked just like her and that it was like watching her!
She thought it was funny and told me, "I am the only one you ever get to jack off to. Get it!?"
I sent back. "ohh yes! And if you ever want to find a bull and do him while wearing a fishnet suit go ahead because I feel like you already did and it was super hot."
She must have laughed since she sent back. "hahaha"
I then told her how hot it was thinking she could be doing that and coming home and I could lick her and do her enjoying every inch of her body competing with him to do her better."
Her response freaked me out. She said, "Please!!!!"
I got super excited and sent back, "well...haha"
Her: "I want that!"
Me: "Competition?"
Her: "Like how?"
darn....again she must have misread the text.
I told her "Well get a bull ;) "
Her response of that of saying my name with a bunch of periods after it...indicating I was crazy.
I then told her "Don't say no, because just thinking it is possible is super hot to me, whether it comes true or not."
Her: "Okkkk"
Later in the day I let her know how hot she was and how badly I wanted to serve her. She said, "mm good I like that."
I then threw out the idea of how badly I want to be very naughty and be her slave. She then offered for me to drive down to her hotel tonight for some fun.
I told her I would love to and we could turn her hotel room into a dungeon of sorts. She asked how and I told her I would bring some toys and what not and she could tie me to the tub, shower or walls. Do whatever.
She asked for a check list of things I am to bring. I told her I am bringing, a ball gag, hood, restraints, whips, strap on, and an outfit for me to wear.
She said that was good and that she already had an outfit for herself so I didn't need to bring one for her.
I can't believe she is down for this idea...As she is on a business thing, and even more hot is I think her co-worker (female) is in the room right next door to her, or at least very near it.
I sent her a text saying. "Feel free to be as naughty and dirty as you want..your body is so hot I want to worship it in the naughtiest way."
Her response was, "good i like that."
I can't wait to see what she has in store.
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mule76
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I just texted her asking her when I should head down. She said "leave now to get here in time. I'm just laying out by the pool."
I jokingly sent a text back, "Has any lifeguards hit on you yet?"
She said, "hahaha one talked to me but never really flirted."
I asked what he said and she said he was just talking about the people there, sounded like trying to make small talk.
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donna4blackuse
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I love the way the guy in the film holds "your wife's" head while he jerks into her mouth.
Do you thing you might get excited watching that happen to your wife right in front of you? I'm betting so.
You are handling things well. As I've said, don't rush it, but keep up steady pressure. It won't be long now until she is riding a big cock. Loving Wife, Mother, and Bryan's Slut
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mule76
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Donna - Oh aboslutely yes! I would LOVE that! I can't stop thinking of that video clip as I just imagine it being her and it instantly makes me hard as a rock.
Last night when I got to her room we started talking about the video...She said, "I think you basically just watched porn and got off to that."
I told her no it was much much different because the girl looked like her and it was like watching her. She didn't believe me at first and debated it. So I told her that when she gets back home we will watch it and I will show her. She seemed eager and asked, "Ok show me now." I told her I couldn't as I didnt have access to the internet or my computer, she asked, "We can't watch it on your phone?" I guess we could have, but I don't trust going to those site using my phone in case somehow I get a virus.
Anyways, we laid there and she started lookng at my phone and going through all my photos, mostly the ones of her and the ones she has sent me with her in sexy outfits. As she is looking through them she says in a serious tone, "Gosh, Im so hot." and "You are so lucky to have a girl that looks this hot." Continuing to look at her photos she said, "Do you even deserve this?" But it was in a normal serious tone, I don't think she intended it to be used to make me horny or to start our role play of a Dom/Sub session. It was WAY hot to hear!
Finally, we started kissing and I started rubbing her and she ordered me to go get dressed. As she went to the bathroom, I took my clothes off and put on my spandex shiny black pants where we cut a hole in the crotch area, on and also started to light candels. When she came out of the bathroom she was wearing a black bra, and a short mini leather skirt.
The first thing she noticed was the candles lit and the lights off, giving the room a darkened dungeon type feel. "Mmmm I like the candles, it's hot." she said as she came close to me rubbing her leather skirt up against my exposed hard cock.
I gave her a kiss and her lips tasted amazing. feeling her leather skirt on my cock and tasting her lips almost made me hyperventilate.
She dug into the bag of toys and started to put the ball gag on me and the leather hood. She had me stand there as she lightly started whipping my chest and rubbing the whip around my balls.
Next, she reached in and pulled out our large strap on dildo..We have two, a skinny flexible rubber black one and a large thick white one. "Time to fuck you with the big cock." She said with a grin as she slipped the strap on around her waist. "This time I am fucking you with the bigger cock, that skinny black one is a joke, it's worthless. I can't believe you even tried fucking me with that, now that I know it's so small you're getting the big one."
She slowly rolled a condom onto the dildo and ordered me to get on my fours. "Get on your hands and knees and point your ass up, slave!" she demanded. I did exactly as I was told and bent over waiting for my fucking. I felt the cold tip of the condom touch my butt and I braced for the pain to follow as she had control of me. "You better enjoy this." She said as her cock slowly penetrated my tight ass. She kept pushing slowly until she was fully in me. I heard her laugh as she then began to slowly penetrate back and forth, I moaned helplessly as she now had complete control.
After awhile of her doing me doggy style she ordered me up and to put my hands on the desk, she demonstrated how she wanted me to stand. The desk was in front of a mirror. I put my hands on the desk and spread my legs up and once again felt her stiff hard dick power itself in my ass. I moaned and she laughed saying. "You like this big dick fucking you huh?"
I whimpered, "Yes mistress."
"SAY IT!" She demanded, "Say you like getting fucked by a big dick!"
I moaned louder as I muffled through my ball gag, "I Love getting fucked by a big dick, mistress."
I could see her smile through the mirror as she said, "Good."
She continued to fuck me harder, faster and deeper as she teased me, "you like this. Are you gay??" Again she laughed and continued to fuck me hard.
She pulled out and demanded for me to turn around. I did and now was facing her beautiful body and her dildo. She smiled at me and said, "Get down there now and sniff it."
Whoa!! Definitely taken back by that demand! Super naughty and dirty, would have never expected her to make me smell the dildo that was fucking my own ass. But I did as I was told and bent over and gave the dick a big whiff, after one I waited for her to give me a different command, but nothing, just heard her say, "Sniff it." and I gave another big sniff.
"mmm good now it's time to fuck me." "Now you've seen how someone is suppose to get fucked, so you better fuck me like I fucked you."
She laid on the bed and I started fucking her, I was about to cum immediately so I pulled out and suggested I wear a condom as it will take some of the feeling away from me. "good idea" she said, "It will feel better for me anyways since it's ribbed and your dick is so worthless."
I put the condom on and continued fucking her, she moaned she was going to cum...We were only doing it for maybe 30 seconds before she announced it. Might have been the fastest she had ever came. When she was done she took the condom off of me. "get of the floor." she commanded for me to do.
I got off the bed and laid on the floor, "Stick your tongue out." She said as I stuck my tongue out of my hood, she brought her feet over my mouth and slid her foot down making me lick her from heel to toe. "You're going to lick my dirty feet that I've been on all day, wearing nothing but sandals."
She did this a couple times before she sat down on my chest, I could feel her wet pussy on my chest as she stared at me for a bit, then she slid her ass up over my face, looked down at me and said, "Lick me, lick me in the ass." And for the first time I was licking my wifes ass! It was super hot! While licking her I was looking up at her eyes and she was just starring at me, I think amazed at what I was doing and loving the control she had on me. As I was licking her and starring up at her I heard her say, "You're pathetic licking my ass after I Just fucked someone else."
"CUM!" she demanded after awhile. and I did just that, shot a huge load all over myself and some even flying past my head!
She had me clean up all the mess and put away all the toys, "Make sure you get everything, I don't want to see any of this laying around." she said in a bossy tone.
When I left she said how great it was and I told her it was amazing.
This morning I texted her asking how her night went after I had left. she said, "Good!" and then asked me "How was last night for you??"
Thinking my wife early in the morning was thinking sweetly and not naughty I said, "Well I missed you."
Her: "Ummmmm" "Nm....."
Me now realizing she actually meant what we did quickly responded, "Oh last night...was amazing!!" "How about you?"
Her: "Did you honestly forget???" "I will have to find another slave if so.........."
Me: "MMmmmm NO I didn't!! It was super hot!"
She then said, "You haven't said what you liked or anything...or even commented....." Mind you that I had just woken up and when I got home from the long late drive last night I went straight to bed. But I do after sessions or when we do something new, comment on it to her the next day, but again, had just woken up!
Me: "I liked ALL of it! What about you?"
Her: "It was really good."
I asked her if she had any favorite parts and she said the candles and me going down on her (Which I assume was me licking her ass)
Anyways, I think she really is liking being a Domme now and seems very comfortable, almost as if she is liking it that we do it more often or she incorporates the lifestyle more in our daily lives. I think me introducing the candles and setting the mood as if we were in a dungeon made it a lot of fun for her and she enjoyed it a lot.
But I am thinking that if she is starting to really enjoy being my Domme as much as I think she is starting to like it, it will be a great pathway into the cuckolding lifestyle eventually. As she will start to get more and more comfortable in the dominatrix lifestyle and want to maybe branch out and try new humiliating tasks and things that maybe she comes around to the ultimate control and offense of her fucking a big dick.
Also some positives in the fact of the little things of, maybe she really enjoys to watch this video of the girl that looks just like her..And seeing how much it turns me on. Her little comments of saying how hot she is when looking at her photos and that I am very lucky or asking the question if I even deserve her. And even the little thing of her noticing the lifeguard talking to her and I think her understanding more that I really am very turned on to the fact of her being in control and having someone else please her.
I don't know, lots of stuff, but possibly a lot of doors opened up, seems like we are moving along maybe.
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mule76
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I continue to send her texts about how good last night was and how hot she is/was. I suggested that I serve her over the phone tonight if she can..She said, "mmm only if I let it."
I told her she could make me wear anything, do whatever and take pictures of me doing that or take pics of whatever she wants.
She said "mmmm ok"
So hopefully she feels a bit frisky tonight and wants to continue this.
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donna4blackuse
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Start telling her how your cock is not worthy of her and how she deserves a big cock to take care of her needs that you can't. Loving Wife, Mother, and Bryan's Slut
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mule76
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She ended up being too busy last night to do it so we unfortunately didn't get to play at all. Hopefully tonight we can as it is her last night there and will be returning tomorrow. Donna i will most definitely say that. See what her response is.
I just came across something so hot...I was looking online for some sexy knee high socks for her to wear and came across Ebay selling them, well I click the link and they are USED socks!!?? Wow..I immediately began thinking how hot it would be to sell her used socks online and just knowing someone is willing to buy them for pleasure. I know for a fact she would never be up to doing that, lol, but man what a hot idea.
I am also getting tempted to make a fake facebook account and just send her a message. nothing too out of the ordinary, but just maybe a message saying, "hey sorry, I know this is going to sound very weird, but i saw your photo through one of my friends pages and saw you are extremely beautiful and just had to send you a message letting you know as beauty needs to be recognized." Something non aggressive, but just to see IF she would even respond to a message or not. Curiosity is great, but I also don't want her to get the feeling it is me as she might suspect it is.
Hmmm I just found out that she was RSVP'd us to a party this upcoming Saturday night at her close friends house...I will try to get her to wear something at least a little sexy and "partyish" style like a short skirt and heels maybe? I enjoy these get togethers as I usually purposely walk to the other room and watch her have conversations with people, hopefully men. Guys do tend to flock towards her and will talk, but none seem to try and flirt or anything, usually just normal conversations..I think a lot of guys are intimidated by my wife as she is very good looking. She always said in school that every guy liked her, but none would approach her or try to hit on her because they all thought they had no chance with her. Her and her friends say this...I think it holds true today as although some guys might talk, they never try to elevate the situation, maybe because they know she is married and aren't even considering it? Or don't even know about cuckolding at all to think it might even be on someones mind. I would love to see a guy try to hit on her during the night and see how she responds. When she takes a bit she can become outgoing.
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Hi Mule76, I remember reading your original "My Introduction Story" and thought it was very hot and well-written. I know you said you deleted it but any chance you might re-post it?
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mule76
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horton: Hi Mule76, I remember reading your original "My Introduction Story" and thought it was very hot and well-written. I know you said you deleted it but any chance you might re-post it? Thank you! Well, I would, but completely deleted it and don't know how to bring it back and I didn't save any of the postings on my computer. So I don't know how I would go about doing such a thing. I would bring it back if I could. I appreciate your interest in it thought. A little update and I hope to update more tonight... I was at the gym and thought I would tell her that the trainer who had asked about her before was there again today and see where the conversation might go...This is the text convo I got from her while I was at the gym. Me: "This is weird.." Her: "What" Me: "Remember that trainer that asked about you that one time? He's here today and he talked to me acting all nice." Her: "Well he probably didn't want u mad at him. What's his name?" Me: "I don't know he didn't have a name tag." Her: "Describe what he looks like." Me: "He was just like 'Haven't seen you in awhile.' it was a small talk conversation Me: "Probably 6'4 brown hair, sorta big arms." Her: "Hmmm not sure." Me: "He was probably seeing if you were here haha." Her: "Doubt that" Her: "Does he wear dress pants that are too tight and short?" Me: "No athletic pants." Me: "It's rare anyone especially a trainer just randomly comes up and talks, only time it's happened to me they try to sell me something." Her: "Well Ryan did......" Me: "Who!?" Her: "That guy who I liked from my old gym talked to you about me a long time ago." Me: "Oh yeah! Yes...the two guys have talked to me about you! Me: "So this guy probably was seeing if you were with me." Her: "Maybe...." Me: "Well I better leave as I don't want to get a boner at the gym." Her: "Hahahahahaha! Yes good idea." For those who had read my previous thread, the Ryan character was this guy she thought was hot at her old gym and I told her that he came up to me one time and asked about her, similar to what I did with this current trainer. So she remembered that moment, and it was awhile ago, probably a year or so ago when I mentioned that to her. Right I sent the "Who!?" Text I immediately remembered I told her that he had approached me asking about her. I slapped my head in stupidity for forgetting, but can't believe she didn't forget! I sent her a text telling her I had an idea and asked her if the reamister she liked the candles the other night was because it set the mood, made it a bit more kinky. Her response was, "yes....." I told her that we should convert our bedroom into a dungeon when we have sessions and that we could go to a fabric shop and get leather sheets for our bed and set up anything else in the room to give it more of a dungeon feel. She said, "hmmmm fun!!" I asked her if there was anything else should could think of for putting in the room and that after all it was HER dungeon..She said, "I will have to think" So excited to see if she comes up with anything, but also to convert our bedroom into a dungeon would be great and hot as she certainly seemed happily in the mood with just the candles lit and lights off. Can't imagine how much fun she would have with even more things set up to give it a darker kinky feel. Hope there is more to update tonight as I am hoping to have a naughty texting session with her for her final night there, maybe do what we were suppose to do last night!
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mule76
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Well she is getting back tonight and earlier today said it would be fun to light candles again and her dress up, also she wanted to see that video of the girl that supposedly looks like her. However, that was earlier today and it seems she is going to be getting home later than expected, so my guess is she is going to be too tired and all this might have to wait until tomorrow or something.
Last night I was snooping around online to find signs of women who may be cheating, just to see if my wife has shown ANY of just maybe one little sign, but I got nothing. Funny, most the sites I went to were help to find out and all the guys were investigating hoping not to find out she was, and here I am wanting to snoop around hoping she is!
But reading posts from guys who suspect their wives are all seemed to have one thing in common. A large and diverse (men and women) workplace. Seemed like most of these women were flirting or hooking up with guys at work. My wife does work, but she works in a female dominated work environment and I think there might be maybe 3 or 4 guys, but all not even capable of being anything. And she is a homebody, so besides shopping and gym she is usually home hanging out and we don't ever 'go out' much to a scene where mingling could take place. So our social lives are pretty bad.
I think the trick here is going to be continue with the Dom/Sub relationship, get her more comfortable with that and more confident and have her enjoy it more and more, and also try to figure out how to get her to be more socialized environments, I always encourage her to go out with her friend or friends when they ask. Sometimes she does sometimes she doesn't. I do know that it seems every time they go out guys buy them takes.
A thing I forgot to add to my post when we had our session at the hotel room...While I was fucking her with my hood on I tried talking dirty to her, telling her that she needed a bigger dick to fuck her right. She responded, "Shut up and fuck me, that's all you're good for." mmm it was hot!! Because she said it in a intense way.
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Update:
This might be a very very tiny update, but it shows that seeds have been planted and at least those seeds have been planted in her head.
When she got home she was singing that Fall Out Boy misterg "My Songs know what you did in the Dark." As I posted earlier in this thread I told her that misterg was about cuckolding and so was one of their other mistergs.
So, hearing he hum that misterg I just simply asked, "oh, you like that misterg?"
Without me saying ANYTHING about the possibility of the naughtiness behind it, she says, "Yes, but I don't think it means that."
I began to tell her that it sorta does and that their other misterg for sure does, considering it's music video that goes along with some of the mistergs lyrics, she asked, "How do you know?" And I told her that I read about it online, "Does one of them say they have that fetish?" I just told her I didn't know, but they do say that We're Going down swinging misterg is about cuckolding.
Yes, extremely small, hardly anything really. But it does go to show that when she heard that misterg she must of thought about our conversation we had earlier.
Another thing that is starting to show is I think she really is starting to enjoy being a Dom to me and I think this whole Dom/sub thing is going from just sometimes of our sex lives, into our everyday lives. I think within time this might just be our lifestyle. She is starting to control my looks and tells me what she wants as far as my looks go.
I usually have short hair, but recently due to pure laziness of going to get it cut, I let it grow a bit, well I want to cut it again as it is starting to annoy me (the length) but she really likes it getting longer and told me, "I like your hair like this." I proceeded to tell her that it is starting to get annoying and she replied, "Well we can trim the sides, but you're keeping this length. You listen to what I want and I tell you how you're going to look, especially if we are going out together."
whoa! She meant it too and she didn't mean to say it to get me aroused at all. It was firm and in a completely normal conversation. I was somewhat shocked and all I could do was stare at her grin and say, "mm that's hot"
Today, I wanted to get texting with her to try and progress things, see if her mind has changed at all. I started telling her that each day I seem to get more and more horny towards her and more submissive to her. She replied, "mmm i Like that!" I told her that I am almost obessesive with her and sex wit her. She said, "As long as it's only about me!" I then told her that of course I only think of her and that she is my goddess. But I slipped in there, "Now you, you can think of anyone. lol" She just responded "omg"
I then told her that I like to take pictures she sends me or I take of her and put my own captions to them. And proceeded to send her one of that we took at the hotel of her in her bra and leather skirt saying, "Get on your knees and lick me."
Her response was, "Oh goodness!! haha" I sent her another one explaining that this is what I thought about A LOT while she was away..It was a pic her again in her leather skirt and bra and she had this sexy grin on her face, the caption I sent her wrote. "I'm wearing this because he is coming over...I bet you wish you were her."
She responded, "omg! Stop! hahaha"
The only other thing is I suggested we order a toy she wants to online (awhile ago she suggested she wanted to find a dildo that SHE liked and wanted). She was suppose to find one today and we were going to order it later. I sure hope so, because at the very least she can cuck me with her new toy.
I am also hoping to show her that video of the girl that looks similar to her, see her reaction and see if she gets into it. The title will be even better as it says "Cheating Wife" or whatever it is.
small steps.
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Well it is a shame that she isn't a cuckoldress, because she certainly would make a great one! My goodness, she comes home today wearing super tight jeans, high high heels and a sweater that barely covers her belly button, and she is wearing some hot pink panties and you can see them at times peaking over the jeans waist band around her hips and of course ass!! I had just jacked myself off before she got home too, and I instantly got a boner when I saw her walking around like that. Couldn't believe she went out in public wearing such revealing clothes!
Now she just left to go buy herself her summer shorts. She is on the hunt for some super short ones and then she is working out at the gym. Interestingly enough before she left to the gym she was re doing her make up...Coincidentally shortly after I mentioned to her that the trainer approached me again? Because I don't know her to really ever put on make up before going to the gym. Maybe she is doing so just in case "he" is there and she wants to look good, whether it be innocent or not.
We usually go to two seperate gyms, but same company, so you can go to either or. I prefer the one I go to, she prefers the one she goes to, but tonight she is going to mine. So I just find it funny that the night she is going to mine, shortly after I mentioned the trainer she is leaving with some make up on when she never puts on make up...Also, she walks out of the bedroom after getting dressed and says, "wearing your favorite workout pants." As they are the ones that are super super tight and shiny, if you get in the right light they are almost see through because they are so tight.
Of course all this could be coincidental and also just simple vanilla wife/husband playful tease.
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donna4blackuse
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I hate to keep repeating, but keeping up the steady pressure and banter will get you where you want to be. I have to sit in on sales meetings a work occasionally and they always hammer then with persistence wearing down resistance or something to that effect. I have noticed it to be pretty much true all around. Loving Wife, Mother, and Bryan's Slut
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mule76
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Thanks Donna! I don't mind if you keep repeating yourself, especially since they are words of a positive note. I can't help but think that one day, especially as we get older that this fantasy will soon very much appeal to her. I was reading somewhere where 60% or something of wives do cheat. We are still young so I have plenty of time, with slow progress eventually it could lead to somewhere.
She came home and showed off her new jean shorts the bought. They are SUPER short...She said, "These were the shortest that was still allowed in public."
They are certainly short, from behind they barely cover her ass cheeks and I can't help but think that with some moving around and what not they might not just bunch up and expose a cheek. I was shocked at how short they were since her last pair of short shorts had a good inch or two lower than her ass.
But it is almost as hot now for me to imagine her sneaking around behind my back. I think it would be so hot if I were to find out she was doing something without me knowing, adds to the sluttyness of it all. She did say she didn't tell me she sometimes thinks of other guys when she gets off even though she knows its a huge turn on for me because she thought it to be rude and mean to me. Highly doubt she would, but super hot to think about her just having some afternoon delight or hooking up after the gym and simply not telling me to avoid maybe hurting my feelings...
My problem here is that I think about this allllll day long everyday, there is no break. I am simply overly horny for her. I can jack off and 10 minutes later think of her doing something naughty or wearing a sexy outfit and I am raging hard again..I don't know what is wrong. The problem is that I want to talk kinky all the time with her (especially at work, since I'm super bored) but I feel like if I do it everyday it would get annoying to her, since she isn't horny all the time like myself.
I'll be sitting around during the day and send her something and try to strike a conversation up on something kinky, hoping she would play along. But again, I do this everyday and I feel either repetitive in my words, or that I am extremely annoying to her about it. I wish she would just pretend to play along, I mean it would be as easy as sending me a text saying, "hmm this hot guy just looked at me." Or.."This guy asked for my #" it doesn't even have to be true, just say it to tease me...I would recommend her say these things, but then I know in the end it is fake and wouldn't have the same affect as if I was left wondering..Also, sometimes I do tell her to send me pics of herself or ANYTHING throughout the day, even just a pair of her boots, simple pic and let me mind do the rest. She doesn't do it. Just wish she would unleash her naughtiness as well, as I know she has it. But I guess women are wired differently than men and do not think of sex 24/7.
When I do tell her that I fantasize about her all the time and that I hope it isn't annoying to her that I express it, she does say she likes it and as long as I am only thinking of her...I tell her I am, but she reinsures it every time...And it is true too, I do fantasize about her all the time and ONLY her, like I posted before..I think I am sexually obsessed with my wife and that each day I get more and more submissive to her and want to let her have more and more sexual power.
I guess where I am getting at in this post...Is it healthy for me to be this horny all the time and obsess sexually over my wife like this? Might sound crazy to even ask that, which is fine..but I seriously fantasize about her all day everyday.
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elina
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Dear Mule,
Thanks for your updates.
Yes, I think it is healthy for you to be obsessed with your Wife's sexuality all of the time. Maybe you should stop wanking to detect that this will make you even hornier and more obsessed with Her.
Your Wife definitely seems to be past the point of no return; She now enjoys taking control of you. One key element of femdom is that the more submissive you will act towards Her, the more Dominant She will become towards you. I think you should increase your presentation to Her. She has started calling you Her slave, how about you approaching Her and telling Her that you like this and think it is time for you to serve Her even better. Suggest to Her that She should start to become more demanding with respect to you performing work around the house and other things that are not directly sexual but which She would still appreciate. Always remember to thank Her for Her orders and comply immediately. If you do this at the same time as you stop wanking when your Mistress has not told you to, I think you will enjoy it even more and love your Wife even more.
Eventually, She will start cucking you; but only when She is ready for this. This is when it should happen anyway...
Sincere regards elina
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mule76
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Elina - Thank you! If I stopped wanking I would be even more hornier and more obsessed without a doubt, but maybe over the top to where I would annoy her. lol. Just yesterday I must have relieved myself 3 times, all thinking of her and relatively close in time to each other. Well, one in the morning and two at night, after I saw her come home in that outfit that was revealing and after she left for the gym.
She definitely is enjoying dominating me more, she has come leaps and bounds from when I first introduced her to the idea. I like your thought on telling her I want more demands from her, and to do more of the work around the house as a way of serving her. She obviously would enjoy that, and it would be a great gateway into her understanding she has even more control and realize that she has complete control over me. As she does, I just don't think she knows it yet.
Even though she says she prefers just the vanilla type of sex, I think with more playful fun and a bit more experimenting, she will simply just dominate me without even knowing it anymore. Which, when that happens opens the doors to a bunch of other things.
I still need to show her that video of the cheating wife that looks like her, I can't wait to see her reaction, to see if she gets excited about it or if she gets put off by it. I do wish I could talk cuckolding in bed while doing her, but the problem I run into is, if I bring up anything related to cuckolding while I am doing her I cum almost immediately, which then just causes frustration on her part because she is stuck. I want to talk dirty to see her reaction and if she gets into it, but if I do my ride is over...which she might then be hesitant to bring that topic up in bed since it makes me orgasm too early, so she might stray away from that talk. I have to come up with a trick to either lasting longer, or talking dirty with her without blowing my load immediately.
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jabal244
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I have a suggestion for you. In the interest of making things last longer, and to prolong your fun. It also will help your wife increase her excitement and awareness of how hot she is. Have her put on a really sexy and revealing outfit. like her new shorts or a very short skirt without panties and some loose fitting see-through top and heels. Have her stand in front of the mirror and check herself out and explore her body sensuously paying attention to how her own touch makes her feel while watching. then have her tell and show you how she would like a lover to touch her as she demonstrates and brings herself to orgasm. That will give her an orgasm first and t the same time make her hornier and make the second orgasm come quicker from you as well as helping her become more aware of her own sensuality and hotness. My ex-wife and I used to do this fairly regularly and some times I would come home to find her playing and extremely turned on. We had some of our best sex after her orgasm. She started to dress hotter at work and really began to enjoy feeling sexy. We had some of those Ben-Wa balls and she used to use them in public as well. There also panties with beads in the crotch that she could wear as well. Just something to try. Feeling really turned on in public is a really good way to get her ready to flirt with someone, especially at a club or a bar, or dancing. Good luck Mule!! Try this. It can really take things up a few notches. My wife cucked me way back in the 80's. It was the most fun ever, and It all started with the time in the mirror and the sexy clothes in public.
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mule76
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Jabal - WOW!!! That is super hot!! I will definitely suggest her do that! The only problem is, I might just cum watching her haha or as soon as I could touch that hot body. Wow, great idea though! I will suggest and see what she says, my guess is she will be willing to try that. We have those benwa balls too and she wore them out once (think I posted about it when we went out) and she said she really enjoyed wearing them out, she thought it was hot! I will continue to look for another opportunity for her to wear those out in public again.
But great idea with the dress sexy and watch herself! Definitely see how that could open up a lot of doors if she finds it enjoyable.
Right now she is trying to find an outfit for the party this weekend...I came home to her wearing these new high heels she got, short neon colored shorts and a loose fitting tank top. Super hot looking..Whatever she chooses to wear she will look hot, especially if she shows off her legs. I will try to find an opportunity to step aside and watch her from afar when she gets into a conversation with someone.
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jabal244
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It would be cool if you put up a pic or two. The ones you had in your other post were hot. But if she starts dressing up in public more often the pics will, i'm sure will be even hotter and she might be willing to pose, possibly just because it makes her feel hot and sexy especially knowing that other men might see them.
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donna4blackuse
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Jabal's idea is right on target. You need to jerk off for her while she's doing it, so you won't be so quick on the trigger.
While she is explaining how she would like a lover to touch her, start talking about huge cocks and how they touch a woman in places that a guy like you cannot. Start showing her videos with huge cocks (BBC would be even better, but maybe start her off on vanilla). Subtly let her know how exciting it would be to see the depth of orgasm a big one could give her and how it would excite you to see her in such bliss. Her pleasure is your pleasure. Loving Wife, Mother, and Bryan's Slut
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mule76
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Jabal and Donna those are great ideas! Thank you, I will give them a try. I will tell her I would like to see her dress up in something that is sexy to her, and watch her pleasure herself while she looks in the mirror. To avoid the cuckolding theme at first, I will say. "Show me how you want to be pleasured." Just to introduce the idea. Eventually moving to "show me how you want a lover (or him) to pleasure you."
Somewhat already started on the bigger dick thing as far as watching videos. Seems like when we do watch movies the guy is always a bit larger than usual and she seems to be amazed. But ones that are super huge she gets amazed by them, but at the same time comments they are too big. Whether she means that or not, I don't know.
As far as pictures, I would love to post them again, but it would be against her wishes and I hope that she will again be open to me posting, as I won't posts pics until she says I can. As she said before, "people should have to pay to see my pictures."
Last night in bed, she was laying there and talking and she got on the topic of "Does my body look good?" I think she was just overall frustrated she hasn't found an outfit that she is happy with for the party. I told her of course and everything, told her her she was hot. She said, "I Know my face is, but is my body? Like my legs look good?" AGain, telling her of course and how hot she is and that she gets me horny all the time because she is so hot.
She then asked, "You think other people think I am hot?" She asked in a humble way and this was pure natural talk, no sex or kink behind the motivation of this question. Just a wife asking. I got rock hard though, and then began to tell her of course people think that! Then it was if she thought about it for a second to wonder if it were true.
Wives probably do this all the time for their husbands or ask this question and it is no big deal. But when your mind is that of a cuck's that question or statement is amplified by 100. Sure, it probably means nothing, she just wants to look good just like any other women..But at the same time, how hot is it to know that she wants to look good for others. Not just me, she knows I think she is hot, but she worries about others.
I will suggest the mirror thing today, see what she says. I think it is absolutely a great idea and super hot. We will see what else my horny mind brings up to ask or talk about today as well.
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HornDog69
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mule76: As she said before, "people should have to pay to see my pictures." Having seen your wife's pics on your original post, I agree with her. Please tell her I would pay to see her pics.... Though lacking a mechanism to send money through this site, I will beg.....
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mule76
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HornDog - thank you! I will fit in there somewhere that someone said they were willing to. lol. Yesterday I suggested the pleasuring herself while i watched and her dressed up in something sexy that SHE WANTED to wear (making sure not an outfit that is for my liking, but hers only) and watch in the mirror. I asked her the hotness of this and if she would want to do it. She said, "mmm sounds like fun..not sure about the mirror though haha." I told her. "I think you would find it hot and sexy to see your hotself in the mirror." Her: "MMm maybe haha." I left it at that. Yesterday we went shopping, she went to a store she loves and was just checking things out, she came across these short shiny gold shorts. Hard to explain how they looked, but they were definitely on the side of sexy and eye appealing with their shiny matte material. Now if this was my wife just a couple years ago she would have laughed at the eye appeal of these shorts and thought they were 'over the top' but to my surprise she considered buying them for the party on Saturday night. "I could wear these to the party." She said, and you must have been able to tell the excitement in my voice when I agreed with her. But then she said, "Don't know when else I would wear them." I encouraged her that she could wear them when she goes out at night this Summer. She pondered a bit, but ultimately ended up deciding to buy a new pair of wedged heels for the party instead. Wedged heels with black straps around the foot and ankle. They look hot. Her outfit for Saturday is wearing really short hot pink shorts, with a loose fitting black tank top that length is pretty long as it only shows maybe an inch or inch and a half of her shorts. Which is somewhat sexy because it is as if she has no shorts on at all. And her new heels. Looks hot. We will see how it goes, holy water will definitely be involved and I am sure there will be plenty of guys to talk to. I heard about 30 people will be there (little party) but with holy water and if I step away for a bit, at the very least I could just see her interact with a guy or two just innocently talking, but I will know in my head that the guy is probably WISHING he could hook up. Horndog....Just on curiosity, how much you say you'd pay
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mule76
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Ok...A couple things to update..It's been a couple days since I have posted updates so this might be a bit lengthy as I try to capture the last couple of days. Friday during the day we started texting and I told her that, "if it were socially acceptable, I would walk behind her on a leash with a t-shirt that says, 'she owns me'." She laughed and replied, "People already think that." I was intrigued and asked What??!? She replied giving a situation where we were invited to a party and on the invite it had both our last names, and someone commented on if we hyphened our names together when we got married, she told them no, but if she wanted to have done it she could have made me. (told this to the permister asking the question) I guess the permister laughed and said "I can see that." This was super hot as I had no idea people we knew could see or sense her ownership over me. That night I was up doing something late on the computer and she came in before she went to bed and asked "You going to be long? Or can you take a break and come to bed?" Knowing she wanted sex I told her I will come in soon after a good stopping point. I quickly found a stopping point and it was only no more than 5 minutes after she came in asking me to come to bed. when I got to bed and started kissing her she said, "You don't ever leave me waiting. You fuck me on my time and when I say so, we don't fuck when you want to, only when I do." She said in a stern voice, this caught me by big surprise as I wasn't expecting this type of talk. She then continued saying, "If you want to be my slave you have to listen to me." I apologized to my mistress and she said, "If I wasn't tired right now I would punish you. But for now you're going to fuck me, and better fuck me good or I will find someone else to do it right." Again taken by surprise by the dirty talk I apologized and said, "yes mistress" and I started to slowly fuck her, I asked her, "Mistress what would my punishment be?" As she took my dick she laid back and said in a calm voice, "you would be on your hands and knees while I whipped you, and then you would be licking my feet." I moaned and she continued, "You will be punished tomorrow, I will punish you tomorrow." It wasn't long before she came and then got off me and let me jack off. While I was stroking myself she was giving me heavy kisses, letting her spit slide into my mouth and licking my lips to give me more of her saliva. It was super hot and she said, "You're so lucky you even get this." I came shortly after that and she mentioned how good it was. I could tell she liked it by how wet my dick was. Saturday - The day of the party... We arrive to the party and immediately started takeing. She had a few takes early on and mentioned she was "feeling it" But I will keep this sweet and short. Nothing happened. She barely talked to any guys there and mostly spent her time talking to the females. Although my wife did not flirt with anyone, some of the other females seemed to flirt with other guys...They were also wearing some clothes that were eye catching, one girl wore a short dress and knee high boots and she was getting into conversations in a circle of guys from time to time while her husband was elsewhere. Another wife there was wearing a dress and sat on the couch with two other guys, no lap sitting or anything, but definitely thought to myself how hot it was to see this wife, shoes off, sitting comfortably on the couch between two guys. Probably all innocent for these wives, but for a wannabe cuck like myself, I took notice. They were also all takes so who knows..Those two wives seemed a bit flirty while they were takes. This morning - After we woke up and she was getting dressed for the day. she asked me. "Did I look hot last night?" I told her of course she did, she was super hot. "Do you think the other girls were jealous of me? Wishing they were me?" She asked, I told her I bet they were siince she is so hot. Then she asked, "Do you think the guys there wish their wives were as hot as me. Or wish they had me instead." Instant hard on in my pants...I said, "Yes! I bet they went home and thought of you while they fucked their wives." She just laughed. Shortly later I walked up to her and gave her a kiss and she felt my hard dick rub up against her, "Why are you so hard!?!?" she asked. I told her, "Because you made me hard." "How?!" She asked surprised. She apparently didn't connect her question about if the other guys thought she was hot to my hard as a rock dick. That is where we are at...I just thought it was super hot that she was asking those questions about last night and that it was out of pure normal everyday convo. No intent on making me horny or anything. As far as nothing happening at the party, I think it was simply because she hadn't had enough takes and she probably wasn't very comfortable with the group as it was only our second or third time hanging out with these people, and the other girls who were there that i mentioned seemed a bit flirty after a couple of takes have been apart of this group for years. So they were more comfortable. Maybe in time if we go to more get togethers my wife will feel a little more comfortable and loose. I did not get any punishment though yesterday when she told me Friday I would receive one but who knows it might be coming? She is definitely getting comfortable in this Dom/sub thing, and I really feel like she is starting to have fun with it and it is starting to go down the road where this might just be our new lifestyle is a Dom/sub relationship and not just in the bedroom, but in everyday life. Although my wife is very self concious of her looks and always wants to look hot wherever she goes, it was just hot to hear her say she hoped she looked good for a group of people that we know and sometimes hang out with.
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mule76
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Update -
I've let things lay low for a little bit, haven't brought up anything kinky or related to cuckolding, today at work I didn't text anything sexual or kinky, sorta figured to give her a break. Well, maybe a key ingredient to all this is to give them something everyday and then take it away...
As noted in many of my posts I have usually texted her daily while at her talking about my obsession about her and my fantasies about her. Well today not doing that I get a text from her saying..."Wanna be naughty tonight....?" Of course I replied with an emphatic yes!
When we got home we sat down had some dinner and watched a show. Randomly in the show one of the people says "cuckolded" my wife repeats it in a bit of a surprise voice. I didn't even notice the word being used, she was the one who heard it and then repeated it. Little steps.
My guess is she will want to do something after she goes to the gym. I just hope it's kinky and I serve her..
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jabal244
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Don't ever stop Mule. Your story is unique and interesting. I look forward to reading every update. Find the misterg (it's from the 80's) called "I touch Myself" and have her listen to it. Maybe she could act it out and tease you with it. I just listened to it last night. It might at least provide some inspiration.
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mule76
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Jabal - Thank you! And with my story I hope to one day be able to post that it finally happened. I will check that misterg out and play it for her.
Well, she ended up just finding me and started kissing me right before she left for the gym and we ended up fucking right there. She came quickly and I was trying to hold myself in because I wanted her to jack me off and I would have started asking her questions about cuckolding, but unfortunately as she was cumming I started thinking of the dirty talk I was going to ask and came as well. So nothing real naughty or anything. The only thing progressive about it, is, it sets me up for not talking kinky for a day, her the one pointing out in the show that the guy said cuckolding...and not talking kinky to her last couple of days provides for some kink talk in the near future (maybe today) Although I need to think of someway to get on topic.
a VERY interesting nugget I found yesterday was...I was snooping through her phone (as I hope to find a text or phone conversation, or a naughty photo I didn't recieve...But I did see on 'recent call' list a video chat to a guy she went to a dance with back in school....However the video call was outgoing it did say "canceled" after you clicked details. Interesting about this is my guess was it was an accidental mis dial and she didn't mean to call him, but she never told me anything like, "OMG!! I accidentally called so and so with video chat!! He probably thinks I wanted to talk to him! So embarrassing!" type of story as I would expect my wife to do. Also since I don't think she has talked to this guy since school either, so I would expect her to say something about how embarrassing it was that she accidentally called him. but nothing.
He isn't attractive at all and she laughs at herself for even going to the dance with him because she wasn't attracted to him and she went just because it was a group date.
Again, the info on the conversation just shows that it was an outgoing video call and under duration of time it says 'canceled' and with knowing her non attractiveness to the guy it is clear it was a mistake.
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