It works for us (and my mates think I'm a sex God - if only they

I met Sarah at a singles night. We seemed to hit it off pretty well right away and it seemed easy to be open with each other. It turned out we'd both been married twice before and both had a fair amount of 'baggage'.

Because of that we both agreed that we would take things nice and slow, really get to know each other and that's exactly what we did. For three months we went out four or five times a week, we chatted for hours at a time and were never shy in what we talked about - we really did both want to get everything out in the open. The subject of sex came up frequently and I certainly found it tricky to talk so openly, hear all about what she liked and what her s*******s were only to have to settle for a kiss goodnight and never sex.

Sarah was 27 at the time and i was 33, she was slim build with 36c breasts and nice legs - she always dressed sexy too.

We really did cover everything in our conversations, she knew all about my failed marriages and I'd admitted that the size of my cock and my low s******* level in the bedroom department probably played a big part in things falling apart and both my ex-wives being unfaithful to me. She didn't seem too worried about my cock size which was reassuring to me.

I did however have some concerns because both of her previous marriages had ended because of her infidelity. She admitted she loved sex and loved the variety of men. But she'd had therapy and councilling and was actually avoiding having sex for a few months as part of that therapy. Again I felt reassured about dating her all this time with no sex although it didn't make going home and having to jack off knowing that my girlfriend was hot and a sex addict.

Because of our open discussions about our fetishes I also ended up telling her about the cuckold sites and other sex sites I visited on the internet. She took everything as if it was perfectly normal and we continued to date.

We'd been dating six months, still not had sex, we hadn't even tried mutual masterbation. I'd not seen her even semi-naked (although she wore a lot of revealing clothes). She suddenly announced one day that she had completed the therapy she'd been having and that she was ready to have sex. The instant bulge in my pants must have been obvious despite my lack of size. Then she hit me with something I found hard but at the same time aroused me big time.

"You know I love you so very much Andy, but you've told me yourself that you have a small penis and I don't want the first sex I have in six months to be anything less than amazing - and small dicks have never done anything for me."

I didn't know what to say, I sat there speechless. But she must have expected that and she seemed to have things worked out...

"I've done a lot of thinking over the past few weeks, I've thought about everything we've ever discussed, and I've researcarbonsmudged some of the adult sites that you've told me about. I came to the conclusion that we really are perfect for each other. I've had failed marriages because I long for the variety of different cocks and you fantasise about your partner fucking other guys and are worried that your small cock will lead to another relationship break up. We can solve both problems with one solution."

She went on to explain how if she fulfilled her sexual desires with other men that my fantasy would come true, I wouldn't have the worry about not satisfying her with my undersized cock and she wouldn't have to worry about being unfaithful because how could be unfaithful if I know all about it.

It was bizarre, one part of me wanted to say "no way", but the way she explained it and the way she reassured me that she loved me and that she saw love and sex and very different things left me convinced the idea made sense.

Every question I asked she could give an answer that made it seem like the best idea in the world. But then I asked one which gave an answer I wasn't expecting... "And will we make love often?"

She just smiled and said "don't you see, that's the best part - you never have to worry about your sexual performance honey, because we're not going to have intercourse."

I tried to reply "but, but, but... er... but what, but.."

She just gently pressed her finger to my lips and said "shhhhhhh, let me explain my love."

"If we have sex you are never going to satisfy me, especially if I'm getting regularly satisfied by some well hung studs and you won't want the stress of knowing how you've left me frustrated. Plus it will help keep our love strong if we totally seperate love and sex. And don't worry you'll get to masturbate as often as you want and I'll give you hand jobs on special occasions too. I'll even pose provocativly on the bed while you pleasure yourself."

I asked where she was going to find these 'studs' and she just laughed, stood up and turned around to show off her stunning figure, then flashed her stocking tops at me and said "do you really think I'm going to find it hard to find guys that are up to the job?" I had to admit she had a point.

In the end I agreed and although I was really unsure to begin with the relationship has worked out amazingly well. We are totally in love with each other and we have friends who envy us because the strong bond we obviously have.

We relax in the same bed, we cuddle and kiss and do loads of 'couples' things together, if anyone saw us together they'd not suspect a thing, in fact most of my friends make comments to me about what a lucky guy I am and often ask how I managed to end up with such a prime piece of pussy (their words) - if only they knew! My friends all think I am some kind of God because I've got such a hot girlfriend.

Sarah has a number of sexual partners and always seems very happy. I've never been allowed to watch her having sex. In fact I've not actually seen her naked, she's been careful about that, always making sure she as at least wearing lingerie when I am about and always slips in and out of her night clothes in the bathroom. When I asked her why that was and if I was allowed to see her in the nude she just replied "admit it Andy, it drives you crazy that you've not seen me naked doesn't it? - in fact that helps keep you heavily aroused and makes your orgasms stronger doesn't it?". I had to admit she was right once more and she's done amazingly well at keeping her assets at least partially covered when I'm about.

Sarah often tells me about her sexual exploits while I jack off, I rarely last more than a few minutes and never last to the end of a story.

It's two and a half years since we first met, we've lived together for 1 year and 9 months and we're both very happy. It's 3 and a half years since I've had sexual intercourse as I'd not been with anyone for a year before I met Sarah and I know that as long as our relationship works out I'll never actually have sex again. That bothered me a little at first but I've come to feel secure knowing that I'm under no pressure to perform and satisfy my woman and there's never a day goes by where I'm not totally turned on by my situation.

We're now planning to get married and Sarah has already begun laying down the ground rules for our wedding, etc. Once again all of them make sense - maybe I'll share that with you all another time.

Andy.