Wife about to take the plunge

Hi guys. I'm new to this but have had an ongoing fantasy of watching my wife being played with by another cock for sometime. I would hope that when this happens it will lead to her being owned by another guy who can use her at his whim. Anyhow, a few months ago I discussed this with my wife. Initially, she thought it was "different" but was unsure about trying another cock. She said it was something we could perhaps explore at some stage. Since then I have raised the subject a few times. I joined a swinger site but did tell her and she did allow me to take some pics a post. I had a lot of interest but she did not show an interest in looking at profiles. We have done some role playing and games (such as her taking photos of her pussy and tits at working and sending to me). A few weeks ago I asked if I could arrange a man. She said she still needed to get her head around the idea. However, I'm guessing she must have given it some thought as I told her I was arranging a man this weekend when away. She said she was nervous/scared but when I offered to cancel she didn't say cancel. She asked if I would be there and I said of course. So it's lined up for this weekend. The guy knows that if she gets cold feet all bets are off but I think once he starts playing she will relax and enjoy. I will update how things pan out but i assume others here have had a tentative wife, so any advice or experiences I welcome. We did this once before but involved a girl and no repercussions

Good luck..... wish I could give you some sound advice to secure the deal, but it's ALWAYS the womans choice to play or hold off. The seeds are planted.... give it time to grow.

Keep us posted.
Cuck who loves a creampie.

Hi bunny games

Welcome to the site.

It can take a long time for wives to get their head round this. It includes wondering why you would "give away" such a prize asset to what if they fall in love with the other guy. Wives often consider the risk of damaging the relationship much more than us guys do. And in a way, their caution is a healthy safety valve.

It took a number of years for my wife to accept the suggestion and be comfortable enough to proceed. Even then it wasn't without its occasional issues but I do have to say that the total rush you get when you know someone else is using your wife's pussy for their total enjoyment is amazing.

Let us know how you get on. If she gets cold feet don't worry or get frustrated, just try try try again!

Best regards

Syncro

Wise words Synchro. Couldn't have put it better myself.
Peter C

Good luck.

Hi and thanks for the advice.Unfortunately she did get cold feet. The day before our meeting she went and bought new lingerie, which I took this as an encouraging sign as she said she would wear it the next day. Later that night in bed I asked if she was excited about tomorrow and she said yes but then asked if I meant about meeting the guy. When I said yes she said she was scared about doing and it felt weird and asked if I would cancel. I agreed as I didn't want to pressure her but she knew it disappointed me. I'm unsure if she will play at some stage or not. I'm thinking of trying to maybe get her started with cam chatting etc and maybe porn but any suggestions from someone who has been in my position would help. I know you can't read my wife's mind and predict her actions but I am so desperate for this to happen, I'm open to any advice

Bunnygames

You did the right thing by cancelling. She wasn't ready and it might have been a disaster. However, in cancelling you have shown her that you are willing to wait and not push her into something she hadn't got comfortable with. Her buying the underwear was a positive sign. And her initial willingness suggests you will eventually get there.

There are many different types of cuck and wannabes on this site so don't think you have to emulate the. Find the level that works for you and your wife and it will be a long term enjoyment for you.

I think many of our wives do not have a clue how attractive they are and dont know how much other men would love to fuck them. This was the case with my wife despite being being (in the words of numerous men) "fucking gorgeous". I had to get her more comfortable with men in social situations where they would compliment her. I was lucky that she loved to go dancing and encouraged her to join a local salsa club. Not only did she feel more attractive but she also got used to other men being physically close with her.

She realised she was attractive to men and became more curious about the possibilities. The other thing for her was the need for permisteral safety and comfort so getting to know guys socially beforehand was important.

Each night when she returned from the dance club I would tease her about the men she danced with and how they fancied her and wanted to bed her. Eventually she started to admit that some guys were very interested in her and made it clear in the way they chatted and held her close. She started to dress sexier for the club nights and got asked to go along to other clubs. I was very supportive and after a while she got asked by a regular dance partner to go to his house some evenings to "help" him practice for a competition he was entering. She asked if it was ok and I said yes, of course. In bed I teased her that he wanted much more than dance practice.

When I saw how sexy she was dressed for her first visit I was shocked. she asked if she looked ok. I said yes but her top would look better if she left her bra off ( she is 32DD). Without a thought off it came.

Suffice to say, she came home very wet.

It all took time but it was worth it. She had to realise that men were attracted to her and then get relaxed and confident in the company of other men. The fact that dancing involved intimate holding and contact helped her get comfortable with them. The final piece in the jigsaw was her feeling that she had choice and with my prompting she had chosen her 'friend' herself.

It worked for us. You have to find your own way. One that works for your wife and helps her relax and accept that you are wanting her to have a nice experience. My wife wouldn't let someone fuck her just because it turns me on. For her it is being a sexy attractive woman who lets someone she likes fuck her with my agreement.

Good luck

Syncro

keep us posted. I love to hear about how couples get started.

Hi. Have decided on a different tact. Previously she would take a naughty pic of herself during work and send to me if I text. More recently she has started sending some herself without prompting. In the past she posed for pics she knew I was posting on a swingers site. I'm thinking she may be wondering if I am sharing the pics with anyone. Anyhow I 'm thinking of sounding her out if she is ok with me sending to other guys. If she is I would then see if she is ok taking pics of herself and sending direct to some guys. Hoping this may excite her and a different way to get things progressing. Has anyone tried this and if so keen to hear if successful etc

Would it be possible for you to share her pictures with us? Hope it woks out.

Hi yes. Can do. Moved house so trying to reset up computer tonight as iPhone won't let me. Have a couple of shots. She's 37 and in good shape. I think you guys will like her...

Bunnygames

So looking forward to seeing your lovely wife. How are you getting on with that computer?

Best regards

Syncro

Photos would be great! We can help encourage your wife....

Hi. Waiting on Internet to be reconnected but should happen later today Australian time. As soon as it is up and running will post. Will appreciate comments and suggestions in due course

Hi Computer finally back on line. Some pics for enjoyment

here's another

and one more

Bunnygames

She is a sexy woman. Lovely slim legs and a sexy and inviting pussy. Any man could have a fantastic time fucking your wife and sending her home to you open, wet and used.

I think you need to erase her into this a bit at a time. Involve her, let her get complimented by men, let her feel attractive and sexy, let her think she is making the choices. Don't arrange a man. Show her several guys and tell her they all fancy her and want to fuck her - ask her which one she would choose. Her participation and feeling that she has chosen her lover will empower her.

Good luck

Syncro

PS any nude or topless pics would be appreciated

Mmmmm..... yes, that sexy woman and hot looking pussy should be shared with others and returned all loose and sloppy for you to enjoy.
Cuck who loves a creampie.