New Poll - [CUCKOLD COUPLES] Are you "out" about your lifestyle?

I'm curious - for those of you who planned it to be "out", did you find this lessened the excitement of it all? Or increased it?

I would think keeping it illicit would be far more exciting, but I suppose if you're more into offense, it might be more exciting to out yourselves.

Do you think that's the main difference between those who do NOT want others to know, and those who DO?
Wannabe - see my captions at http://www.cuckoldplace.com/27_74912_1.html

I'm not open about it. I'd prefer to keep it separate, although I'm an "undercover" cuck, and I'm not even sure about that. I think my gf has cheated on me, but I have no proof, and it was not because it was our fantasy, but just because she felt attracted to this guy.

But even if it were happen with both being in the same page, I'd like to keep it private and as far as possible from our normal life.

Sort of like when smoking pot. You don't go all around your family and your office telling you smoke pot. You just do it with your sexual partner and those in the "smoking" circle.