After Years, She is close -- update -- Did It!!

I have fantasized about my wife having sex with another man or couple for several years. In here it is not a strange fantasy, but I still do not understand how I went from your typical girl on girl fantasy to wanting my wife to be with another man. But this desire grew and I eventually confided in my wife who went through the typical emotions from being upset to turned on: not in one day of course, over months/years. She asked your typical questions: why would you want that? Is it so you can screw around? What would it do to our relationship? And so on. Well, I have always said I would be very patient and I have. It has been many years since I first introduced the discussion. Don't get me wrong, once my wife got over the immediate concerns, we have had many great sessions where this fantasy was played out. This has grown over the years and it really has dominated our sex lives almost completely. The problem is, my wife would always say maybe someday but would never try initiating anything, look on line or even chat a little. She really never once seemed like she would ever move to make this happen in reality. Of course I would push her often and many times felt that the only way I was going to be able to make it happen is to set her up; something I said I couldn't do as it was deceitful. Within this last year, I started to send her some captions from this site. She liked getting them and called it flirting. She even asked me when she would leave for work if I was going to flirt today. Well as luck would have it, she started to travel a little on business and I talked her into playing with herself and then send me pics to prove it, which surprisingly she did. I guess I should have mentioned, my wife has never been with anyone else besides me and due to her upbringing did not feel it was right. Well on one of her trips, I kiddingly set up a craigslist ad stating that I wanted to have someone seduce my wife. I then let her know what I did and set up an email account which forwarded to hers to receive the responses. She didn't get mad but stated she couldn't go through with it but enjoyed the responses. That is until they got way out of control and she asked me to stop forwarding them. I then filtered through them and sent her pics and continued pushing her. She never did agree but she wouldn't just tell me no. I then picked one guy and told her that I was going to see if he could make it to her hotel and if so would she meet him in the lobby just for takes and of course anything else she wanted. She didn't say no!! Well, as it was getting late he had already made other plans and it wasn't going to happen, but I didn't tell her that. I told her it still may happen and I would call her when he arrived in the lobby. She said she may meet with him. I let her stew for a while then told her it didn't look like he could make it and she was relieved but she admitted she was extremely excited as well. This led to me setting up an account on Swing Lifestyle with her permission. I must admit I still never really felt anything would happen but it was fun doing all of this and led to fun for us as well. Her next trip is in a month so I changed my location of the swing site and advertised that my wife would be coming there on business and I wanted to get her laid. I then showed her the add and she was ok with it but did say she didn't think she could ever follow through but was enjoying the play. I would get a response and then forward it to her and she would find reamister after reamister why they were no good. I then received this IM from this guy when I was logged on I told him the truth but gave him the email address that I set up and told him to send his pic and try to get her to respond. He did and she actually showed interest and responded to him. Well I was shocked and excited; it's been years and no signs of wanting to talk with another guy! At this point she has set up a meeting with him on her trip and has even told her company that she will be taking her vehicle and not carpooling as she has permisteral business there. Since then he and her have been emailing back and forth and she is saying things that are blowing my mind. She is talking with him in a manner she has really never talked with me, very descriptive of what she wants him to do to her. They have chatted on line once and have talked about speaking on the phone! This is like day 7 or 8 and the emails have gone through the roof. I am not sure either of them are getting much done at work as they are constantly sending emails back and forth. This is the end of the story at this point, there are still a couple of weeks before their meeting and although they have both tried to figure out how to meet earlier, it isn't feasible. I will try and keep anyone interested up to date, but again be patient, they don't meet for a couple of weeks. I will say I am excited as hell but nervous as well.

That sounds really fucking exciting! Please let us know how that goes. If you could post any emails or pics that they are exchanging, that we be even better!

Very exciting! Cant wait to hear more

Yes, keep us posted. Thank you this is very exciting.

One of the last emails

>>>>Her:
>>>> How's your morning starting off?

>>>>Him:
>>>> I was just wondering if you had a private office and just how possible
>>>> would
>>>> it be to meet you in there, and to get you bent over your desk taking >>>> you from behind. How sexy would it be to be getting fucked on your >>>> desk?
>>>> Think
>>>> about how wet you would be that day with me filling you up and then
>>>> dripping
>>>> out of you the rest of the day.

>>>Her:
>>> You are rotten! Get me wet and throbbing so early in the morning. I
>>> would love for you fuck me on my desk but walls to thin. Wish we had
>>> option to meet before my trip.

>> Him
>>> If the walls are too thin, maybe I'll have to find some way to keep you
>>> quiet by stuffing something in your mouth instead. Or maybe I can slip
>>> under your desk and lick you while people walk in and out of your office
>>> not
>>> knowing that I'm down there? Either of those ideas sound good to you?
>>>

Her:
Hmm I would go with you licking my wet pussy - to bad you're not here
>> now since I am wet again. I love being licked! Of course then we
>> would need to go somewhere else to continue with the other fun things
>> we have mentioned. My pussy will think she never had it so good.

Thanks for posting this, you're certainly giving me hope. So many parallels with our situation, but you seem to have suddenly cracked it.

dude, thats awesome! I hope she enjoys herself. Keep us updated.

Very exciting and good work getting your wife interested!

Thanks for the replies, I will keep you updated!!

Great story. It reminds me of my wife and I a few years back

Another series of E-mail exchanges:

Wife:
Good Monday morning! Hope you and your wife had a great weekend. We still on for next week? If so when do you want to chat or talk next? Talk to you soon.

Him:
I was just thinking about you. That must be why I'm hard right now. I'll be in and out today, so I can't play e-mail tag as fast I we did last week, but we can definitely share a few as the day goes on. As far as I am concerned, we are still on for next week. Are you still up for getting together for takes, or are you pretty much looking past the takes and focusing on the fucking part already. Me too, but we'll start with the takes anyway. Have you decided which night you want to do this on yet? Did you and hubby fool around and do a little dirty talk / fantasizing about this over the weekend? Just curious. I'm looking forward to your answers,

Wife:
I am wet again. We will try some pics tonight had
family at house whole weekend so no good opportunity to do. I want to
do some. Drinks may be a good idea next week. Is one night
better for you? Oh and you did come up in play on friday night . Boy
it was fun! Will talk to you later and thanks for starting my Monday
wet. Now Monday won't suck.

Him:
Glad I was able to help your Monday start off well. And I'm glad that I was part of your Friday night activities too. I enjoy hearing that you've been getting so wet, so often. Maybe I can try to keep you constantly wet from now until after I leave your hotel room.

Sound good to you?

Wife:
That sounds very good! Too bad you weren't here just now to lick my
fingers as they were very wet from my pussy.

Him:
Please tell me you were playing with yourself, and that you made yourself cum. Even better if you're at work!

Wife:
Unfortunately didn't get to cum but I may try later if your emails are
just right


This is blowing my mind!! My wife has never really talked like this before! I am getting nervous and extremely excited. I know I am going to experience a wide range of emotions, but I cannot ignore the fact that it does turn me on to no end. Also, I am lucky that it has also increased the wives and my play time.

I will share one pic of her.

Nice Ass! Looks like a fun ride!
Cuck who loves a creampie.

It is. And even more surprising after all of this time, another guy will soon find out. The heat and frankness she is showing has far surpassed what I thought. She is in HEAT waiting for this meet next week. I see what guys mean by emotions, it went from me always pestering her to the only thing she wants to talk about. I am very confident I will love it, but I am not fooling myself that emotions will run high both good and BAD! The fact that it wasn't a wham bam thank you mam I think was perfect for her and her permisterality. She is salivating for next week!

I love reading those emails!

I gave her a Victoria's Secret Gift card to go and buy something for her get together.

Tonight she left me with the kids to go.

As she was leaving, she said I wasn't going to get to see what she buys until I open the pictures she is planning on sending me next week!!

WOW she has changed!

I am excited for you and cant wait to hear about how it went and what she thinks. Also to see her new Victorias Secret.

OK, only hours away!! They stopped the emails because they exchanged phone numbers and text or talk now.

I still feel the same. I did ask her what if I called last minute and said NO.

She responded by saying she would try and convince me and if that didnt work she would call it off. I told her if it got that far I am not sure she would but I am glad she said that. I went on and said I made my bed and she is going to have fun in it. Her reply "you made the bed and I am going to Play in it!"

She is very nervous but equally excited, I do not believe she will back out.

Getting a little nervous. He should have gotten their about 2 hrs ago and I have not heard anything. I asked her to text me a couple of times and she has yet to do it. I just BB instant messaged her and she hasnt even read it yet. BB instant messenger shows when it is recieved and then read. Starting to think I should call her

Not sure what to do

Finally answered with Picture message with the following text and Pic

"How do you think I am?"

Truthfully I am a mess. Kinda numb. Not mad or angry, but not excited either. Thought I would be have a raging Hard on but kinda the opposite. Do not know what to think. Asked her to call when done but she has yet to read that text. Well, I got what I wanted!

I will update in a few to see how things have changed.

congrats... i bet you have this really strange feeling in the pit of your stomach that you never really get from anything else... thats what i used to get when i knew my girl was with another man... i hope you enjoy your new life as a cuckold!

Trust me - it will get better!

The reality was different for me as well but it was still a good experience in many ways. We have yet to repeat it but hope someday we find the right guy or couple to explore with again. I learned that reality and fantasy are two VERY different things and that my fantasies might be in line with the cuckold/hotwife lifestyle but in reality I'm alittle more alpha than I thought.

Hang in there man.

Another dilemma!!

As you can see, she didn't make sure he used a condom even after discussing concerns before hand. My problem is that I have no desire to take that chance. If she starts getting tested ASAP, how long until she is considered safe? Considering she stops having unprotected sex.
How long do I have to make sure I do not have unprotected sex with her?

Help

I would like to say I am sorry for you and my inner permister tells me I should feel that way but I don't. I am sorry that you felt the need to push your wife in to something that caused this and justice would be served when you are served with divorce papers and then my question to you would be "was it worth it?" I am sorry for your youngren and the people you hurt, but you brought this on yourself. There's an old saying, "be careful what you ask for, you may get it." I love my husband and my youngren and there is nothing that will cause our marital bond to be broken by something as superficial as your simple minded hard on.

wifesreluctant has a whole lot of issues even being on this site. Qfire, you got it going on with your hotwife! Mine is with her lover right now, bareback, and she is loving every minute of being able to have such a ride while being married. Your wife will love you for being man enough to let her have the freedom to explore her femininity with much more endowed males than she would otherwise have been able to enjoy, and don't you worry about her doubting her love for you. You have given her a wonderful gift. As I'm told, it takes about 90 days to be sure that the tests are accurate. Your local health office should be able to give you all the specifics. In the mean time, keep it sheathed, give your wife all the freedom she needs and enjoy the adventures!!!

Qfire001

Don't listen to any assholes. Trying something way out of the ordinary and having a ton of remorse afterward is a VERY common occurrence. Get with your wife and get yourselves on the same page. If you never want anything like that again, just abandon it completely. If you still want to dabble try having her suck a cock with you in the room first or something much more comfortable for you than just running out and fucking.

As for the medical advice, don't get it from posters here. Ask a doctor.

Thanks Ted, I try not to let any negative comments affect me.
I do however appreciate constructive feedback, positive or negative.

That night did not go as I had planned(and I planned on being very jealous and having much angst) as my wife made a few decisions that really ruined the experience for me. The following few days were also not that good. We spent much of it in serious arguments, however she did take full credit for what she did and excepted full responsibility. None of this seem to calm my disappointment and anger. Well, one of the things I had asked her to do that she actually did was take photos. Well, she had him take them and they were now sitting on a digital camera on my desk. As I did not want one of our youngren to pick it up and find the photos, I downloaded them to my protected drive. As I looked through the pictures I realized that each photo was indeed taken with me in mind. This meant a lot! I actually felt my cock again after four days of complete numbness. The pics were not really that good per se, it was the fact that I was in her thoughts throughout the experience that made the difference. Well this in turn has led to an amazing few days of sex albeit protected as We are awaiting test results do to the lack of condom use on that night. Actually this has added a nice dimension as I have to wear a condom because she did not with him.

Who knows what will happen from here, but I do not regret the actual experience, just some of her actions before and after. She is gun shy due to her actions and is afraid to try again right now. I informed her we know what the mistakes were and that is half the battle, she after all did have a great time.


P.S.
The Pic I posted above is really the best of the bunch so I am not adding any additional ones

Qfire - Sorry for the earlier post; wife got on the account. Now you see why she is reluctant. I am curious to find out more details about how it went. I'm most curious about how you two relate after the fact and where this takes you.

Thanks for your posts.

The night went great for her. She went through with something she wasn't sure she would and had a great time with luckily great sex. It lasted about an hour and they both came once at the end.

Once I got over the condom issue and another issue I have not spoke of here, I was left with the jealousy and insecurity I was expecting to have along with the turn on of the scenario. As I am not your typical Cuck or wanna-be, I actually became a little competitive at first. This led to a 45 min session (only ending because of kids) with her having multiple orgasms(a first for her). She has started to give me head regularly and our sex has been great. After proving I could perform right along side of her new friend(minus the size issue which she definitely noticed), my cuck tendencies and her liking of dominance(very Mild) over me came out. We have played with her having control and continue the fantasy of her taking another guy again. She has stated that she is not sure she can do it again because of the overall outcome and stress it caused, but I have reassured her that the issues we had did not happen due to the scenario itself, it was bad decision making and we are aware what those were and can deal with them better in the future. Who knows if it will happen again, but regardless the sex between us has been amazing.