Reverse Psychology, Changing Tactics, Real Situation

I have been trying to entice my wife to my to make my desire to be a cuckold a reality. She has gone out with her female friends who are divorced but she is way too prude for anything. Even at home, she has a very low sex drive which makes my desire for her to find her erotic side that much stronger. I constantly tell her to look hot when she goes out so that guys buy her takes. I tell her that I love it when she comes home smelling of cuckold water and holy water and that it turns me on when I think of her being hit on while I am at home waiting for her. I always tells her how hot she is and how much her body turns me on. Over the years she has sometimes been open to this level of hinting (nothing more) and at other times she tells me that she does not like it when I talk like that. I suggested buying sex toys for her to use and she got really pissed saying that she does not like those things.

So, I have decided to change tactics. I am now starting to ignore her and trying to make her think that I no longer am turned on by her. I used to be the one that would initiate sex and I am now just rolling over and going to relax. I see some signs that it is working. When I am falling arelax at night, she tells me that she can't relax and that she needs to "take a bath". I have been able to peek at her baths and caught her masturbating a couple of times (something she claims never to do). I am hoping that this does lead to the desired results. It is really hard trying to pretend that she does not turn me on because I love her and she definitely turns me on. Today, she had her office Christmas Party and kind of hinted that it was going to be lame and it was not worth getting babysiters for and that if I did not mind she would go by herself. Before the party she was strutting around naked trying to get a reaction out of me, but instead I pretented to be more interested in the TV show I was wathcing. She also dressed professionally but still hot in a little black dress with some cleavage and real nice high heel shoes. I did send her a few texts asking if she was having fun and asked her what she was takeing. Unfortunately, she called me a few minutes ago to say that she left the party early and was on her way home. She did not take too much and as expected the party was kind of lame.

I know that this is not the kind of story that turns us cuckold wannabes on, but it is a real story about a real guy trying to get into the lifestyle. I am wondering if any of you (either cuckolds or hotwives) have come to the lifestyle by in a matter similar to what I am now doing or if any of you think this tactic will work. I would appreciate any feedback that you all have and then move on to more exciting posts. Thanks....