Now that she's started, I wonder how far she'll go....

Thanks for the compliments!

We are kind of on hold right now. My wife had three local guys that were possibilities, but each seems to have fallen through.
The first one said he had a vasectomy and his wife's permission to see other women. They made several attempts to get together and each time, a barely believable excuse was offered - or just a lack of communication. I encouraged her to cut her losses with this one and put no more effort into him.
The second one also claimed to have had a vasectomy and a completely open marriage. When we asked about talking with or maybe including his wife, he quickly said that wouldn't be possible. Ironically, he was so pushy about seeing her early on that my wife was put off and didn't want to get together. When the above guy failed out, my wife decided too try meeting number two. Not surprisingly, he also didn't follow through with their attempts to meet.
There was also a third guy that connected with her more permisterally. She wanted to meet with him until getting more permisteral details. He is in a somewhat bad marriage with small youngren. We certainly don't want any part of harming someone's family, so my wife is still talking to him but not planning on meeting in permister.

I guess we'll see what her future plans are in the coming weeks. Every so often, she gets really into going on Ashley Madimister and meeting a bunch of new people and then weeding through them to find the interesting ones. Her most recent attempts didn't locate anyone to be her next lover, but I never know when the right one will come along.

Thanks for keeping us updated. I'm truely amazed that someone as beautiful as your wife is, is having difficulty in finding a decent guy to hook up with. Wish you both the best.

It is truly unbelievable. I've always assumed women, especially as attractive as she is, simply need to let it be known they want a man. To some degree, that is true. On AM, she has gotten tons of attention, even more when she has any profile picture showing. The problem is they are either not close to here, or totally lack the ability to make a positive impression.
There is something else I've been watching for... the coworker who originally gave us the push down this path with his IM's more than two years ago is in the process of leaving his live-in girlfriend. I am curious if there will be any increase in their flirtations now that he will be single... they still text each other daily but on a friendly level.

Another picture from a few weeks ago.

Just like that, it’s on again!

Over the past year, my wife and I have toyed with the idea of her having another boyfriend, but never found the right situation to make it happen. I began to think that she was enjoying just the potential of having another affair more than actually doing it. Both of us have had continual swings of emotion, alternating between wanting her to do it and not wanting to start something new.

Early last week, we decided to get a sitter for our flower for Saturday night (last night). At the time we had planned it to just be some time to enjoy ourselves. All week, I had it in the back of my mind that it would be fun if she could meet one of the local guys she was talking to while we had the night alone. I wondered if she would come up with the same idea, and Saturday morning she asked what I thought about her meeting a recent addition to the men she’d been chatting with. “D” is a dj that works one hour from here and he invited us to join him at the lounge he’d be performing in. As we tried to decide whether to keep to ourselves or go to see him, my wife got dressed and looked as sexy as I’ve ever seen her. A few months ago we found a little purple stretch satin skirt and I got it for her, thinking it would be ideal if she ever went on another date. Under that, she had on some matching purple panties and black thigh highs. She rubbed me through my shorts and encouraged me to help make up her mind. After a bunch of deliberation, we decided to take advantage of the opportunity.

The whole way to the lounge, she kept me hard with her hand and I played with her soaked pussy. We arrived an hour before he was to begin and sat with him at a table next to the dj booth. The conversation was comfortable and we enjoyed getting to know him. The plan was for me to leave them alone at some point, but my wife had a bit to take and didn’t feel safe with me going. A few hours after we arrived, we headed home to enjoy some very intense sex. As I slowly thrust deeply into and out of her, she told me that she’d just met her new lover and that she had been picturing fucking him the whole time we were there.

This morning, we woke up slowly and she began texting him right away. He asked about meeting her alone today for coffee or whatever other excuse they could come up with. We alternated back and forth about whether it was safe or a good idea for her to go alone until she finally just decided to put aside her fear and do it. She left an hour ago to meet him at a Hooters for lunch, hoping there would be less chance of running into someone we know there. I have been really horny thinking about her sitting with him, and wondering if they will go any further today. While we were having sex last night, she was telling me that she really wanted to get in his car and see what they could do. In an hour or two, I expect to hear from her and get an update. She has also promised to wear one of her spandex bodysuits to give me one of her wonderful oily handjobs tonight as she gives me all of the details of her date.

First attempt at an outfit

What she decided to wear last night

Rear view... I love her legs in pantyhose!

Excellent post! Love this topic

The restaurant my wife met D at is only five minutes from here. She told me she'd be no less than an hour and most likely a lot longer than that. The wait was agonizing and I was half-hard the entire time she was gone. I kept wondering: at what part of their conversation would they move closer, maybe begin touching, or even leave for somewhere private?

Although she said she'd text me any major updates, I heard nothing until she arrived home a little more than two hours later. She told me that she enjoyed herself, but they didn't do much. She said that even though he was nice, entertaining and attractive, she didn't feel any real spark. Part of that was because she didn't have anything to take and was a bit nervous, and partly because he just wasn't really her type. Here is where the strange battle between "normal" guy and "cuckold" took place again. Despite my greatest fantasy being my wife being fucked perfectly, when I realized she wasn't that into him I had a calming sense of relief. As promised, she slipped into the pink bodysuit pictured on the 10th page of this thread and began stroking me. As she did, she told me how the last day didn't result in her having a new lover, but it did confirm to her that she wanted one. As I got close to an orgasm, she described how she wanted to feel all different shapes of penises inside her to find which ones fit her the best. You can imagine how hard I came at hearing her say that. Later in the day, I saw her on Ashley Madimister a few times, so the next one may not be that far away.

I'm glad to hear things are moving along again! Hope she finds the right guy.

That's incredible! Any updates for us?

Any news? I really appreciate your posts. Seeing real life happen is so much more exciting than fantacy.

With no prior discussion, my wife called me at work one day last week. I had way too little relax the prior night and was having a bad day when she asked if she could meet one of her other local prospects for lunch the following day. With the call coming cold and not feeling well, I didn’t want to agree to something I might regret later so I told her I’d at least discuss it later that night. Because it didn’t come up again before we went to bed, I had nearly forgotten our earlier discussion. As soon as I saw her coming across the bed towards me, I knew suddenly what she was up to. She once again stroked me with her soft, oily hands and asked if it would be all right for her to meet him for lunch. Within minutes, she had extracted agreement out of me, both physically and verbally.

Of course, that night our flower was up half the night with a bad cold and by the next morning none of us had slept. My wife called of her plans without specifying a future date. The fact that we’ve had so many “almost” meetings has made it harder for me to get scared, excited or feel otherwise when she tells me about plans she is making. There is one more tentative date on her calendar, the dj she met last month has invited her (or us) to a gig he is doing Dec. 30th. I got the impression that she intends to go but we haven’t discussed it much.

One side effect of all of her texting and chatting with so many guys – she is pretty uninhibited when telling me what she wants or is fantasizing about. When we begin intercourse in any other position, she will often ask for me to go from behind so she can feel me deeper inside her. I am of average size, but it is a bit humbling to slide inside her in the missionary position and after a few minutes have her tell me she needs to feel more inside her. When I am behind her, any time my enthusiasm drops a bit, she will describe all the dirty things she wants to do with a new lover. Instantly, that revives me and if anything, makes it harder for me to keep from finishing too quickly. Her body is in great shape right now and every time we are together I imagine the views her next lover will be lucky enough to have.

Thanks for the update! I always like re-reading this thread, nooo. Good luck with it!

Sounds like your wife is really ready for something to happen! Did Dec 30th work out? Thanks again for keeping us all updated.

We had an unexpected small event happen a few nights ago. Just before we were heading out to see the local team that we have seamister tickets to, my wife told me that one of the guys she had been chatting with told her he was planning on going as well. She said, don't worry, he's said that three times and not shown up so it isn't likely that he'll be there. Soon after we got there, she received a text that he was there. We didn't really talk about it, as there were family and friends around us. During an intermission, I went to walk the concourse. When I returned, my wife was not in our seats. The game resumed and she returned about ten minutes later. She told me that she had gone out to get something to take and he met her there. She said she found him attractive and very nice. He said that she looked even better in permister and was sorry it took for them to meet in permister. It seems like them having see each other has intensified their desire for something physical.

Then, fast forward to tonight. We went out to eat and my wife wore her very sexy shiny leggings and boots with a loose shirt. The whole outfit turned me on greatly and we talked about some plans we almost made for last night to go meet up with the DJ that she had recently met up with. She sent a picture of the outfit to him and he offered to drive here after his gig (3am!) just to see her. She just told me that he is really pent-up and asking for any way to have time with her. We are off Monday and a little while ago she started pushing to see if I'd agree to let her have some time to see him. It feels as though we've pushed it off as long as we can and their online playing has reached a point that they need more. My wife was so horny talking about it that we just slipped off to our attic while our kid was occupied downstairs. As I pushed into her from behind, she described how badly she wanted him and how he promised to fuck her for over an hour. We rolled over and as she slid down on top of me, she told me that she wanted to do that with him - to get him rock hard and then ride him until she came.

I guess we'll soon see what new adventures the New Year will bring!

She knew this outfit would have an effect on me.

Great toned legs from her workouts.

And a sexy little butt!

Wow nooo, your wife looks really hot. Greta to hear things are still progressing for you. Thanks for the updates - all the best for 2012.

I agree nooo, your wife is hot! I hope it all works out, and that your wife keeps you involved. I'm even getting a little hard thinking about it. Take care.

We started this morning knowing we'd have the afternoon to ourselves and we struggled to decide whether my wife should meet D, the local DJ, for lunch or enjoy the time alone. We finally came to the conclusion that we don't often have the free time available for her to go have fun on her own so we chose that. Actually, she chose that - I wanted to push the decision onto her so that I knew it was really what she wanted. Their plan was to meet at a Japanese restaurant between our two locations for lunch. She said it would most likely just be a lunch together but I won't know until she comes home sometime in the next hour. Before she left, I asked her jokingly to come home afterward and jump me with her horniness, unless she did something more with him then I'd jump her. He requested that she wear a little blue thong under her leggings, I can't wait to peel them off of her and find her pussy soaking wet!

I don't know why, but the waiting this time was sooo much harder than I remember it being any previous time my wife was away on a date. Even though she told me up front that they probably wouldn't do much, I was half-hard the entire time she was gone and at several points I was so nervous I was shaking. I asked her to let me know when she was heading home and when I didn't hear from her by the time she promised to return, I sent a message to ask how soon I'd see her. She replied that she was heading to her car but it still took her a lot longer than the travel time to get home. Along the way, she sent me a message that read "On my way home. He was feeling my ass. ;)"

She finally arrived home with a huge smile. I took her to our bedroom immediately and she began giving details as I undressed her. Their meal was nice but uneventful. Afterwards, they were next to her car talking and she told him that she was wearing a thong as he requested. He began rubbing her ass to feel it and got aroused knowing she had worn it for him. Even though it was very cold out, they continued playing. She was so turned on and cold that he said he could see her nipple through her coat. She opened he coat for him and allowed him to rub her chest a bit through her shirt. At that point he told her he was fully erect and she took that as a suggestion to feel him. She said he felt quite hard and large through his jeans. If it hadn't been so cold, she would have joined him in his car for something futher, but it was also late so she headed home to me.

While she was telling me the events, she climbed onto me and in one motion took me deep inside her. Luckily I had used some numbing spray, because even with that I was barely able to contain myself. She wanted me to go from behind and as I did, I told her how I couldn't believe my wife had just let another man feel her up and she did the same to him. Within minutes, she had possibly the strongest orgasm I've ever seen her have and she collapsed wimpering onto her pillow. When she recovered, she rolled over and I took my place on top of her for my own orgasm. We both finished so hard and completely that it was actually a little scary.

upon her return...

Great followup, I'm glad to see things moving in the right direction again. That is a fantastic picture of your wife's butt and thong, it looks like it got a little wet from her encounter. Is she planning on meeting 'D' again anytime soon?

I Too have been following your lovely thread. Speaking as one who has seen his wife pounded by hungry fuckers who used her most "sacred" married delights as their own cum dumpster, I can tell you you are in for a wonderful treat when your sexy wife finally surrenders her married cunt to another man.

Imagine the joy of this man your wife met the other day when he put his hands on your womans soft ass cheeks! He touched her warn tits. I Hope you are wiling to let her go ALL THE WAY with him.
Faggot Pussy

Her thong was more than a little wet! She was soaked and when I took the thong off her, she was very swollen and open. I never saw her like this until relatively recently.

I imagine they will be meeting again soon and at this point I am sure it is more a matter of when and how often they fuck, not if. He told us that his wife has let herself go and has shown him little attention, so he is probably going to attack my wife the first time they are alone. When I ask her about sliding into her used pussy after they are together the first time, she usually replies "maybe but I'll probably be too sore". If they get to meeting frequently, I may have to get used to having her hand more often than her pussy.

Excellent Nooo, I've been following your thread & had to comment after the latest updates. My wife had a similiar situation with a man & they dated for several years & wow is date night a rush, from the beginning when she is getting ready for the date until she walks through the door. Enjoy!

Wish you guys had more free time to play! Eagerly awaiting future updates!

Not much excitement so far this month. We spent a week out of country with very limited internet and I enjoyed the lack of outside distractions. One of the afternoons, she laid in the sun topless and I enjoyed seeing her that free.
Shortly after we returned, my wife mentioned casually that she was trying to decide if she should tell the two local guys she didn't want to start something physical. Not much more was said about it in the following week and I kind of forgot about it. Then out of the blue on night last week, she asked if I'd mind if she went to the club that the DJ worked at. It was late in the evening and not a practical time so we decided against it, but the suddeness of her request took me off guard. I explained that I'd rather if she kept me informed of her discussions so I knew what her intentions were. Last night, she asked about meeting the other local guy, M, either for lunch this week or for an evening meal. She once again began stroking me while telling me how much she missed the passion and excitement of being with someone for the first time. She worked me expertly with her hand as she described how much she had enjoyed making love to her first lover, especially the part about having all night in their hotel room together. I agreed that she could make whatever plans she wanted... now I will wait to see if she gets cold feet or acts on her desire.

This week, I have been completely unable to predict my wife's intentions. She started the week saying the was going to meet one of the other local guys for lunch while still planning on playing with the DJ in the near future. Apparently she got into an arguement with the DJ about her not being able to drop everything to see him and she does not want to meet him again. Just as I figured things were going to be settled for a little while, L, her first (and only lover) got back in touch. She seems nostalgic about their times together and has expressed an interest in another overnight date with him. Of all the men she has spoken to, he is the only one that seemed to understand what both of us got out of this lifestyle. We'll have to see if they are able to make plans to be together again, I know they left some things undone. She just asked me the other night how much I'd like new video of her with another man and I told her I'd love it.

Two closeup pictures from the date my wife had in the purple skirt pictured in my previous post:

Love her damp panties!

and hard nipples!

Wow, things are moving again! Being with L should be exciting for your wife, as there won't be any unknowns. Hopefully the timing will be right so that she can go bareback with him. I seem to remember that was something you were hoping for. Is your involvement to be ***d by your wife the week prior to her meeting L? I also love the way your wife gets her panties damp! Hope everything comes together like you want.

I had a response to your question but I was waiting until our plans for today were resolved so I could update both at one time.

When my wife was getting together with L, we had to plan her dates far in advance, and that allowed us plenty of time for preparation and anticipation. You are correct, she enjoyed teasing before each visit, beginning with the last time we made love beforehand and all during the week prior. It was frustrating in a fun way, knowing we were both horny and available but that she was waiting for her date. Also, because they were typically overnight visits, she would get together with me briefly in the evening to let me know what they'd done all day. Then, when she'd return to my room the next morning just before we left, I'd see the evidence of her night with her boyfriend on her body and get to reclaim her. So even though I wasn’t with her during the date except for the time we shared a meal with her boyfriend, I was still a part of it.

There were several things that L and my wife had been talking about and plans they may revive if they get together again. She has told me that she misses giving him oral. That is not something she does often for me and she enjoyed it with him. The same with anal - the last time they were together, they tried it for the first time (with him) and she wants to do it again. They had talked about taking more videos together and possibly letting me watch at some point. I would definitely enjoy both. especially enjoy seeing a video of her meeting her bf while dressed sexy, and see him undress her to begin making love. They had mentioned him cumming inside her but it will be difficult to plan a date when her cycle, our free time and L's ability to travel all line up.

That is one half of her recent activity – here is the other...
The plans with local men seemed to come up more quickly and we just had a had a talk about how we could schedule them for times when we could both get enjoyment from them. Earlier this week, she was trying to set up a lunch date with the guy (M) who met her at the hockey game a few weeks ago. I wasn't happy with the idea of them getting together on a weekday because I would have been stuck at work all day and by the time we were alone later that night, the excitement would have been long gone. She rescheduled lunch with him for today, when we are both off work. Of the local men she had been talking to and hoping to begin an affair with, this is the last one. Each of the others had something that she didn't like, so she is hoping when she gets to know him better at lunch, he will work out. She is just left and is on her way to meet him. I am a bit nervous, knowing that she is eager for this turn to something physical. Last night, I asked if she was interested in doing something with me because I needed relief. She told me that she wanted to but was considering making me wait until after her date. Just hearing that she was considering leaving me teased frustrated turned me on. We wound up having a very hot session, talking about what she hoped would come out of her lunch today while we made love. In a few hours, she will be home and I’ll be able to once again sample her very wet pussy. I am not sure what to hope for with their meeting. On one hand, it would be exciting for her to take a new lover, on the other I am a little scared of the possible long-term relationship that could start.

I remember an earlier post where your wife said she wanted someone local that she coud see once or twice a week. That sounds really scary and exciting at the same time. Have you talked with your wife about how you would stay involved?

I love following your posts as they're exciting real life adventures you and your wife are experiencing. Guess I'm living vicariously through you as my wife will not do this. Hope it all works out for you.

I asked my wife what her ideal situation would be and twice she has said she would like if she had someone she could meet once a week. Realistically, given our family situation and schedule, that is not even close to feasable. Even if it were, I don't think that would be healthy in the long-term. Eventually, the excitement we get from it would evolve into their own indepedent relationship - some type of poly situation. My wife and I do have off every other Friday and generally that is a day for us to play together uninhibited. Recently when we were trying to figure out when it would work for my wife to meet M again, we decided that our Friday off would work well. It may end up that the day that used to be for just my wife and I will end up being split between us.

My wife came home from her lunch with M the other day quite happy but I could not fully read her intentions with him. She told me they had a nice meal and talked comfortably, and that she found him polite and attractive. She said they were hoping to meet again for lunch to see if they would click together. She didn't say this but I got the impression that she enjoyed hanging out with someone new but wasn't totally taken with him. Once I got her undressed though, I found her panties soaked. It is such a turn-on for me to find her this wet and when I took off her shirt. her nipples were rock hard as well. We had some great sex from the energy of her date, making love in several positions before trying anal again for the first time in a few months.

I found her panties as wet as Ive ever seen them

and her nipples were quite hard as well!

Once a week seems like a lot to me too if you got a busy family schedule. Using your guy's Friday could work if you are involved and you get something out of their meeting too. If she wants to see someone one a week, have you discussed what such a relationship could develop into? It's hard for me to think some kind of 'love' relationship wouldn't develop after awhile. I've seen in other threads that having you wife 'fall' for someone is a turn on. It doesn't sound like that's what you want.

Doesn't sound like it will be too long before you wife and M get more physical. Your wife is truely a beautiful and sexy woman. Those wet panties are amazing, thinking about them really gets me going! Keep communicating, that's the key. She may get caught up with the situation and need a gentle reminder that your feelings need to be thought of. This is a hot thread, I wish you both the best and again thanks for sharing this with us.

Two nights ago, my wife and I had a night alone, a belated Valentine's Day. We enjoyed our dinner and quickly returned home. As I was rubbing her body and getting her started, I mentioned that I was surprised she didn't ask about including anyone else. She seemed a bit taken back and told me if that was a possibility I should have said something because she would have liked to but assumed I'd want our time together. I told her that was the case, that I chose to enjoy my time with her. She said she could still call M and he'd be here within 45 minutes. Her panties grew wet quickly and we continued teasing each other. Finally, I began fucking her with the largest dildo she has and as I ran it in and out of her, I kept asking... do you wish you could have taken a boyfriend out for Valentine's Day... would that have turned you on to spend "our" holiday with someone else... should I stop now and we can call M to come over.... he can come in and find you nearly delirious with lust and take you immediately. With each question, her impending orgasm grew and she began calling out HIS name. That was the first time she did that, and she ended with a tremendous orgasm.
This morning, she asked if I would mind if she would try to meet him tonight. I won't know for a few more hours if their schedule will line up. I have felt for months now like we are on the edge of her starting a new physical relationship... I am just not sure when that line will be crossed.