Some history and questions - CuckoldPlace.com

I guess I am a cuck but in a different way than most of what I read on here. I don’t like to be humiliated and my wife likes to suck and fuck because she enjoys the attention and likes to take cum. I like her being a slut and it turns me on that she is having a good time. We have a good and healthy sex life between us and I truly believe that if we didn’t have an open relationship like this we wouldn’t be together going on 8 years now. I fuck all the chicks I want all over due to my job and she does the same with guys. This is my second marriage by the way and is light years better than my first. Please keep reading if interested as I want some reader’s opinions on a few subjects at the end.
A little history first. When we first started going out she was very shy. After a few dates one night at my place she pulled up to me and started unzipping my pants. Of course I was all for that. We fucked and everything and it was great. She sucked my cock like crazy even while I was driving her home. I don’t know why but about a month later I asked her if she thought about having sex with more than just me. She didn’t discourage the idea. I then asked if she ever thought about having sex with a black guy. She said she thought about it but didn’t think it would happen. This is about the same time I started asking her about her past. I learned that she e wasn’t with many guys about 3 including one married guy and a steady boyfriend she had for around 5 years. She told me she sucked him off almost every day which I found exciting. Before this I never really liked the cumshots in porno. When she started telling me about sucking cock and swallowing cum I started liking hearing about it. I also started liking movies where the chick takes the load. I was hoping she was a major slut in the past why I don’t know but for some reamister wanted that.

Well I started encouraging her more often to get fucked when she was out at a club. She always dresses hot and looks like million bucks with a somewhat exotic look I would say. She is a South American Latina. Well one day she went out and came back very late after I already went to work. She called me and said she sucked and fucked some guy at a private area of this club she went to. I remember that day I couldn’t concentrate at all at work. I continued encouraging her and after that and it became easier for her to enjoy herself. We lived in an apartment downtown and after the clubs and dancing (which I don’t like to do so much) she would bring people back to the apartment. They would party some more than slowly people would leave. She would always of course be flirting with whoever she wanted and they would be the last to leave. Everybody was told I was a heavy relaxer and was in the bedroom relaxing which was pretty much the truth except for the heavy relaxer part. I remember the excitement whenever I heard the door open when she came home. The next best part was when she was finished and came to bed. She always wanted me to kiss her and we would fuck. She was always super excited and wet. I snuck out of the room on one occasion but didn’t see much except kissing before they got into it. Another time she came in the room looking for a condom and telling me she just got done sucking this big cock. I heard her fucking many times and sometimes her friends fucking in the other room too. Those were great times.
A few years later I was working overseas and she met some younger friends. She started partying with them and was slow at getting started again. I encouraged here more. Once she got started she really got started. The one guy the first she said she got fucked 5 times and drank his load every time. After that she would always find someone at a party or club. She would tell me all the details. I even would call her and she would still have her friends over and I would tell her to get back in there and get back to work which she would. She loved it and the guys all loved it too as she was hot and different being from another area. I am not sure but I suppose all the people, girls, guys in those groups knew she was a slut. I suppose they talked. One night when she was wearing this hot mini skirt she said she was pretty takes at a party and on 3 separate occasions she made an excuse to go to the bathroom up the stairs and guys followed her checking out her ass and all. She said she sucked one each off each on those 3 occasions. She was on her period or she would of did more. She liked doing it and I encouraged her. She was convinced that the cum was making her skin healthier and her hair on her legs grow slower and stuff like that. She was in great shape, lean and toned and always ready. She even was licking some pussy on occasion. We both wish she was getting as much cock now as she did at that time.
These activities continued with my encouragement. I also wanted her not only to have sex with the younger guys she liked but to look for black men too. I remember the first night she came home and told me she sucked off this black man I didn’t really even believe her. We were together one time with a black guy and she has had others on different nights. One time she let 3 black men use her at a friend’s apartment. I wonder what they thought of that. Where we live is ultra conservative. She now says that it is the black men that get her wettest. She has also now at my request started getting some photos, videos and audio recordings at my request when the opportunity presents itself.

Ok now I am sorry if you are all bored still reading this. Like I said I suppose I am a cuck in some ways and in others not. I really like that she does what she wants and also what I tell her because we both enjoy it. The questions I have are these.
We both want her to do a smaller gangbang with let’s say 5 black guys but I also want it to be the safest ways possible. I am thinking of ideas but wanted some opinions. We have been in contact with some groups in Chicago where we will do this. Another thing is with so many flakes out there sometimes people don’t think other people are serious. We defiantly are but we want respect too. They can fuck the hell out of her and feed her all their cum but be respectful at the same time. If she doesn’t want to do anal then she doesn’t want too, stuff like that. What do people think is a good approach to safety in a situation like this? I will be present but with this number of guys you still have to be careful.
Thanks for reading and if someone wants an audio of one night she was with some boyfriend of hers let me know I will send it to you. I can’t upload it for some reamister.