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HI everyone, just wanted to tell my story and possibly get some advice at the same time!! Its long one, but its true and i wont leave out any details.

My wife and i have been married almost 5 years with a baby boy now 14 months old. After a couple years of marriage, i told my wife i was bi and had done things with guys in the past, she didnt take it well, but i thought better to have it out in the open. For a while we fantasized as most couples do of having a 3some etc but of course nothing ever came of it. We used to search craiglslist for fun and enjoy looking at the photos of other guys and talking about what we would do.
Then one takesen night i decided enough is enough and i contacted a black guy that had the biggest cock on his photo. I invited him round to our place that evening, i took the wife out for takes and told her what i had done, she was very angry, but the guy eventually rang and said he was on his way, she told me there is no way she was going to do anything with a black guy!!! he called again and i told her if were going to cancel your going to do it not me. She got on the phone with him said she wasnt racist but she would not do anything with a black guy.
I dont know what he said to her but he was in our apartment 20 mins later!!! I put a blindfold on her and me and "Shawn" stripped naked and put our cocks in her mouth, she went right at it, no problem and was obviously enjoying it!!! We did this for a while which was great, however it was clear that the guy in our apartment was not the guy in the photo as this guy had an average size cock, not the monster i saw in the photo, oh well. So after a while and several beers later i need the bathroom, so i left but when i came back, she was on her back and he was fucking her!!! Now this is the first time this has ever happened to me and i thought i would be furious, but i was not, i kneeled beside her and started kissing her watching the stranger fuck her, without a condom or anything!!! She said she did not want to do this, she kept saying no its not right, i said its ok,i dont mind, she insisted she could not do it any more, so i asked him to get of and he did and then left.
The next morning, i fucked my wife 8 times before we got out of bed, i have never been so horny in my life!!!!As time went on , we talked about doing it again and she agreed but with no sex, sounded good to me i just wanted to watch her suck a cock.
So eventually he came back, this time, she said my clothes are not coming off im just going to suck you both, no sooner as she said that, Shawn was taking her top off and getting her DD's out to play with!!! She could not resist. 2 mins later she was on her back and he was fucking her in the corner of our couch,legs high in the air, i had my cock in her face and without warning, or even previously talking about it, she screamed HARDER, HARDER, of course i came straight away on her face and he fucked her hard. About 5 mins later she looked up at me and said sorry but it was sooooooooo good, words that i still jerk off on today. He left and that was that. He came back twice more, once i remember she said, so one of you has to fuck me right, and with that , he doggied her over and fucked her from behind while she sucked my cock and then the other time she sucked his cock for a good 20 mins while a watched and jerked off!!
Then we invited other people over, a couple of hung white guys, that didnt fuck her but jerked off in her face and one guy we met at a hotel, real big cock, i have attached a few photos and left her with a nice facial. We had a lot of fun together, and i remember the anticipation before each night was incredible and the morning after was equally as amazing!!!
BUT here is the thing we have not done anything in the last 2 years, she said the thought of a threesome even turns her off now, obviously she was pregnant for 9 months and since the baby was born we have sex about once a month, she doesnt like to talk dirty any more and the possibility of another horny night is almost non existent.
Has anyone else been in a similar situation? Can anyone give me any pointers or advice on how to get her back in action???
This is a tough time for me sexually i need help, i dont want to cheat!!!! but i want to have a lot of sexual fun with my wife.
Thanks for reading.
D&B

A few pics to go with the story.
D&B

We are in a similar situation. My wife doesn't feel as sexy since having a baby. She's back at the gym and lately she's been a little more interested in sex so hopefully in the next year or so she'll want to try swinging again. I think you just have to be patient, and don't cheat on her. That won't solve anything. Most husbands can't convince thier wife to even try swinging once, so we are the lucky husbands who have open minded wives. Even if it takes them a while to get back into it. Talk to her and tell her what's on your mind. Maybe she'll let you go play without her and then you won't have to cheat. Best of luck.

Thanks for the advice guys, its well taken, i suppose i am lucky in some respects.Will just have to wait and see what happens, will be sure to keep you updated. Here is another pic from our past adventures for your pleasure.

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D&B