Thanks!
I met S. him on Friday with the scenario in mind that I mentioned above... the problem was that he really didn't look like the pic he sent. He's no longer in the hunt.
I've suspected for a while that D was not the real deal... and he's out now too.
As for M, we still have not yet met...
But last night something interesting happened. I was running through craigslist and answered a post that I got a good vibe from. We agreed to meet for dinner/takes and get to know each other.
Things went well (great kisser!)
J has never heard of cucking before and was more than intrigued. We may have a prospect here
S.