a revelation

I had an interesting revelation about cuckolding I wanted to share.
Of course, everyone is different and everyone has different reamisters for this, but here's one I realized at one point.
We had done a bit of play, going to swing clubs. We had never really planned anything in advance. But then, we decided that she'd go black (long story on that..another time). Well, she was always wanting to go to swing clubs and not have one-to-one dates (we'd had too many bad experiences) but I also didn't want to just take a chance on what might or might not be at the club any one night. So, I did manage to find a guy online who had also been to the swing club we visited, and he and I talked a lot. I felt comfy with him and thought he'd be the guy or a good candidate, so we set up a meeting at the swing club (both wives were involved in the conversations too...his wife, like me, just liked to watch him, not join). Anyway:
we finally went to Atlanta (we never played at home, always traveled out of town) on a Saturday morning...on the ride down we both were kind of quiet; my wife never did talk or like to talk about play much. She's a Nike girl-- "just do it." Ha ha. So, we got to the hotel then went out for lunch and after it she said she wanted to go to a clothing store and look for some panties for that night. I was a bit surprised; in all other visits she'd never really been one to get fancy or buy new clothes. But this night, I was beginning to see, was different!
Well, she and I were like two girls, looking through panties, and talking about which ones would look best on her (she's a thin Asian, so not all types work well, but some work wonderfully). She picked out a nice black lace hi-cut bikini...she was just high on the excitement, I could tell.
And that's when it hit me: this was a really great part of why I enjoy this. I get to see a side of her that by definition men usually never see from their girlfriends or wives: I get to experience what she's like when she is excited and nervous and wondering about what a new man will be like. I get to see what she was like when she was first thinking about having sex with ME! For most men, they can never see their wife in that mood. Only a girl friend or in some cases a gay friend can see such things. But I got to see it that day..and a few times since. It's really a great part of the whole process.
And by the way-- the rest of the night was even better! But, another time for that.

can't believe no responses. I wanted to hear from other cucks, as to why THEY like it.....or from anyone who can share their stories on how cuckolding was hot for them!

You know, I never thought of it that way but you're right. She is captivated by the excitement of the unknown. We all get that way when we believe we are going to have sex with someone new but how many us us get to see our wives do that? I can't remember when mine was excited much or wanting to buy erotic clothes. I think you're on to something here.

Agree with you completely, its another part of a woman men don't usually see and watching her excitement is our excitement too!

Part of the most exciting part of doing our first 3some was being in on the planning of the seduction of the guy she had chosen. I took her shopping to buy the outfit she would wear and loved hearing how she would seduce him. Got to share in her sexuality in a way I never thought possible. We fucked like crazy during the planning stage. The experience was great, she loved it and we continued to meet her lover for almost 20 years. We would enjoy an episode 2 to 3 times a year.
Mike Laraunt