Hello All You Wonderful Free-Thinkers Out There!

I am new to this site and thought that, by way of introduction, I would include some of my permisteral thoughts on Cuckolding in general, and specifically, on my tastes and turn-ons when it comes to Cuck stories, fantasies, etc. We each have our own tendencies, likes and dislikes when it comes to this subject, and my perspective might be different than some, but that's what makes each of us unique right?

I am a Man - I was cuckolded by my wife, at my urging, for many years of our marriage. Like many of you, it is the only sexual passion (obsession?) that gets me off. You could show me movies or tell me stories of a blond teenage bimbo in a gangbang while skydiving and I would sit there yawning - Right guys? For a true Cuck, nothing else does it, except for, watching/listening/hearing about his wife with another man or men.

On that subject, I thought I would share some thoughts on stories for any writers out there. By far, the most erotic thing to me about any cuckold story is the dialog exchange between the husband and the hot wife. The excited state of the wife is key here. The reader wants to believe that she can't help herself, despite the ambiguous feelings of the husband who is torn between his sexual obsessions and his jealousy. In the end, it is ultimately his total, unconditional devotion to her that wins out - and she knows that. Therefore, she is the one with the power and control. (Whoever said that men hold the power in this world was totally clueless. In every single aspect of life, save some inequity which still exists in the workplace, it is the female and not the male who holds the true power.)

The male figure in cuckold stories is like Frankenstein's monster in a way - full of rage and conflict yet he is not to blame - he didn't create himself this way - he is a victim too. The key thing about the cuckold is that Rage + Love = Passion. (There is a great book called "Men in Love" by Nancy Friday that goes into this. The 1st chapter is on the Male Conflict, and that chapter alone is worth far more than the price of the book - I highly recommend it.)

One thing that many cuckold stories seem to miss is the fact that the couple are doing this for each other. Yes, she has the power, but she really does love him too, therefore, despite what she says in the heat of passion, even to the point of humiliating him (which he loves/hates), in the end, they are together and very much in love.

Just some thoughts - would love to hear anyone else's perspective on it, especially any of the women out there!

HammerHeart ;)