For anyone interested in going down this pathway,
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Theodore Roosevelt once said "If you've got them by the balls, their hearts and minds will follow", but an experienced woman knows that if you have got him by his prostate, you own his balls!
For those keen to try prostate milking, a quick guide for him and her:
1. He should empty his bowels and use a small enema to clean up before you start.
2. He should also COMPLETELY empty his bladder before you start because he will need to relax his prostate in a similar way to urination to allow his sperm to pass through.
3. Use a toy with a stiff shaft and a prominent knob. Most solid silicone ones are just too soft to put pressure where it is needed. It should have an insertable length of 6-7 inches. Most prostate massage toys are too short.
4. Tease him! Whatever gets him really hot is good. This will get his juices flowing and ensure a good supply is ready for milking. If he starts to leak pre-cum, he is ready!
5. Use plenty of lube and start slooooowly. Anal muscles take a while to relax, particularly for beginners. Work on him until the head of your toy can slide in and out easily without making him flinch.
6. Massage the area around his prostate first. It is just past the entrance to his anus on the front side of his body. It will be quite sensitive at first, particularly if he is very "full". It may feel a little like the need to pee at first, but if his bladder is already empty, it will quickly change to a sensation similar to orgasm build-up.
7. Work the prostate from the sides and back towards the center where the sperm tube passes through and collects the contents. The first few drips will probably be clear pre-cum followed by thin, milky prostate fluid.
8. When you start to see some thicker drips of real semen, it is time to go deeper and start massaging his seminal vesicles where most of his sperm is stored. They are further inside, beyond the prostate, but also towards the front of his body. Go as deep as you can and put firm pressure towards his belly then work the toy slowly back out while keeping the pressure on. He should relax in the same way as preparing to pee. This relaxes the prostate and allows the sperm to squeeze through. The sensation is amazing! You will both know when you have the technique just right by the big drops of thick semen that start to dribble from his cock
9. Try to avoid touching his cock while massaging his prostate. If he is erect, it means his prostate is tight and it will be very difficult to get any sperm out.
10. A cautionary note: This type of play should not be attempted if he has any known prostate health issues (prostatitis, inflamation, infection, cancer etc.) as massage could aggravate the situation. Any significant pain or blo od should be a sign to stop.
It can take quite a while to find just the right technique. In the first few sessions you may only get some milky prostate fluid, but with more experience, the thick creamy semen starts to flow and you can milk him empty. The ideal technique is a little different for each man, but finding what works for him is half the fun ;). He also needs to learn to "let go" his sperm. It is a bit similar to relaxing to urinate so obviously he will want to start with an empty bladder.
When you get it right, the sensation for him is amazing, particularly if he has been in chastity for a while and he is very "full". Kind of like the intense build up just before orgasm, but stretched out for 10 or 20 minutes! The subtle sensation of having his sperm squeezed out without his control is icing on that cake.
It can also be a huge turn on for her if she enjoys the idea of being in control. A amn normally will only give up his precious sperm in return for the most intense pleasure of an orgasm and the woman involved is usually in a very submissive and powerless position at that moment. Male milking reverses those roles completely. The man is in the most submissive, powerless position and the woman extracts his sperm without giving an orgasm or even an erection in return. When his sperm begins to dribble uncontrollably from the tip of his flaccid penis, she knows she has COMPLETE control of him.
As you can see from our recent videos, we have been experimenting with e-stim to add some variety to our milking techniques. It is a great fit for the "milking" concept because it can induce an involuntary ejaculation in a male without any manual stimulation (and in fact it is used exactly in that way to milk sperm from some ani mals!). If your man is turned on by that scenario, it can be an awesome experience.
e-stim is a very subtle and complex interaction. It is certainly not as simple as turning up the power until he cums. You have to find exactly the right way to cycle the level and the frequency to get him in the right "state" and then move to the setting that will fo rce him to ejaculate. That can take considerable experimentation since there are so many things to adjust, but learning is half the fun
. Obviously he will have to be at the controls at first because only he will feel the effects (and going to high or too fast can quickly turn into a session of S&M!). When you have found the best technique she can take the controls and milk him at the touch of a button!
For him, the sensation of an e-milking is rather like an extended extremely intense orgasm, but without the usual pulsing contractions. It can last for several minutes if you have the settings just right for him. Again, it will play to his submissive side because it can be completely at her control and he can be in a very powerless position when his sperm is extracted. For her, it can be the ultimate form of "remote" control. She can extract his sperm without even touching his body.
