Chastity - How did it happen for you?

I am interested to know how some of you decided to try the whole chastity idea.

I want to know more details about how it happened

1. Who initiated the idea. Was it the gf/wife's idea? Or was it your (the cuck's) idea?

2. Did you become a cuckold after you got caged or before it?

3. What was the reason behind it?
a. are you small?
b. are you sexually inadequate?
c. did you do it because you want to hand control over to the wife/gf?
d. you masturbate too much ;)?
e. to prevent you from having sex with other women?
f. Other (please specify)
(choose all that apply)

4. How did it come up? That first time you got caged, How did it happen?

5. Who holds on to the key (and spare key)?

6. Who else knows about your chastity? Does her bull know? Do your friends and family know?

7. What color/model/size is your chastity? If you can provide a pic that would be nice..

8. What is the longest time you have ever been caged?

9. Have you had trouble going through metal detectors (i.e. airports, malls etc.)?

10. Have you ever been ridiculed, laughed at, humiliated by someone because of your chastity?

Can't wait to hear from all of you

anyone interested in telling his story?

1 - my idea
2 - cuckold before chastity
3 - after watching her with her first BBC I realized how sexually inadequate I was to him. He was longer, thicker, lasted MUCH longer, came more - he was better in every aspect.
4 - She and I talked and we both thought it would be a sign of respect to his cock if I was caged in his presence
5 - When caged, she holds the key
6- Only her bull knows
7 - I have a clear CB6000 and a metal cage
8 - 6 hours
9 - never happened
10 - she and her bull will tease with SPH

Thanks for posting your experience bcs

I look forward to hearing from others as well ...

Hubby begged for it many years ago as a fantasy. I went out with some coworkers, one was a guy, he flirted with me and he knew I was married. Turned me on so much I went along with it and ended up having sex with him. I role played with hubby but in reality I was really was cucking him.
He begged for the fantasy and now he begs to get released, which only happens monthly.

jenninfer

So he has no idea that you cucked him in reality until now?

No, he has been in chastity for years.

Should I be locked up ?

"Should I be locked up ?"
What a question? Of course you deserve it!

1. It was my idea, but I was ordered to get one and start wearing it ASAP by my Mistress, who I met online while separated from my wife.

2. I was made a cuckold at age 19, and began wearing a cage at 65, after wanting to be permanently locked when I was about 25.

3. c, d, and e, but e for me is to prevent sex with any women, including my wife.

4. I contacted a woman I knew to be an amazing and and severely strict Dominant when it comes to chastity and long term sexual denial for submissive males.

5. Currently I do, but that's about to change.

6. Lots of people, but only 4 are close, but I assume all of the men that have fucked my wife for the last 45 years know, too. I don't know the exact number, but I would estimate around 5,000, and maybe as many as 10,000.

7. It's stainless steel, all the same silver color. The tube section is 2 3/4 inches long and 1 1/8 inches inside diameter, which needs to be adjusted to 2 1/4 X 7/8 due to shrinkage. I expect to be needing more adjustment in another year or two. The ring around my balls might have to be a bit larger than the current 50 mm, or reshaped to fit my balls through the inside of the larger ring. Sometimes they don't go through the inside at all, which I find very aggravating.

8. 145 days, longest without a cum, 427 days, and longest without intercourse, 5 years and 3 months ongoing and my wife has told me it'll never happen again.

9. Never.

10. My original Mistress was laughing all the time, and constantly ridiculed my size and ignorance about my lack of sexual ability. She was especially intertained by the 40 percent shrinkage of my penis after 145 days in chastity, saying it didn't matter how small I would eventually shrink down to, since no woman would ever have sex with me again for the rest of my life. I've had it only one time two years after she told me that, and so far, I have been promised I won't be allowed to have it again by my now Mistress wife. I totally agree with my Mistress and my Mistress wife that my penis never had any reason to be inside any woman, and I will never have it anywhere near a pussy again.
Natural Born Cuckold
Pussy-Free For Life starting 02-26-2017, 2633 days as of 05-13-2024

Also, to the question should I be locked up?

I believe I should have been locked in chastity from the age of 10 or 11, before I began to masturbate, so that I never would have developed the bad habit and never should have been allowed to have sex, so I could have remained a virgin for life. When I think about all the frustration and resentment I've caused since I became sexually active, it makes me feel sick. It's no wonder I became a cuckold at 19 and my Mistress wife began to cuckold me the day after our first date.
Natural Born Cuckold
Pussy-Free For Life starting 02-26-2017, 2633 days as of 05-13-2024

hando

Thanks Hando for that thoughtful reply..

I guess being pussy free means you have a lot of time on your hands jk

But thanks man, I hope other aspiring cuckolds (like myself) can follow your example

confession, I have never been locked in a Chasity cage.
When I was young, in the 70s and 80s I had a lot of girlfriends.
For reasons I can't imagine now, I thought I was hung, and I thought I was a good lover.
Most of my girlfriends, at some point, cucked me, and most of them denied me sex from time to time.
My wife cut me off 15 years ago and I have not had intercourse since.
So it is that sex denial I am thinking of when answering these questions.
1. Always the GF/Wife's idea.

2. Typically I was denied after I was cucked. When one of my girlfriends started having sex with someone else they would typically cut me off. Confusingly, they would also become more passionate with kissing and petting, but then stop and leave me aching. Others continued to date and spend the night, but no sex.

3. They were being satisfied elsewhere, so had no need to have sex with me.
a. are you small? Yes! and very thin. Little more than a tampon.
b. are you sexually inadequate? Apparently.
c. did you do it because you want to hand control over to the wife/gf? Yes, even while being cucked and denied, this was decades ago before the internet and cuck porn, I always stayed with them. I was like a puppy, I wanted sex, but what ever little hand out they gave made me happy.
d. you masturbate too much ;)? typically yes, I used to masturbate all day when I was young. Now that I am old typically daily. Currently I have not had any orgasm for 5 days which is a crazy long time for me.
e. to prevent you from having sex with other women? No.

Thanks for this questionnaire

1.it was I that mentioned chastity. My wife of 38 years is very conservative when it comes to sex. She says it doesn't do anything for her. I understand why with a little dick like mine. After researching chastity and how to measure I had a custom chastity cage made. The cage length is 1 1/2 inches long and 1 1/4 inches around the bace ring is 1 3/4 inches around. She lover to see me wearing it.

2. No I am not a cuckold to my knowledge and doubt I ever will be. I have mentioned to her my desire to see her sexuly satisfied even if it was by another man but she says that would never happen. What a shame. I wish she would. Just to experience the feel of what good sex is like.

3. (A) my penis is 3 3/4 inches long. Is that small? Lol
(B) I would have to say I am definitely inadequate in this department. Although she says I do have a talented tongue.
(C) yes I wanted her to have control over when I get to cum and even if I ever get to cum. My last orgasom was July 11 2019 and don't expect she has any inclination of letting me have one ever again. She has told me I get grumpy when I expell my cum.
(D) yes I used to masterbate way too much.

4. Well i told her I wanted to change. I mentioned chastity to help with my masterbation problems. I had also read that by caging my little dick that it would help to make me more sensitive to her needs. And it did. I love licking her pussy. Anyway I did the research and measured right the first time I guess because it is very comfortable and it allows for no room for my little dick to grow. She told me to order one so I did. When it came in she had me put it on and I handed her the keys. I have bean wearing it off and on for 6 years. I am now wearing it full time except when I am at work. So I am only out of my chastity cage for 8 1/2 hours a day. She tells me she can't wait for me to retire. She says that I will be wearing it all the time then. I kind of hope she does something special for my retirement. Maybe one last orgasom.

5. She holds the keys. One is in her nightstand for my use in the morning to take it off before work.

6. She doesn't have a bull. If she did I would expect he would know. She has teased about telling a couple of her friends but I don't know. She has teased me in public in front of strangers about being locked up. There are two people that have seen my chastity cage. A man at the fair. I went to use the bathroom and it was crowded. I couldn't use the stall so I had to use the urnels. Luckily the last urinal opened up. As I was standing there trying now to pee on myself a tall man walked up to the urinal and struck up a conversation with me. Every time he spoke he was looking my way. I tried my darnedest to hide my little chastity cage but he seen it. He made a point to turn toward me and show me his big cock and told me to have a good day shrimp. When I walked out he was standing with a group of people and he was pointing at me. I imagine he told them what he had seen. And my dermatologist. I was going to have a spot on my back looked at and then have a bite to eat. When I got home from work my wife told me to take a shower. When I got out she laid out my clothes that included pink lace panties along with me little chastity cage that you could see through the panties. She does this to me whenever she feels naughty. Of course pants and shirt. When we got to the exam room I was told to take everything off but my underwear. I was given a lightweight paper towel that didn't cover much to use. During the exam she was sitting on her stool looking over my legs and I was sure she could see under the towel. I'm sure she see my caged dick. She was professional about it though. After the appointment my wife was kind of upset with herself that she did that to me. I told her it was uncomfortable but it was OK. She has told me since that she kind of liked putting me in that position. And the last is here a week ago in the chat room you asked to see it. There was about 8 people that seen it.

7. I wear a stainless steel cage 1 1/2" long 1 1/4" around it was made by mature mettle

8. 11 days. Today I start my 2 week vacation I will be locked up for 16 days.

9. No I don't travel.

10. Just the guy in the bathroom. I think I liked having him see it though.

guss6969

Wow thank you so much for sharing..

I hope your wife becomes more liberated and starts having sex with other men the way she deserves, and for you to remain a pussy free cuckold hahaha

sudsycat

Thanks for your input

jenninfer
Thank you Jennifer keep him begging and make sure you get your pussy satisfied as much as you can. Has he ever eaten your pussy after without knowing? 🤔