Sissy/Transgender Support and assistance? Advice request.

Hi there everyone.

OK so ive been around here a long time with my now ex partner.

Ive found myself single recently, mutually agreed due to whats happened.

We used to play around with the sissy stuff at weekends and when we played, and ive been dressing more and more, to the point where apart from at work, i dress almost all of the time.

Ive now come to the conclusion i am trans, and i want to start in this direction (at nearly 40)

Is there any support out there? Any groups, or individuals that offer guidance and direction? I must admit, im fairly lost now, and my mental health is taking a beating.

2.5 years wait for the gender identity clinic, and the prospect of waiting so long without any direction is scaring the life out of me.