wife getting control now

My wife caught me wanking to porn the other day, said it disapointed her and made her feel unwanted. We have used chastity cages before but she lost interest, but now she insists I wear one to stop getting an orgasm by myself. She has also insisted I get viagra pills to be hard enough for her pleasure, although I doubt 4" is ever going to be enough for her. She wants me caged all the time unless I pop a pill and try and please her. Seems like I will be mostly in a cage for her