Considering a cage. Answers to our questions??

I've been wanting to give it a try myself for a while but I've been hesitant for a couple of reamisters. Honestly, the biggest reamister is that I do tend to jack off quite a bit. Three to five times a week is typical, but five to seven isn't so unusual. I always have, and I'm a little reluctant to relinquish control. I know that's the whole point but it's a little daunting to me. The second issue is cost. Given that I'm not sure if I'd be able to cope with the loss of freedom and that most couples seem to have to try out two or three before they're satisfied, the $100+ prices are holding me back. If it was half that I'd be more willing to give it a go, but...

My wife hasn't been super excited about chastity cages when I've mentioned them in the past, but I do know that she's not a huge fan of how much I jack off either. Neither of us is into the sissy side of things at all, but I do think it could be very appealing to literally hand over control of one of my most basic freedoms to my wife. Her issues seem to be mostly aesthetic. Honestly, I find it a little surprising that the two are lumped into the same forum category.

While I don't succeed in getting her off 100% of the time, she does like the way my cock looks. Are there any cages anyone can recommend that aren't quite so disconcerting to look at?

Neither of us is into the sissy side of things, but I do think it could be very appealing to literally hand over control of one of my most basic freedoms to my wife. I'm not huge, but I don't have a small cock either. Are there cages that are likely to fit better than others?

How would a cage affect my ability to get an erection? Obviously I could still become aroused. Does the cage prevent an erection from occurring, or just make it very uncomfortable if I do get an erection? Aside from biting me and using a riding crop while we're actually having sex, she's not super into causing pain so that would be a negative.

So what do you all think? Should we go for it? Is there a low(er) cost, attractive, comfortable, discreet option we should be looking at?

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CB6000

It will hurt over night especially the first night.

5 -7 times a week is not a lot...I was 2-3 a day.

Its not a sissy thing...its about control.

You will if you want to get out be able too....no real secure device unless you get piercred and have one made for you. But that is big money and committment from both parties.

Although you can get out it will hurt you. So proably dont try.

Start off with a couple hours a day and build on that.

The big thing is have her shave you or organise for you to go get waxed and she takes you to the saloon {amazing exprinence}

Have her put it on....a couple times of her clicking the lock and she will be hooked on the power....and you will be fucked.....as the sound and the actual physical act turns every women on

Bye bye wanker hello chasitie...

My wife and I are not into the sissy thing either, but she loves the control! Agreed, start for short lengths of time and increase. Also shave or at least use clippers to keep hair very short, and use lots of vaseline/aquaphor. The cage won't hurt if sized properly. It will prevent an erection; this doesn't hurt... and I even find delightfully frustrating. I'd recommend buying a CB to start... they're not bad or good and relatively cheap. If you're willing, I've seen quite a few for sale used on the chastity boards. Many people buy them and find the size wrong, then sell them for pennies on the dollar. I did pick up a metal one that way... I gave it a good run through dishwasher on sanitize just to make sure and saved a couple hundred bucks.