Being SissyHere's what I've figured out for me (WITH A LOT OF HELP from all of you, from reading a lot of your posts here and on a few other sites like this! *giggle*)
Being Sissy has more to do with attitude, femininity and being willing to admit I am not a Real Man, than any question of size, strength, performance, looks, or anything like that.
I think Sissies just know they are Sissies. That's how it's always been for me!
So, for me, Being Sissy isn't physical. Rather, Being Sissy is about how feminine males (like me) think, and how we react toward others, not about our physical bodies or the size of our "equipment" (..though certain shortcomings can certainly reinpower the feeling! *blush*).
- Do you feel feminine?
- Do you really want to please confident "Alpha" type people (whether they are Masculine males or Take-Charge females?
- Are you truly submissive to those sort of people in your life?
These are the questions, right?
I think they touch on the main reamister some guys like me are Sissy. First and foremost, we are pleasers. We love to please, whether it's a "Real Man" with a big hard cock and manly attitude or a confidant Woman with a "take-charge" dominant style.
I am a TOTAL pleaser! both in "normal" life and (even more pronounced) in "grrl-mode". I am submissive because that's who I am and how I interact with others. It's just how I'm wired. The way I have come to see it for myself is that I'm naturally submissive.
I don't mean only in some kinky way either (though that IS fun *giggle*). I mean that it's my permisterality. I'm a great team player, I'm a helper, I'm sensitive to suggestion, and very directable.
Submissive is who I am - all the time - so when I get the chance to "flip the switch" and slip into "grrl-mode"... LOOKOUT! That tendency is magnified. It's a natural transition and probably the foundation of my Sissy urges.
THAT is what Being Sissy is for me. That is what I mean when I refer to "grrl-mode".
HOWEVER:
I have to tell you something that came as a total surprise to me - and I swear this is true.OK, to be honest, I am a bit under endowed. Not too badly off (as a Real Man would no doubt look at it if it were him *lol*) but nothing to brag about. In my normal life as just an average guy, I'm circumcised and a bit short in that department but when I'm in the mood I'm also decently thick so, on balance, not too badly off.
What I discovered is that when I slip into "grrl-mode", as I call it, it's like a switch somewhere inside me gets "flipped" and it is NOT role playing for me anymore. I not only ACT like a real girl (obviously) but I also REACT like a real girl, too!
***I'm talking physically here!***In "grrl-mode", the little I have to show for myself as a male, shrinks away! Literally. Everything I have down there kind of tenses upward. The little guys ascend back to where they dropped from, creating a slight pubic mound, and the rest pulls back into me, nearly disappearing, leaving just the tiniest little point exposed. It's as if my manhood assumes the role of being my "clit"!
(I'm including pictures BELOW so you can see for yourself what I mean.)AND, when this happens, I can TOTALLY CUM just from feeling a sexy hunk sliding himself up into me (or having a thick toy invade me)! I actually orgasm, repeatedly, not only without touching myself, but without even getting hard! It's like, in "grrl-mode" my body somehow decides (without checking with me, BTW!) that I AM feminine. I become Sissy and so, obviously, my bubble butt is where my sex-drive should be centered.
Before you ask, I have no explanation for it! Seriously, when it first happened I was as surprised as you probably are right now.
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The Disappearing Act" isn't due to weight. I'm 5'10", 172lbs, toned, and active. I ride my bike like crazy all the time.
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The Hands-Free Command Performance", well... who the hell knows WHAT that's about?! Whatever. I'm simply telling it like it is. I'm just weird, I guess. *lol*
Oh, and when I slip into "grrl-mode" and this all happens to me, it also really, REALLY, drives me into feeling even more submissive - if that's even possible! - because my own body has taken control away from me in the situation!Now THAT is Being Sissy.
My "clit" when I'm in "grrl-mode" 03
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My "clit" when I'm in "grrl-mode" 01
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My "clit" when I'm in "grrl-mode" 07
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My "clit" when I'm in "grrl-mode" 02
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