Chastity/Cuckold Contract

Below is a copy of a contract my girlfriend wants me to sign. I'm interested to hear your opinions on this.

CHASTITY BELT - RELATIONSHIP AGREEMENT
[A Male Chastity Contract] 
 
To insure a successful marriage, the cuckold husband will agree to the following regarding the penis which will now be called the marital penis:
 
The Wife will have complete ownership and control of the marital penis. 
 
The husband has no right of privacy during the periods of time set forth in the husband's dress code below. Therefore, bathroom doors must remain open when the marital penis is urinating so that the Wife may inspect the marital penis at any time. 
 
The Wife will decide if and when the marital penis will be allowed to ejaculate.
  
The Wife will decide the method used to cause the marital penis to ejaculate. She may, for example, have the cuckold husband masturbate or She may choose Her preferred method applied by Her or Her designee.
 
The husband is not permitted to ask for any sexual favors, such as rubbing of the marital penis, insertion into any animate or inanimate objects (except as described below), licking or sucking unless directed or initiated by the Wife. 
The husband is not permitted to touch the marital penis without permission.
 
The cuckold husband will wear a chastity belt whenever required by his Wife. Wearing the chastity belt symbolizes the Wife's absolute domination and control of the marital penis. 
 
The husband is not permitted to touch any Female or expose himself to any Female unless directed to do so by the Wife. 
 
To insure a successful cuckold marriage, the Wife has the following rights:
 
The Wife has complete ownership and control of the marital penis and She and only She will decide when it will touched, rubbed, sucked or placed into or on any object whether animate or inanimate and when or if it may ejaculate. 
 
The Wife may require the husband to wear a chastity device on the marital penis that may eliminate engorgement of the marital penis, touching of the marital penis or scrotum, hiding the marital penis from the husbands view and/or controls ejaculation. 
 
When the marital penis is allowed to ejaculate, the Wife has the rights to the ejaculate. 
 
The Wife has the right to recycle the ejaculate in any way She sees fit, for example:
 - by direct injection into the husbands mouth 
 - collecting it in a vessel of Her choice to be fed to the cuckold husband 
 - collecting it in Her hand so that it may be fed to the husband or She may require that he lick it from Her hand until Her hand is clean. 
 - Collecting it on or in Her body to be cleaned by the husband. 
 Or in any other manner She decides.
  
The Wife has the right to demand sexual pleasure from the cuckold husband at any time without any reciprocal duties, which may include but not be limited to cunnilingus, fornication and body worship. 
 
Since the Wife no longer needs the marital penis for satisfaction, She may seek other means of satisfaction. 
 
She may demand the husband provide Her with pornographic stories or pictures for Her amusement. 
 
She has the right to make love to as many men as She wants without any repercussion from the cuckold husband. 
 
She may suck as many dicks as often as She likes without any repercussion from the husband
  
She may swallow other mens ejaculate if She so wishes without any repercussion from the husband 
 
If She returns to the cuckold husband full of another man's cum this symbolizes that the marital penis is not the least bit necessary for the wife's sexual fulfillment. 
 
Every evening upon demand, the Wife has the right to have Her pussy licked clean by the husband. 
 
If She returns to the husband full of another man's cum, the cuckold husband's licking of her lover's cum out of Her pussy symbolized his submissive role to Her and it also demonstrates the absolute need to put the erotic pleasure of the Wife as the highest priority in a husband and Wife relationship.
  
To insure a successful cuckold marriage, the husband's dress code is as follows:
 The Wife sets the rules that dictate what her husband shall wear. For example:
 The husband may be required to remove all clothes after a set time of day or after a particular trigger time, such as after dinner. 
 The husband may be required to wear clothes that allow him to be exposed after a set time of day or after a particular trigger time, such as after dinner. 
 Sexual devices such as butt plugs, chastity devices, rope binding, handcuffs, etc. are considered clothing. 
 The husband is required to advise the Wife when his workday is easy and he is available to service the Wife. He is not required to follow the dress code during his workday. 
 To insure a successful marriage, the Wife may punish the husband for the following infractions as follows. This is a guide only and does not limit the Wife to decide to punish for other infractions:
 Not following instructions 
 Not satisfying his Wife when directed to do so
 Not following the dress code.
 Complaining or forbidding the Wife to have sex outside the marriage as is Her right.
 Not cleaning His Wife's pussy after sex with another male when directed to do so.
 Not recycling his ejaculate according to instruction.
 Touching his penis. 
 Ejaculating without permission. 
 Asking for sexual favors from any other Female. 
Not encouraging Her to seek sexual pleasure outside the marriage with whomever She decides. 
 Not facilitating sex outside the marriage if instructed to do so. For example, not driving Her to Her lover, preparing Her lover for Her which may include facilitating the lover's erection for Her by hand or orally as instructed by the Wife only and, but not limited by, preparing the scene if She decides to engage Her lover at home. 
  
To insure a successful chastity marriage, the Wife may punish the cuckold husband as follows. This is a guide only and does not limit the Wife's choice of punishment which is only limited by the Wife's imagination:
 Spanking. 
 Whipping. 
 Binding him to the bed or other object for extended periods of time. During this time #1 & #2 may be applied to the husband's body. The penis or balls may be bound and/or stretched with any device the Wife chooses. This will possibly increase the size of the substandard puny marital penis. 
 Restraining him with ropes, belts, chains or handcuffs. 
 Prolonging the husband's chastity period. 
 Applying pressure to the husband's balls to create discomfort. Since the husband does not own the marital penis and balls, the level of pressure exerted on the balls is entirely up to the Wife's discretion. 
 Instructing the husband to wear clothes only suitable for women or sissified men. This may include under clothes such as panties or bra or over clothes such as a dress or skirt.
  
To insure a successful chastity marriage, the cuckold husband acknowledges that the following are privileges, not punishments:
 Satisfying his Wife whenever She demands. 
 Allowing the Wife to withhold his ejaculation to improve the marriage by making him more attentive and responsive. 
 Cleaning His Wife's pussy with his mouth on Her demand. 
 Dress code including chastity devices. 
 Punishment administered by his Wife or Her designee. 
 Eating of cum upon Her command, whether his or His Wife's lover. 
 The Wife's right to engage in any sexual activity outside the marriage that gives Her pleasure. 
 Encouraging the Wife to take pleasure with others outside the marriage.  
 To insure a successful chastity marriage:
 Since the marital penis is owned by the Wife, all previous rights and obligations of the marital penis is transferred to the faux penis, which is owned by the Wife and will now be called the Penis. 
She has the right to wear the Penis. 
The husband may be required to wear the Penis to fuck the Wife if She so desires. 
She may demand any male to kiss or suck the Penis and She may penetrate any male or Female with it. Only the husband must comply with those requests.  
The husband must comply with the Wife's wishes for sucking or kissing the Penis and must allow Her to penetrate him at Her whim. 
  
To insure a successful chastity marriage:
 The Wife has the right to change or add to this contract at will and the husband must comply with the new conditions as if they were in the initial agreement set forth here. 
 The husband does not have the right to change any conditions under this contract without the prior written permission of the Wife. 
 
The husband must be completely naked when signing this binding document and the Wife must be fully clothed so that the new power relationship is clear and established.
 
 
 
 
Cuckold's signature                              � �                                 Hot Wife's signature
 

It seems to sum up the reality of my marriage. I'm not sure why you can't just use your names, however. Three thoughts:

1. There is no mention in here of health and safety, which can be important when it comes to bondage, chastity, etc.

2. I would say that your wife needs to be a fairly kinky, dominant, and mid to high libido permister for this contract to work well. A low libido wife will find it easy to forget about or underrate your sexual needs fairly quickly in a situation where you are not allowed to ever ask, hint, nudge, etc. A less than dominant wife may find the mood swings and temperament issues that extended chastity can bring difficult to understand or handle.

3. You've written it in a pseudo-legal style. Having it witnessed would be a good idea. Perhaps even notarized.

Good luck
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

Dear Lapitup.

First congratulations on finding such a wonderful and demanding Female who clearly intends to take control of your life for Her own pleasure. If I were in your shoes I would do my utmost to stay in a relationship with her, submit ot Her and worship Her.


However. From reading your different postings, it is clear that you have only been in this relationship for a short period of time. How well do you know your present partner, are you ready to committ to her for life? Is She ready to accept that takeing charge of you also implies that she assumes the responsibilities of any man-owning Female?

Also, I find that the contract is very detailed and wordly and still leavers everything up to Her; according to the contract, it is Her prerogative to change the contract and add obligations for you as She pleases. Permisterally I would prefer a contract with slightly fewer words, but that makes even more explicit Her superior role with respect to you.

Maybe you would want to approach your girlfriend. If you love Her, tell Her you do, tell Her you want to submit to Her and commit to Her pleasure and that you are prepared to serve Her any way She likes: If I were your, I would however empasize my need to feel that She is commited for the longer term.

I admire Her Superior Female Highness Lady Sutton (www.femalesuperiority.com) and the work She is doing to make Females recognize their superior position in life, and to make males realize that we will be more happy if we fully submit to our Female partners and devote our lifes to serve them. Enclosed find the marriage contract suggested by Lady Sutton. It is someaht shorter, yet compels you to make even stronger commitments. Maybe you would want to consider proposing this as an alternative to your Girlfriend and direct Her to Lady Suttons website?

Since cuckolding is moe central to the two of you, perhaps you would want to make that particular section of the contract stronger?

Whatever you do, I wish you the best of luck and hope that you will be happy in your life serving your cuckoldress and that She will find all the pleasure she seeks with all the bulls she wants to have sex with.

Please continue posting, I really enjoy your story

Sincere regards
Elina

Proposed alternative contract for your consideration:


The Marriage Contract

This is an agreement between a husband and wife. This
agreement lays out the terms, responsibilities and commitment
of a FemDom marriage.

Husband agreement:
I __________________________________, believe and realize that
the female gender is the superior gender and thus I agree to
take on the role of the submissive in this marriage.
I agree to obey my wife and to submit to her full authority. Her
word is law in our marriage and I will obey her every word. I
agree to submit to the following conditions:

a) I surrender over to her all of my earthly possessions. From
this day forward I own nothing and my wife owns
everything.

b) I agree to work for my wife and all that I earn financially
belongs to her. She may use my earnings any way that she
pleases.

c) I agree to do all chores and tasks that she assigns to me.

d) I surrender all free time to her. I no longer have any free time
but my wife owns all of my time. She will delegate to me how
I may use my time.

e) I surrender my body to her. She owns my body and thus she
owns my sex life. I agree to waive all of my rights to sexual
gratification. I accept her judgment and her authority over if,
when, and how I may receive sexual release.

f) I agree that sex is for the female's pleasure, thus I will
sexually satisfy my wife whenever and however she
requests it. I also understand that while I must stay
monogamous in our marriage, my wife has the right to have
sexual relations with anyone that she so desires.

g) I realize that in order to fulfill my potential, I must live a
disciplined life. Therefore, I consent to regular discipline
sessions that my wife will utilize to train, teach and guide
me. The particulars of the discipline sessions will be totally
up to my wife’s discretion.

h) Above all, I agree to love, cherish, honor and obey my wife
for now and forever.

I, ____________________________________, being of sound mind
agree to all of the terms listed above. I enter into this agreement
willingly.


Wife agreement:

I, ___________________________________, as a superior female
agree to take on the role of the dominant partner in this
marriage. I will hold my husband to all the terms and conditions
of this contract. I will love, nurture and cherish him.
In addition to ensuring that my husband lives up to his
agreement in this contract, I agree to the following:

a) Because sex is for the woman's pleasure in our marriage, I
will deny my husband sexual release most of the time. I
believe that a denied husband is an obedient husband. I
may allow him sexual relief on rare occasions for biological
reamisters. I will determine if, when, and how his sexual
release will occur.

b) I will not tolerate masturbation by my husband so if I ever
see any evidence that my husband cannot control himself, I
will require that he wear a chastity device. I will control and
monitor his sexual orgasms.

c) I will discipline my husband to guarantee obedience but I will
balance the discipline with love and nurturing. I believe that
love and discipline go hand and hand.

d) As a liberated wife, I believe that I have the right to have
other lovers if I should so choose. I may or may not ever
exercise this right but if I do decide to exercise this right, I
will only do so to strengthen my marriage. In this contract my
husband has consented to my right to have other lovers, thus
if I ever exercise this right it will not be cheating or infidelity
but rather a part of our consenting lifestyle and sexuality.

e) I believe that how I conduct my role in my marriage reflects
my belief and attitude about society and the roles of females
and males. Therefore, I will require that my husband perform
the majority of the household chores and be my domestic
servant, as a sign to society that the husband is to be in
presentation to the wife.

f) I will demand obedience from my husband and I will require
his presentation. I will rule my husband with love.

I, __________________________________, being of sound mind
agree to all of the terms in this contract.
elina

Thank you both for your comments. I will share your comments with her and let you know her thoughts.

Good luck Lapitup.

I am rally looking forward to hear what your Cuckoldress prefers.

When you show this to Her, maybe you should prepare som suggested changes to point f) in your part of the agreement and point d) in her part.

You may for instance suggest that point f) in your part of the agreement might read:

f) I agree that sex is for the female's pleasure, thus I will
sexually satisfy my wife whenever and however she
requests it. I also understand that while I must stay
monogamous in our marriage, my wife has the intent to
establish sexual relations with a number of lovers. I agree
to fully support her in this respect and will do my utmost to
esnure that she can enjoy anyone that she so desires.


SImilarly for d) in Her part:

d) As a liberated wife, I believe that I have the right to have
other lovers if I should so choose. My husband know that I will
exercise this right, I promise to keep him involved and ensure that
he is informed and involved, I know this will strengthen my marriage.
In this contract my husband has consented to my right to and
intentions to have other lovers, thus my cuckolding him will not be
cheating or infidelity but rather a part of our consenting lifestyle
and sexuality.


Then ask Her if she thinks this makes Her rights strong enough.

Once more, good luck and please extend my sincere regards to your wonderful cuckoldress.

Since
elina

lapitup65
sounds good to me