In chastity, but not a sissy

Perusing this forum, I've found that everything is about sissification and nothing is really about simple chastity. Here's a bit about me:

I'm most definitely not a sissy. I lift weights and work out multiple times a week, and I'm not one to just roll over and take things from folks.

That being said, I am submissive to my wife. I'm also rather small in the downstairs department (4 1/2 " long and 5 1/4" circ.). While my wife hasn't cucked me yet, we have played with chastity quite a bit. There's something hot as hell about being a locked gym rat.

Anyone else here who's locked but not a sissy?

Oh, and here's the obligatory pics:

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[imgs=http://www.dumpyourphoto.com/photo/view/84916/FSQH934e]A bit closer[/imgs]

I am in the same situation.The wife and I want to get me into a cb6000,and to be locked on certain nights out .We having been talking for years about her cuckolding me and just added the twist of me cleaning her afterwards.Not sure if its ever going to happen but we are having some fun with it.
We are not into the sissy part,not knocking it ,it just not for us .

thats me

Face it your a sissy, nothing to be ashamed about I know a lot of sissys that work out Im a sissy I work out, I own my own company dont take crap from anyone exept my wife who I am total sissy to.

if you let a woman lock your dick up in a cage let her fuck other men then you are a sissy be proud of it
now put your panties on and quite whining

See, cindi_tvgirl, I almost agreed with you up until the "put your panties on" bit. That's exactly what I'm speaking of. Not into cross-dressing and that seems to be a major piece of pretty much everything here. Like WILLANN said, not knocking it, just isn't my thing.

And WILLANN, by the way, thanks for posting, good to know I'm not the only one who feels this way.

AngelWolf,

Needed to be said. Thank you. Applaud the point made by WILLANN. (No knocking.)


cindi_tvgirl,

Infinite variations in infinite combinations. Blinkers off, please!


My 2c: For those of you that have read any of my captions, I go through phases of what I like. Some of the time it is the classic leather clad domme, next it will be a BBW with the key hidden between her - well, you know? Next it could be an oriental lady waving a key. (Pant, pant!) And very occassionally it might be a rubber maid in chastity serving the takes, because of course, all keyholders need to put their feet up and be pampered, don't they?

Just because someone likes wearing a chastity belt or cage, doesn't mean that they are into strapon play. And denial is not a sign that they are so far in the closet that they're in Narnia.

I think the best any of us can hope for is that we actually find something we like. The icing on that particular cake is when our partner likes it too.

Keep having fun
ptathuk

Hey Cindi,

My wife locks me up because she does not want me fucking other women.

I'm very interested in this catagory being split in two for men like us who are not cock suckers.

Not that there is anything wrong with that...

AngelWolf -

Just wanted to pipe up and say you are not alone at all. I've previously made comments that I wish they'd separate the chastity and sissy forums into separate spaces, because while there does seem to be some overlap (just as there are with chastity and cuckolding), I think at the core they are different fetishes. Or, at least, different ways of fetishizing human sexuality, if you get the subtle difference I'm trying to express. I am very much into chastity, while not being at all a sissy (at least as I, and I think many, if not most, on this board, cindi_tvgirl's comments notwithstanding, would define it).

Anyway, I have a cb6k that my wife and I have played around with a bit, I find chastity, teasing, orgasm denial, ballbusting, and cuckolding to be real hot-buttons for me. The feeling of being in a chastity device is a huge physical and psychological turn-on. However, I have absolutely no interest whatsoever in cross-dressing, wearing make-up, or any form of feminization I've ever come across. I'm not interested getting fucked in the ass with a strap-on, or sucking a cock, even in a theoretical cuckolding clean-up scenario. I like chastity partly because of the sensation itself, and partly because my inherent sexual submissiveness (which IMO is not the same as being a "sissy") is such that I want to channel my horniness and sexual energy into pleasing my wife and making her happy (both in and out of the bedroom) and sexually satisfied. If you don't mind me romanticizing a bit, I envision myself as the chaste "knight in shining armor" who would sacrifice anything he had to serve his noble lady, not some weak girly-boy who wishes he was born a woman.

On an outside the bedroom level, like you, I'm not a passive permister. I manage others at work, work out regularly, generally make the big financial decisions at home, etc. Heck, I don't even have a particularly small penis (6.5" long erect, though slightly on the thin side I'll admit)

Sadly, my wife and I don't get to play chastity games often, so I'm not frequently locked like you are. She unfortunately must take psychiatric medication which has a HUGE negative impact on her sex drive, so frankly even if I'm locked and horny and ready to be taken advantage of and spend hours pleasing her, she's usually just not interested. Thus I come here to feed my fantasies, until the wheel turns and things pick up. Anyway, good luck to you. If you feel like sharing, I'm sure there are many of us who would love to read about your adventures with your wife.

Neils,

I feel your pain on the meds side. Bring up these symptoms to her Dr., by going with her for her next exam.

Mine was on a med that had that kind of side effect and after I mentioned it he changed her to another that does not affect her desire like the other had. He said he had been given lots of samples of the other and thought he'd start with that one.

Make sure by researching which meds she can take in the same class, so you are not suffering for no reamister.

Ditto with the meds problems. Patience and hope are our only real options with that.

Sissies, panties and chastity control go very well together. A sissy is comfortable with his effeminate existence, so his panty wear is an accepted pleasure both for him and his lovers. Cindi_tvgirl's post #4 was spot on but was rejected because the word "panties" doesn't apply here. There are men that love chastity devices and are 100% hetero and wear 100% male garments. They don't suck cock or take it in the ass. They resent being included with sissies. Everybody resents the flaming queens of the forum.

Basically, I infer that wearing a chastity device gives equal pleasure for straights or sissies, for the same reamisters. Yet because a sissy loves wearing pretty panties or giving bjs, straights need their own chastity board. Methinks thou dost protest too much. Never had a homosexual thought, huh? Ask your wife for permission to wear panties because then you'll realize that ALL of us are actually panty wearers at heart! Millions of men suck cock every day and millions more get it in the ass. It doesn't hurt to understand that panty or cock love is not a reamister to distance oneself from others who enjoy chastity. Sometimes in life we must bend over, look things square in the eye, swallow the entire load, put on our panties and stop whining. Whether we like it or not! It takes a lot of insight and balls for a man to face the fact he's effeminate, accept his sexuality, be comfortable with it and maintain his self esteem while living life as a sissy. I would never call a sissy a weak girly boy who wishes he was born a woman. A sissy is more like a girly boy who is at peace with his femininity but glad he is born a man. He enjoys the softer, feminine aspects of life from clothing to being pampered by men.

I believe the problem with this particular forum is that it rapidly deviates from cuckold sissyness into sillyness. Kind of like how "diaper dudes" ruin male panty forums by making a simple male sex fetish embarrassingly ridiculous. I think what may fix this forum is to establish the point where sissy-chastity postings deviate from realistic cuckold situations. Delete all threads and postings that exceed this threshold. Voila!

Those flaming queens are just plain embarrassing and nobody can identify with them!

P.S. The chastity device is a sissy's "tiara"!


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My opinion is that sissies would trade their penis in for a pussy if it were possible. They like chastity because they like a***ing and hiding their inconveniently conspicuous dicks. Little dicklet, lots of female tendencies...

The rest of us have women that prefer us in chasity to keep 'their' cock from being touched by anyone else.

Read the CB-3000 company and other site's explanations of the benefit of putting men in chastity. I have never seen any of the manufacturers or reviewers state that the device is designed to feminize your man.

I thoroughly enjoy having a big dick. The wife just wants to make sure only she enjoys it. She does not trust other women or the flaming queens that want to try to turn me enough to suck me off on the down low.

I love showing off and she knows if she locks me up I will not be getting naked for any strangers no matter what even though I would love to strut around swinging my big stick.

We cannot coexist on this chastity topic/threads, because the two camps are as different as night and day.

Hung09

1st paragraph couldn't be farther from the truth. You generalize all sissies by portraying them as those ridiculous one percenters you described. Many, many sissies pack some impressive artillery in their panties. There is nothing wrong with a man having and enjoying female tendencies.

2nd paragraph. How exactly is a sissy's wife placing him in chastity any different than a straight's wife's reamisters for locking her man?

3rd paragraph. I agree... but... How is a male who's genitalia is locked and out of commission -- with the key held by a woman -- NOT feminized?

You claim a big dick that you love to strut, swing and show. Your wife locks you and won't even let you play with your own tool! Good for her!

You fail to understand sissies. I'd suggest a rainy afternoon, some good smoke and an attractive sissy with a drawer full of panties and an itch to model them for you; just might alter your thoughts a little.

There is no hotter slut in bed than a man in chastity. It seems that locked genitals can free a man from a lot of sexual hangups

Lose those 1%ers from this forum and it will be fixed!

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So when a Dom puts his sub slave girl in chastity he is masculinizing her?

We have learned from recent events, that the problematic 1% will never give in to the majority, it is not in their interest and they do not understand or accept compromise.

Have a great Christmas Holiday Seamister everyone!