Humiliation while driving...Humiliation at the gym

Thanks luvembig for suggesting the lollipop.
Right after reading that I was at the store and saw a sucker that was multi-colored, all very girly/candy colors. Best thing, it was phallic shaped. Not an adult novelty, but just a kids candypop that was long and at least as thick as me. I blushed just thinking about sucking it in public.

It is interesting reading different peoples limitations. Seems each one of us is willing to do something bold, yet afraid to do something that seems more mundane to others.

My absolute favorite offense is buying bras and panties.
Sometimes the clerks take no interest in my shopping and no more is said other than thank you and your welcome.
Sometimes a clerk will take real interest help me select items and want to hear about how my wife insists I buy my own because she doesn't want me wearing hers.

On the other hand, I too am adverse to shaving my body hair.
In most American cities, I think people just have a little aha moment then treat you just the same as they did before they realized you wear panties, or shave your body, or are a complete sissy in chasity. Most people don't judge and don't care.

Here is a wonderful subtle offense.
Tell a woman (perhaps a store clerk) that you love the color of her lipstick.
Only women complement each others makeup.
Then ask what color it is.
You don't have to tell her it is because you want to buy that color for yourself, she will know.

I saw a guy at the gym the other day. He was small, slender and very effeminant. He was also wearing a pink shirt and a pink hat and chatting with a hot sexy slut. They were laughing and giggling like two girls.

It was obvious he could get away with it as it was obvious that he was a complete sissy faggot bitch. But what about those of us who are rough and tough looking and obviously macho? It is just much harder for those of us trying to continue our reputation as a Real Man than it is an obvious pussy boy. Am I wrong?

Hi,

my opinion:
Wearing panties and maybe also bra and having body hair is a NO GO! Pink panties and bra should always be combined with hairless legs and body.

fred
Men like women with a past because they hope history will repeat itself!

Deferring to men or letting another man help you in public is another form of offense.

My wife bought a heavy desk we didn't need at Costco one time for this purpose. There were a couple of big guys watching her and following her around in the store. She made me get a cart and struggle to move the box until they came over and offered to help. After a few seconds, they asked me to stand back and took over. They stood chatting with my wife at check out and had me steady the cart while they loaded the box in the back of our SUV. As I shuffled off to return the cart, she laughed and joked with them and loaded her number into their phones. When I got back, she made me give them a tip.

She's had her golf instructor help me with my swing. He put his hands on my hips to show me how to rotate through the ball. We've been sailing where guys had to show me how to do stuff on the boat. I still don't know what all those thingys are called (Is that too sissy?).

Of course, there's asking for directions. She finds a construction site or an auto repair place and has me go ask.

You can be rough and tough looking and still experience being a sissy without damaging your reputation. It happens to every guy. Even the manliest of men doesn't know everything.

Only a few of us get the thrill from it and want to touch ourselves when we think about it days after it happens.

This reminds me of when I was helping a neighbor do a U-haul move. I was sweating and struggling with an end table when when she said, "Don't worry about that hon, some REAL MEN are coming tomorrow." I never felt so emasculated, but then it got worse. I saw her looking at me funny and I looked down and the zipper in my short shorts had broken! My pink panties were showing through as pretty as you please!
"Sissies don't get pussy, they ARE pussy!"

I was driving once to my girlfriends house. She told me to show up in my heels and new sundress so I would be ready to start cleaning her house once I got there. I had done this before, but this time a little old lady pulled out in front of me and I hit her in the rear. I have never felt so humiliated in my life. First I had to apologies to this woman in a dress and heels, then, I had to explain things to the police officer who was giggling and staring at my bright pink toes the whole time I was talking to her. To make things worse, she gave me a ticket for "Failure to maintain control of vehicle due to driving in high heels."

I actually have a pink case for my iphone ( i had a " hello kitty" one before ).
I always wear a feminine ankle chain with the sign of the cuckold ( im never allowed to take it off )
I only wear female panties and socks ( under orders ).
My legs and whole body are always fully shaved ( you could say you are swimming, bodybuilding, diving, jetskiing etc ) or simply say that you feel it is more hygeinic.
My toenails are always painted too and my wife only allows me to relax in female nightdresses.

I thought maybe a more subtle way to show my sissiness would be to take a piece of pink yarn and wear that as a bracelet or anklet.

This has been a great thread I'm sorry for jumping in so late. A lot of great ideas above, I am a large male in general with a deep voice, so passing is not an option in general. A few years back I paid a Mistress to power me to submit to my offense desires in public and since then I frequently go out just wearing panties under my male clothes to fully dressed as a woman, and everything in between. It's amazing how well accepted I am in any of these modes of dress.

If I am fully dressed, there is no mistaking I am a sissy fag in women's clothes, but I frequent places where I mostly encounter women. Clothing stores, spa and salon, etc. Sometimes I go out to eat by myself but have never had any problems. I have read a lot about sissy's like me going to strip clubs and being treated like Queens by the strippers, but have not had the guts for that yet. I have been thinking about hiring an escort some evening to take her out to dinner and then a strip club.

When I don't have time to fully dress and just want to expose to the world my sissy self, I will wear colorful women's blouses, shoes with my pedicured and painted toes sticking out, perfumes and scented lotions is one of my favorites, colorful scarves around my neck, fun jewelry, pink phone cover, girly sunglasses. I often go out with light makeup on generally I use a face lotion with toner in it everyday, but sometimes I and mascara, blush, eye shadow and liner if I really want to stand out. I always have plucked and shaped eyebrows, from time to time I get them dyed so they standout.

As for the gym we have a "family," dressing room so I use that for changing. As a former swimmer I swim some laps with an all lycra suit, (can be problematic with my chastity cage) but having others see my painted toes while I am resting at the end of the pool is exciting. I did the pink towel thing, but the flip flops and gym bag I have not done yet, but why not? In the gym I have worn all girls workout gear without so much as anyone taking notice. Overall a lot of mens clothes sold now have some femininity in them.

On the average i spend 60 to 70% of my time in public wearing or displaying something that would associate me as a girly guy but never really get ANY feedback. Sometimes the gals at the stores say how great I look or they confide in me that that husband, boyfriend, brother, etc cross dresses and how great it is that I am comfortable with it.

The greatest compliment I get is when someone says, ma'am instead of sir.
***erica***

Thank you for your insight and comments. I drove home from my night job last night again dressed up. Maids outfit, wig, lace pantyhose, panties, my red CFM Heels and lipstick. It is such a rush to drive around where there are people at. I made sure that i would be low on gas so I would have to go out and get gas dressed like I was. I also made sure that I only had cash so I would HAVE TO go inside to pay for it. The attendant was an older guy and he didn't even bat an eyelash but when I was pumping gas, a couple of 20 something guys drove up and parked on the other side of my pump, right before I exited the store part. As i was walking behind their car, the passenger got out, looked at me and smiled. It was obvious that I was a man dressed up like a cheap whore. He went inside along with his friend and i pumped my gas, put the gas cap back on as quickly as possible and got back on the road. Half way there, I stopped and asked for directions, even though i wasn't lost. Again, the cab driver I asked didn't really act suprised. I then went to a rest stop area but this one doesn't have a building, just a parking lot. I got out and walked from one side to half way to the other side, pretending to throw away some trash. I am not sure if anyone saw me. All this time, I was imagining that a stern Master or Mistress was ordering me to do all of this. I was so excited.

I forgot to mention. The rest stop had benches and is somewhat dark. As an added "Dare" to myself, I pretended before i left that I was ordered to sit there counting, "One-Thousand One...One-Thousand Two..." all the way up to 100. It added to the risk of a car coming on and seeing me. There are two entrances to the lot and one car did come in, but on the opposite side so they didn't get a good look at me. Looking forward to doing it again possibly next week. Probably inevitable that someone will end up saying something to me in the future.

i just got a smart phone and the sales rep showed me an app where you can download free ringtones. i found one that has a female voice on it saying, "YOUR BOYFRIEND IS CALLING...YOUR BOYFRIEND IS TRYING TO REACH YOU."

Being pretty much a straight guy who isn't completely femme, i thought it would be humiliating for it to go off while other people are around.

i found another one that said, "MASTER, I HAVE MAIL FOR YOU" and "SOMEONE IS TRYING TO REACH YOU MASTER". But none really that would depict me as a slave or a sissy. Anyone have any?

If you get questions about any shaving, maybe that you getting over a rash and DR said to do it..My husband use to say that till he finally came out and said he was a pussy.

Linda,
I am a fan of your postings. I have read some of them and they always either turn me on or make me smile. I have to ask though, who did your husband tell that he was a "Pussy" and was it in that context?

I am.married and a complete panty sissy under my work clothes. I love to shop for panties, thigh highs, or lacy socks. I go to adult bookstores and restareas with a lot of truckers at night. in either place, once they see my pink panties, girly socks and sometimes a pink half slip, I get a lot of attention. truckers flash their lights when I get out of my car dressed this way, and the men in the booths are anxious for me to service them.

I used to go to drive ins like McDonalds with cum on my face ....a
And a pair of panties and a bdsm magazine on the seat.....make eye contact with the attendant ..small talk and drive away knowing the whole thing was captured on the store cam

I had a busy day yesterday. I spent the morning in a bookstore downtown. I had on a pink sweater, lacy pink thong panties, white gurly ankle socks and pretty shoes. the booths have no doors so the 5 men that were in there could see me on my knees in my booth. I sucked all of their cocks, licked their balls and their asses. when they were all hard, I dropped my panties and laid on my back across 2 of the booth stools. Legs spread and in the air, each man bred my sissy hole.