WannabeDom
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So, i often have fantasies that i am being "Forced" to do humiliating things while driving on the freeway. i can't dress up like a complete sissy girl but would like to find semi-discrete ways to humiliate myself. i have a pair of pink sunglasses that i will sometimes wear while driving. Are there any other ways you can suggest that i can do for some self offense and/or embarrassment? i guess i am talking mostly during the day when the sun is up.
Same question goes for when i go to the gym to work out. Let's face it, i can't REALLY wear something over the top while there, besides, sometimes, there are kids there. Is there things that can be worn/done while i am working out? i have been "Checking Out" guys already but that gets boring as a form of offense. i have thought of putting out a craigslist ad stating that i am a closeted sissy faggot and what i will be wearing that night and that if anyone wants to come say hi to me, please feel free. i am sure with every look in my direction, i will be wondering if he read my ad. Any other ideas?
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WannabeDom
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i forgot to mention, one Dom made me laminate a pic of his cock and hang it from my rear view mirror to show how much of a cock slut i was...THAT was hot and sometimes embarrassing when i got into slow traffic and was next to someone. i will try to find the pic to post. Please let me know your ideas.
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nylonfet_fr
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Why not wearing a sport bra and girl panties while you are at the gym and maybe a sissy anklet. Keep your finger nails long, maybe polished in pink like your toe nails ^^ Jewelry is often discret way to show what you really are. And of course keep your body free of hair.
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popeye1
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wear a blond wig with your glasses and insert a but plug so you are being fucked in the ass as you drive.
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WannabeDom
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nice suggestions, i guess i am looking for subtle ways of degradation. i like the anklet one. Don't know if wearing a bra would fly in the gym however my wife once bought me a woman's workout top to wear when i go running. Course, i run at 5am when no one is around and it is still dark. You guys are on the right track though, please give me some suggestions.
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bursting
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False eyelashes when shopping or out for a meal?
Pink or girly socks under normal jeans or trousers?
Perfume when out in public?
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WannabeDom
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So, i went out driving last night after work. It was about 3am and i wore my brown wig, a french maids outfit, black high heels and lipstick. i drove around and found a 7/11 that was open and no one in there. i parked and got out of the car. i walked inside the store and the middle easter man, probably in his 50's gave me a smile. i went and got a take and then walked around the store, swishing and swaying my hips as i browsed for items to buy. i finally purchased them as he asked, "Where do you live?" i told him and he said, "Okay" and bagged my items. i then asked him if i broought my camera in, if he could take my pic. He said he could not. Later that morning, i went to another one, pretending to be lost. Again, a 50's middle eastern man tried to help me with directions. He took me just outside and was showing me where to go, when a customer drove up. i swear he looked like my wife's cousin and had a decal with their last name. It wasn't him but talk about resemblences and coincidences. i thanked him and they both went inside. As i was driving away, i looked back to see them laughing, obviously making fun of the sissy that came in to ask for directions. My last stop was at a rest area. It was VERY dark and there were several cars and one big truck there. i parked my car and got out, i sat on a bench like a whore, waiting for a john to pick up on her. Just then, a 4x4 truck came into the parking lot. He was about 10 stalls away from me and his lights were right on the back of my head. He finally parked and got out of the truck. i began to walk away, being cautious. He then got back in the truck, so i walked to a bench that was closer to his truck but still a little ways away. i finally got in my car and started it up. i began to slowly exit, hoping he would come with me. He followed me at a distance across the freeway to a gas station. i picked a remote area of the lot and parked, facing out so if he came up next to me and parked, we would be facing each other. He parked a distance away, facing me but not getting out of his truck. i got out of my car and pretended to get something from the trunk, just to give him a look at my high heels, skirt and everything else. i got back in the car and we both sat there, him not getting any closer. He finally started up his truck and left. i was sort of hoping he would come up to me and say, "What are you doing?" in which i would replay, "Just trying to live out a fantasy of mine." Here is a pic of what i wore. Any more suggestions?
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popeye1
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who took the pic?
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WannabeDom
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popeye1: who took the pic? i put it on timer and placed it on top of a trash can.
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luvembig
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For semi-discrete offense, a cherry red lollipop was one of my wife's favorite tools. Sitting in the passenger seat with a ball cap and sunglasses, they couldn't tell it was a guy right away. I'd sit there and suck and lick at it and all around it and run it over my lips. I'd take it down and bulge out my lips or push out my cheek. It's good anywhere you go in public. No real man is walking around with a lollipop stuck in his mouth. Learning to use it to attract men teaches you how to make you mannerisms more womanly.
The gym was essential during my transition. I've come to love workout wear more than anything else, even panties. Title Nine is my favorite store. I could write pages about my adventures at the gym.
Start off with going to yoga classes. The women's clothes are nearly the same as the mens. Wear women's capris and a short sleeve shirt to start. By the fourth or fifth session, I was surrounded by gorgeous women before and after class treating me like one of the girls. If you go straight from class out to the weights, you'll barely be noticed.
I've been a yoga instructor for two years now. All of the meatheads like me. They hang out with me at the gym and some will test out their tranny/gay fantasies by taking me out to coffee or even a ballgame. None of the other guys say anything because they all know me and my wife.
It is the easiest way to neuter yourself for everyone.
Last weekend, I went to an NFL game with four huge black guys from the gym. I rode to the game squished in the middle seat of an Audi A4 between two hulks. During tailgating, I made the food and hung out with the wives. I ran for beer and popcorn during the game. The guys teased me and I pretended not to know what was going on during the game so they could explain it to me. During the fourth quarter, I squealed a little when we scored a touchdown to take the lead and a fan from the opposing team called me a fag. The guys roughed him up a little and told him I was their fag and they weren't going to let anyone talk cuckolds brownie about me.
I have long hair, hoop earrings and no body hair. My toenails are always painted and if I reach up you can see my belly ring. The guys tease me but that's what guys do.
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WannabeDom
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Luvembig, WOW, that is awesome. Thanks for the input. Well, i put a craigslist ad out about my fantasy of me going to the gym and letting them know what i will be wearing so they can dominate, humiliate and basically, treat me like their bitch. One guy wrote me and told me i would be changing his weights for him and he would take every advantage to rub his crotch against me, especially when he is spotting me on the bench press. He also said he would sit on the middle step while i sit on the bottom step of the steam room. He will purposly drop his bottle of water and tell me to pick it up. When i turn around, he will ensure my face is right next to his shorts so i can sniff his crotch. He also said he would meet me outside and i would have to suck his sweaty cock. Well, i told him i don't think i am going to suck him in public and probably not without a condom. i am just careful i guess.
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sissycindylynn
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#12 · Edited by: sissycindylynn
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I have had a lot of offense in my life, as a sissy, don't we deserve it? An old GF used to dress me in a pink matching, bra, garter belt. panties and stockings, and pull my jeans and panties down, or open my zipper take out my sissy clittie and balls and make me drive around like that as she sat next to me, laughing and making comments. Another set of times, she'd load me up on liquids and make me squat outdoors to pee like a woman, if it's good enough for women, it's too good for a sissy like you she'd tell me. Once she made me squat and waited for me to start going, it was winter and then she put on the high beam headlights and blew the horn in a lovers lane and yelled out, look at the sissy, she's peeing, and I had to keep going, wipe like a woman, retuck, and redress and run back to the car, she was laughing her ass off. Lots of heads popped up and saw me, as they also blew their horns and put their lights on as well.
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RenoSissyCuck
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i have worn my panties to the gym alot, and shaved my legs and under arms in the group shower which shows my waxed clitty. when i work out i wear pastel spandex bike shorts which shows an amazing bikini panty line and i usually wear a training bra. i love to stand at the mirror inmy bra and panties putting on my moisturizer and plucking my eyebrows before i blow dry my hair then dress to go! sissy lindsey
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RenoSissyCuck
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oh btw another fun sissy destination is the drive in movies! sissy lindsey
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WannabeDom
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Gosh, i must be such a pansy. i would be so afraid to do some of those things. Does anyone say anything to you when you are at the gym?
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nylonfet_fr
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Hi, your picture is nice but first thing to do would be to get rid of these uggly hair. So start by shaving your legs before go to the gym next time. Kisses
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WannabeDom
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OMG, when people ask why i shaved my legs, how can i explain it???
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sissycindylynn
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You tell them you are a submissive sissy who is here to serve the Woman who owns you, and being more feminine is what is best for someone like you and let them take it from there. You tell them you are closer to being female than a male and no-one should ever mistake you for being a male. You wish you were born a female, but wasn't lucky enough, so the closer to female you are, the more at home you are and more appropriate it is for you. Someone once said it takes real balls being a sissy. Either you do this or you don't, your choice. What's it gonna be sissy?
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draclif69
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sissycindylynn: it takes real balls being a sissy What a terrific line!
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WannabeDom
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wow, you make me wish i was MORE feminine than i am. i guess i have a choice to make. i am supposed to meet a Dom man who is bi there soon. He said he is going to order me around like a bitch and do some subtle humiliating things with me. i guess we shall see.
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sissycindylynn
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Well, what happened sissy?
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WannabeDom
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haven't met him yet, schedule conflicts
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denied
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Years ago my wife had me do electolisys and then later laser to remove all hair except my eyebrows and hair on my head. When people would remark or ask, I would simply respond that my wife preferred me to be hairless and smooth. If the conversation progressed, I would add remarks alluding to my place in our marriage and that not only she but also her special friends thought it best for me to be hairless and smooth. People always smiled when I noted that she found me more attractive and that my hairless body best suited my role in our marriage. When some would ask what role, I would add that my wife basically led our marriage and preferred me to be smooth and hairless to reflect my position compared to her and her special friends. That always drew smiles, usually of approval.
Also, if you start wearing simple panties to the gym, once you are comfy with them, you can advance to lace or thongs and it will work out fine. You may get some looks, but if you are shaved, they will get the joke.
I think being hairless is so very key for the sissy. Shaping your eyebrows a bit also helps loads.
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Linda38DD
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[i][/i]How about wearing a coller?
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nylonfet_fr
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Shaving first, then clear nail polish to start of course always panties ... plucking eyebrow is also very good.
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WannabeDom
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i hate to put a damper on this, but what do you say to your youngren, both teenage and younger about your new shaved legs?
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nylonfet_fr
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You can tell them that you are not confortable anymore with hair on your legs, or that your wife preferes you smooth or that it is better for sports .... Not sure they will ever notice that anyway. But don't worry that's nothing compared to the day they will discover their daddy is wearing panties or bra or even stockings under his pants.
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sissydollyanne
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I shave my legs and body and it hasn't been a problem at the gym. More people are doing it nowadays, especially swimmers. And, it's also an interesting feeling of total nakedness and inferiority to real men! However, I've had to keep some hair on my arms to keep peace at home.
As for panties, I always wear them 24/7 and try to take them off and put them on discreetly at the gym. I started with plain Victoria's Secret panties and progressed to frilly ones. It's not that hard to do and hasn't been a problem so far as most people are not looking anyway. You WILL be very self-conscious however!
I have had my clear-polish toe nails stared at. It might be better to paint them a "goth" color like maroon or black. I permisterally wear hot pink polish most of the time and worry about doing that at the gym, so I switch to clear!
Most of the time I'm in a chastity device too! When swimming I wear panties underneath a girl's swimsuit bottom to semi-hide the chastity. I like the feeling it gives me to know I am hairless, wearing a chastity, panties, and a girl's bathing suit!
Also, you might consider getting some pink flip-flops and a pink towel. I did that for the shower and it adds a nice feminine feeling.
Another nice touch is a pink lock for the gym locker. I have three!
I haven't done this yet, but am considering getting a pink gym bag. I just don't know if I'm that brave yet!
Have fun and be safe!
xoxoxo "Sissies don't get pussy, they ARE pussy!"
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WannabeDom
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You have done all of that and are afraid to get and bring in a pink gym bag??? That is classic.
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cuckinheels
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Switching to a girly phone or at least getting a pink case for your iPhone is a great way to subtly advertise imo.
If you can combine that with clear nail varnish, you're onto a winner!
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