thak you and a little more advice: should I do it?

My wife is out of town, on business and pleasure ( she's meeting a guy she met on line). I have a sexy BBC that wants to meat me... should I go? He has what I need and wants me to suck his cock and fuck me. Is it cheating if she's getting her pussy stretched by some big cocked stud and I want the same thing? She knows I'm a sissy and s related before, I cum thinking about big cocks. Like today, I was at home, being a good househubby but I got horny and literally rubbed my sissy clit to orgasm twice thinking about big dicks. I didnt jerk off, I rubbed the underside of my little cocklet (just under the head) like a girl and came! When she gets home she will tell me all about her "boyfriend" and his big cock and all I can think about is how good it would feel to sit on a big man's cock and cum... and then I cum! should I tell her? thanks for your help. Suzie

I don't know if the form or your relation, BUT I would definitely recommend that you tell her. You have given her permission and the communication is coming from her to you. She and your relationship should have the same communication from you to her. Good luck

Live play with someone else is a big step with potential health impacts, etc. You would be very unwise to take it without prior discussion/permission from your wife regardless of ethics.

About the ethics: yes, having sex outside of the marriage without consent of your partner is cheating. period. Being a sissy does not give you you some dispensation for treating your wife so disrespectfully. In fact, as a sissy, I think you should strive treat her more respectfully and deferentially than a man would.

Besides, your path is clear enough anyhow: tell her about the man. You can do so while she's away by phone if the two of you are in a place in the relationship where you can have this conversation over the phone. Otherwise, you can wait until she gets home. Tell her about the guy and how much you want his cock and beg her to let you and offer to do anything she asks in return. You might find she is totally down with it.

Let us know how it goes.
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AND she might get a kick out of your begging and formalize it.

thank you all for your responses and concern with relationships and honesty. I am somewhat in conflict with your responses and opinions. From what I have seen over the last few years of my membership, this is all fantasy and discussion and having fun without complications. Why not play along and have fun? If we were all serious about concerns about our relationships, the truth is we ALL need serious counselling and sexual therapy. I think it's understood that things are not easy and morals or norms are constrained to say the least. Relax and have fun. We are all people just trying to get through this world. If I REALLY wanted to go thru with things I would not have typed it out, I would have done it. Relax and enjoy our safe computer world!