public humiliation

so how many oif you get off on other knowing you are in your CB, Clearly we all like the offense aspect of this kind of containment. SO occcasionally I go to a stip club and get lap dances making sure that I tell the dancer about it first. THey all want to see it, so in the back rooms I drop my pants, and inevitably get laughed at.

Then as I get the dance (grinding in my lap, etc) they ask me about it adn I tell them of my cuckolding and they start out feeling bad for me, but start laughing and riduculing me by the end of 2 dances.

All very exciting for me.

Last night at a club filled mostly with black men and dancers, the hot young black dancer told some of the other custoemrs and a couple of the men came and talked to me...asked to see pics of wife, told me how THEY could please her. Very exciting night. I practically crawled out of the club in shame.

Used to love doing that. I found the dancers really liked that I was in chastity, because they could just get me to keep buying dances until I'd used all the cash I had.
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

I also go to strip clubs.
In lingerie not chasity.
I have had similiar experiences to those above.

Very cool. We live in a city, but I have been made to walk to the laundromat and do all the wash in a pinafore or even a full maid's uniform. We have a machine in our apartment, so it is pretty rare anymore, but it never gets easier that way.
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

brenda thats so awesome! love how your wife treats you! i love to wash my lingiere and dresses at the laundry mat always using the bottom dryers so when i bend over my panties show!
sissy lindsey

brenda
Think i'd like to be treated like this too, but dont think she would in public, she makes me go out in the backyard just in my cage which is quite secluded and also makes me sunbathe there just in my cage. she likes to send me out there when it's cold too, so that my cock shrivels up, then she chastises me and tells me what a pathetic cock i have.

I like the strip club idea as well and have often thought a quite embarrassing situation would be to have a dancer discover you wearing a bra. Can you imagine her reaction? Your wife could even witness the whole thing by not sitting with you, just watching from accross the room so your on your own. Another thing to remember is that a lot of clubs (not necessarily a strip club even) have black lights and a white bra under a light weight, dark colored shirt will often show through quite clearly. This would also make a thong or any bright colored panties that peek out a lot more noticeable. Another offense is to wear a strong, long lasting very feminine perfume, can't hide it or wash it off very easy.

last year, my wife told me I would get to cum if I could prove to her that I showed someone my panties. SO I went to a Hooters Resturant, and told the girl I losta bet to my wife and they gigled but took a pic with me where I was pulling my panties thong wasteband above my jeans , and they were pointing andlaughing. Humiliating as they were very hot , sexy young girls, and my wife DID let me cum, but only jerking off while licking her ass. STill WORTH it!

would love anyone elses ideas on ways to discreetly but publically humiliate oneself

1) My wife’s birthday is coming up, so as usual I will through her a party. This year I thought I might include in the invitation to all our friends that I have planned something extra for my wife as you all know that I do not satisfy her sexually as I am old and tiny. (they will think this is just a joke – but not be sure) Then I will interview (with her) and hire a male stripper making sure that that we discuss that he must be large, because I am not. I am certain that she will have fun with the stripper in front of our friends - to my additional offense.
2) My concern with the above is that it really is something that may not be complete this week, and so she MAY tell me that My “reward” will have to wait until after the party….so while I will likely do the above, I also thought perhaps i would put on a red bra and sexy panties, and a white t-shirt and short running shorts, and the go to get my much needed haircut. SO it will be apparent, and I will have to sit there for close to an hour. Not sure if I should go to the salon with the gay guy, or the one with the sexy young girl. Thoughts?

servemywifehappily,

I think your birthday party idea is a great one, but I'm surprised you consider it discrete enough. I also like the haircut idea, but to answer your question: It depends on which you find more humiliating.

A few ideas from my own past that may be discrete enough for you:

-> Wear make-up and a bra with a jacket or cardigan over the bra. Go get food at the drive through window of a restaurant, allowing your jacket to fall open at the pay window. (At night is less risky for this.)

-> At night, go get gas for your car wearing high-heels and stockings. Get out and pump the gas yourself and go into the attached snack store to pay for it. If you dare, you can also wear the bra/jacket combo above and/or make-up, or even go fully en femme.

-> Go to a gym wearing both your chastity and panties. Change in the locker room. (Go at a busy time.) For additional points, wear a sports bra under a thin t-shirt and cotton panties under high-cut, too tight shorts when you work out. (I use pink women's "cheerleader" shorts, or men's from American Apparel. Either way, they are cut with no space in the crotch, so everything is very visible.) You can still ponder your own question about whether you will be better off going to a gay gym or one filled with attractive females. You can also shower and/or steam in your chastity.

-> If there is a gym with a pool or if you are near a beach in season, you can wear a skimpy speedo that clearly shows the outline of the chastity to anyone who looks. Better, you can wear a women's bikini bottom.

-> Go to a salon, get a pedicure and asked for your nails to be painted a bright color. (I did this once with a place where I had to sit with them in the drying machine at a counter looking out the plate glass onto a busy street around the corner from my house.)

-> You seem to be turned on by the notion of being seen as gay by people. Would it be too indiscrete for you to get a haircut that r-e-i-n-f-o-r-c-e-s such suspicions by people? What about a right ear piercing for a gay signal, or both ears for a sissy signal? Ear piercings can be flexible for this - obvious earrings for a lot of h-u-m-i-l-i-a-t-i-o-n, smaller ones for less of a scene, none for maximum discretion. Unadorned, they are not obvious, but they are always visible for someone close enough to notice.

-> On that same theme: Why stop at the male stripper for your wife? Send yourself one at the office and blame it on a prank by a friend. Better, follow-up your wife's birthday party with one for yourself. Invite the same people - and have the same stripper but this time sent for you!

-> Wear a bra on a rainy day. Better; go jogging with one under your t-shirt in the rain. In hot pink sneakers.

-> Take out the trash in heels.

-> Do you get home delivery of the newspaper? Step out for it in the morning in lingerie.

-> Do you travel? Pack panties, etc. and a big butt-plug in your suitcase and hope for secondary screening. Make sure your panties, the butt-plug, etc. (gay porn?) are on top in case they open your bag. (I suppose you could even put in something that will require additional screening like a too large package of lube, but I wouldn't personally feel comfortable wasting the time of law enforcement that way.)

-> Likewise, just wear your chastity when flying. If it is plastic it won't set off the machines (trust me on this) but it will show up on the new imaging scanners. (They won't care or stop you, but it is still embarrassing.) But be aware that if your device is metal, it will set off the detectors and they will have to pull you into a separate room and have you show it to them.

-> On traveling, you can go to the ice machine in your hotel in lingerie/make-up/heels/whatever. You can also "forget" your key when you do and have to go to the front desk to be let back in. Also: room service. One thing I've experienced (not deliberately exactly) was to receive room service with a male blow-up doll clearly visible across the room.

-> When meeting friends, have your wife go on ahead and explain that you were having d-r-i-n-k-s with some friends first. When you arrive a little late, have her ask you how the [insert name of known local gay bar] was.

Hope there is something for you in there. Personally, I think the best embarrassment (when you are ready for it) will be to invite this birthday party crowd of yours to a BBQ or party at your place and include your wife's boyfriend on the guest list. They needn't say anything to anyone, but a little touching and chaste signs of intimacy as the evening progresses will tell a lot to those noticing. Especially since you will spend the whole evening running back and forth from the kitchen and the bar playing host to them all in a (girly as you dare) kitchen apron while your wife takes care of the social mingling.

Seriously. From there it is short steps to serving them all in a maid's uniform.

Good luck with the party and haircut.
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

w/r to the party idea, i think it is NOT discreet but explainable as some sort of joke for her Bday. So everyone will wonder, but I can make the claim it was a joke.

w/r to your Gym ideas. When I used to belong to a gym I did (what choice have i) wear my CB to locker room, but it had private showers, so I just had to make a quick dash to the shower. but while changing, and drying etc.. I know i was seen a couple times. I like the idea though thanks.

AS far as wanting to be seen as gay. I do NOT, but thinking of ways to humiliate myself always seem to go toward feminization of some sort. but love the other ideas. thanks and since my wife knows I am a bit homo-phobic, she knows that the gay stuff adds offense for me.

Cant do anything that would show me in legerie either in my neighborhood or at work. Need to protect those locations.

I do travel and I usually do have my CB in my briefcase, and my wife and I skype to show her that I put it back on with a numbered plastic tie (and I only bring 1). SInce my CB is steel. I think though I could add something more embarrassing to my laptop bag (like a big dildo?)

I really like the tight speedo at the pool idea (that woudl clearly show my CB)


All great ideas,. THANKS so much. Wife told me yesterday that if I do not come up with something it will be 2 months minimum before I cum.

thanks for all the ideas, and the effort you put into it. Really love these ideas and would certainly welcome more from others?

ANother idea was to perform on a gay webcam site , and let her watch from off cam. as she knows how this would humiliate me as I am not at ALL interested in other men.


Running out fo time to decide on the idea I am going to propose...anyone else?

I like the gay webcam idea, but I have a twist. Rather than just watching from off-camera, have her log in as a viewer. Then she can make suggestions & comments that the others can see (though they'll never know who she is.)

In terms of things you can half-explain away as a joke - Halloween is coming. Why not have a costume party where you dress as a french maid and serve the guests? You can tell folks that you lost a bet with your wife and make a joke of it. If it is too late or too close on the calendar to your wife's birthday to throw your own Halloween party, why not wear the maids uniform (or something similarly emasculating, like a hooker costume) to someone else's. It can still be put down to a lost bet and/or a joke, and it will still be embarrassing. (Perhaps more since you won't know exactly who else has been invited.)

If a party of people you know is too much, how about traveling to a place where you aren't known? A Halloween parade in a nearby city? A nightclub in another town? A gay bar in the next county?

If Halloween can't work - and you are willing to be more risque - you can do the "lost the bet so I'm the maid" thing at ANY party occasion. Doing this once and then the birthday party stripper thing once adds up to a lot of h-u-m-i-l-i-a-t-i-o-n. (And just think: Next time its your birthday, the wife can get YOU a stripper - male, tranny, or dominatrix - to "get you back.")
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

Thanks but <sigh> as I bet you all thought this weekend did not work out as I had dreamed. I presented all the idea, and my wife liked them, but they were not good enough. ALso, she was a bit mad that I had ruined her birthday party surprise, so now she expects those plans, plus something NEW as a surprise. NO other critique of ideas, just "not good enough", so here I sit still frustrated.

She also knew that the week of trying to think these thru was exciting for me, so as instructed, I thanked her for the opportunity to focus on her deisres and amuzement even more than usual. She expects me to keep that level fo focus even though - there will be orgasm as reward in the future. Her happiness is more than enough reward.

<sigh>

servemywifehappily,

I think we could all help more if we had a better idea of what your wife wants. Is this a case where she wants you to be humiliated but you are the one trying to make sure that you can explain it away? The gay webcam stuff, etc. - does that slant come from her or is it ideas you are generating?
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

We have visited Hedo in Jamaica (adult, nudist resort) and whilst we had fun, I got a tan in a bikini with excellent tan lines and two little love hearts near my belly button.

I go for a waxing so the girl that does it, sees my bikini tan lines. I'm not sure if she knows, but I cringe when I'm getting it done.

I'm thinking of a girly belly button piercing now, as it's slightly more permanent than a suntan. I quite often wear perfume during the day when I'm working just in case someone comes to the door and I have answered the door in bare feet with painted toenails to the postman - I think that I was more shocked than he was.

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How about you in fem undies at the party and the big surprise, you have your women's pants pulled down and she gives you a public birthday spanking, panties and stockings showing?

I do quite a bit to humiliate myself....wear a very loose V neck sweater with a lacy bra underneath to a shoe store (usually really hot young chicks work there), first ask to try on a pair a mens shoes.....when she brings the shoes back she will usually stand right in front of you.....bend forward slowly untie your shoes giving her a long time to see down the front of your sweater....at this point you usually get a funny smirk or a small giggle.....take off your shoe...of course you are wearing a pair of white or black stockings with your nails painted.....this will usually get even more of a giggle....if it seemed to go well ask the sales girl if you could try on a pair of open toed ladies heels.....as well through the time when you realize that she knows you are wearing lingerie you can engage her with what ever humiliating conversation you choose....you will have her complete attention...

Humiliation ideas for b-day:

1. Have some of your friends ask him about his small penis. Have your boyfriend ask him about his small penis. Have your husband actually show his penis to a small group. Have a comparimister with your husband and someone else in the room.

2. Have people come up to him with a photo of his penis. Have them ask your husband to sign it.

3. Send him on a scavanger hunt that ends at a party. Make him look for clues until he gets to his birthday party. On the hunt you can get extreme make him send you photos of him wearing panties, heels, make-up, nails done then you send him somewhere else, or keep it simple make him run around your house looking for clues.

4. Parties can be fun. Have you husband watch you and a friend leave into a part of the house that is off limits during the party. Send your husband out to get high, beer run, or for a walk until you call. You can have him come back at anytime before, during or after your boyfriend and before, during or after most of your guests have left. Have one of the other guest tell your husband where you are, who you are with and what you are doing.

5. Tie your husband up for some kinky play and leave. Tell your husband your going to go get laid. Then get ready infront of him. Ask him if you look good enough for "...." (boyfriend, a date, getting laid, fucking). Go out leave your husband watching porn. Here you can do whatever go to a movie or out to eat or you can get laid. Go home and *** your husband, play with his penis, have him perform task before you tell what happen that night.

Nice post, update please!

Another great public *********** idea is to go to the mall with your wife or whoever. Go separate ways and meet at the food court area for lunch. Have him arrive there first then she comes along carrying bags of stuff she bought. She can say in a loud voice that she got him a present. Everyone will watch as she rummaged through her stuff to find it and everyone will see her pull out some panties for him or something similar. Then if she sends him to put them on right away. ...
Another thing to do at the mall together is just shop normally and mainly for her of course. Make a deal before you go in though that if any sales staff asks if they can help you, you say you are looking for his size in whatever it is you happen to be looking for at the time no matter what it is.

There is one thing my wife loves to do to me when she wants a laugh. First, she paints my toes in a very bright color. Then, we get in the car and drive until we are very far out of town. Next, while I am sitting in the passenger seat, I take my shoes off and put the seat all the way back. Then she has me roll the window down, and hang my bare feet out like girls do in the summer. Its so embarrassing to see the looks i get from other drivers.
Guys will speed up hoping to see a cute girl, only to laugh when they find me. Women and girls wave and giggle when they see me. Whenever someone takes pictures with their phone, my wife has me blow kisses and wave.
So far its never happened, but i don't know what I'd do if someone i knew saw me. How could you ever explain that.

Here are some pics of what I was talking about. Sorry, they are not my feet though. Feet out the window gets you noticed by everyone. But if the weather is bad, people will still see them on the dash. If your wife is really cruel, she will drive slow through a crowded parking lot so people can walk beside the car while they laugh and make jokes.

I found a story on this theme unfortunately in French language, but a hot one in my opinion!
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was re reding this thread.. Ah good times...

any other Ideas for self *********** in public (without freaking out the vanillas too much)?

Obvious ones I have done.

1) Wear panties with "Whale tail" clearly visible at walmart

2) ask pharmacist "I know there are magnum condoms but are there any extra small ones?"

3) Be seen holding women's undergarments up to your self for sizing, take them in dressing room

4) Told Hooters Girls that I lost a bet to my wife and needed a photo proving I showed her i was wearing panties (just a photo of her giggling while I pulled the waistband above pants) TIpped her well

5) went to strip club, told girls about my chastity cage and paid them to tell others. One also took me to the couch area and had me pay for her to dance for other men

6) I have warn my chastity cage to gym and changed in the open (quickly) and

6.5) swam laps and went in steam room ins tight speedo showing the cage off

I once got a henna tattoo. They are not expensive, and only last a week or two. But they won't wash off , so you can't get scared and back out later.

does anyone know of any way to public humiliate myself the kinkier and riskier the better.

irishwife39
You could always book an appointment at a nearby salon. You will be there for at least an hour or two, if you get a mani and pedi done. Just think about how many other women will be there. You might see someone you know. They might record you on their phone.

No new other experience folks ?