Telling My Wife I WANT THE NEXT STEP

I am a cuckold. My wife has a boyfriend and she is happy with him so I am happy.
I want to find a way to tell her I want to be more feminine without turning her off to the idea. I love wearing
bras panties and stockings, just need her to get on board with it. What is the best way to break my
gender bending ideas to my wife?

Just do it and show her when she returns.

Maybe the best way is to start with some panties and slowly that could lead to things in the future. I really would
like her to take a role in feminizing me if she would like to.

There is a way I found with my ex quite succesful but it needs the help of a third party pm me if you wish to know the details