Finally have wife on the right track.

I'm 50 years old and have been married to Deb for 28 years. I sit here writing this letter locked up in my 'curve' chastity device that Deb purchased for me. After years of giving subtle suggestions to down right asking her to treat more dominating, she finally has seen the benefits. I'm 6'2 220 lbs with a very athletic build. Most would know me to be very masculine and dominating on the job, but in the bedroom I'm a sissy, cuckold wanna be. Despite my outward appearance I have a small 5" cut penis that doesn't get as hard as it used to in my youth. But what Deb really finds frustrating is I'm a quick shooter. In our early years she never complained, but over the last few years she has commented on how frustrating it is for her when I cum so soon. She even timed me with her Ipod and I'm averaging 45-55 seconds. I've told her that any man that cums so quick and doesn't satisfy his wife deserves to be locked up. So, she finally agreed by putting me in chastity. Plus, she told me that my only duties would be using my mouth and toys on her. She was worried , at first, about losing the closeness we'd feel with sex, but the cuddling we do afterward more than makes up for that. " besides", she told me, " it's not like I'm missing out on your cock".

So, right now she's breaking me in with the chastity cage by having me wear it Monday to Friday as soon as I get home from work, until after I have my morning shower. Then on Friday after work, I put it on all weekend until Monday morning. This isn't foolproof by any stretch to keep me from masturbating but it's a good start.

I feel I'm that much closer to her cuckolding me when she soon starts to miss a man's cock in her. We'll see.

Its a start...good luck and hope to hear more.

Wow, I can't believe how my wife has started to get into me being in chastity. She actually likes being my key holder. It was so hot to see the little key hanging with her pendant on her chain. She proudly wore the key to work today and I can only fantasize what someone must have thought.
First few nights have been tough because of night time hard ons. Woke up a few times to have to think about something else to make my cock go soft so I could get back to relax. Hopefully I'll get used to it or get less hard ons at night. Very comfortable wearing through out the day. Took a few trial and errors to get the ring and spacer combination down but I think I've got it now.
Deb's started giving me chores to do each evening when I get home from work, which I readily do. I'm sure the weekend will involve even more. She's marked on the calendar the day I get sex which is November the 15th. In the mean time I've been orally pleasing her which she finds quite satisfying (for now).

Here is a picture of my queen the key holder

I'm in the same boat and LOVING it! We're fortunate to have wives w/a kinky side!

How much of your desires about cuckolding does she know? Does she know of this forum?

voyager
this is the best thing for your relationship. I told you awhile back you need to control that thing and if you can't do it she should do it for you. The best thing my ex would do would be to take off the cage, get me on the verge, put it back on and keep me on a schedule.

My wife and I play with chastity once in a while. The latest was during the Giants-Phillies playoff games. When the Giants lost I had to wear it and when they won it came off. Luckily the Giants did very well.

My wife is still a somewhat reluctant keyholder. She only does it because I asked her to.

I am very curious on how you plan on moving from chastity to cuckolding.