I expected responses like the ones already received when I first read this post. I didn't immediately respond because I feel there are too many unknowns to make a good decision. Things like, how is your relationship currently as far as control? Is chastity just a game or serious control that you both are looking for? Does she truly want full control, or just toys with it for fun? What is the average time between releases up till now and what is the longest period?
In my way of thinking, I would like my long term GF to take total control, but at her wanting it... not just doing it to please me. Once she has total control, all the things you listed as "reamisters for release" mean nothing unless she decided I should be allowed too (for her amusement; not for my pleasure). As far as how long the next lock up period should be, I think that depends on if she has other lovers to fill her need for penetration (dildos and vibes are not the same so I'm told) as well as simply what she wants. Does she want to push the length of time till your are truly begging for release, or would she miss having intercourse to much to deny you that long? After all, unless she has a lover, denying you is denying her too and denying you can feel like a huge sacrafice to her (again, so I'm told).
Good luck either way. I hope you'll understand the importance of the answers to the questions I posed and answer them honestly.
BTW, I just had a mishievious thought.... she lets you remain unlocked for a undisclosed period of time. During this time, you have to tell her about any orgasm you have from JO'ing. When the period is over, she tells you it's time to lock it up and you will remain locked for 1 day/week/month for each time you JO'ed without her telling you to. HEHE. Wonder what she will think of that.
