Chastity Question

How were you put in chastity? Was it your choice as well. Did you get put in a device? And if so did you put it on yourself or did your wife or girlfriend put it on you? Did her bull have a say in it?

My GF put mine on me. and i did not really have much say in it to be honest.

My GF put me in a CB3000 'cause she felt i masturbated too much. She told me either I wore the cockcage or she would leave me. So I didn't have much to say in the matter either. She is very good at wrapping me around her finger and getting anything she wants, anyway. She says it's part of my training to be more attentive to her and she's right; the longer she keeps it on the more i want to please her. After awhile I can't think of anything else but keeping her happy. The first time she only kept it on two days before giving me relief. Relief being a hand job with warm oil while I got to suckle her tits. After I got cleaned up it was back to the cage and eventually shes' worked the time up to every three to four weeks before I get to take it off. When she fucks other guys i get to listen from the spare room and believe me with the cockcage on I bask in the glow of total offense. She's got her newest BF over now, that's why I'm on-line. lol It's been three weeks since my last squirt and I'm hoping she'll be in the mood after this new guy leaves this morning.

So, does her BF know your in Chastity? My Girlfriends boyfriend was witness to when she put mine on. The offense was even more intense because he is younger than I am but has the upper hand along with my GF. I did nt know I was going to be put in it but really couldnt refuse either.

THAT BF, the one she is with right now, does not know I exist. She does have one BF, one of the bouncers at the club where she works, that knows I'm her cuckold. When he's over i have to make dinner and serve them takes, etc., etc.

Here is a picture of my Mistress:

Kiss my ass

Great pic!! My gf has told all our friends as well. They all know. Only she and he have seen me in the device though. She put it on me. She has a key and he as well. She keeps it on her necklace. Did she give an ultimate reamister why she wants you in chastity? My gf said since I can't please her I shouldn't get any pleasure. Also I was cucked at an early age of 27. She is 24. I've noticed younger people don't do it too often though. Maybe I'm wrong?

My Mistress is much younger than than I am. it's all a game to her, to see how much offense I will put up with. She says that she gets off better knowing that she controls me this way. And yes, she also wears the key around her neck. She tells anyone who asks what the key is for.

Do family and friends know that you are in chastity? My girlfriend told some of our mutual friends from college about it and her girlfriends know and of course her lover knows.

Ive posted this on my own thread but thought I would add it here as well. My story is kinda boring but I think its fairly common. Note that my story is only in its first chapter. Hopefully, there will be many more chapters to come.

After many years of fantasizing and reading stories about chastity, I got the nerve to tell my wife. It was last November or December. She was a good sport and told me that we could try it if I wanted. So I ordered a CB6000 from keptforher.com that I received around Christmas time.

Weve only used it few times since. And only for a few days each time. I have had a few higiene issues, but I think I have those worked out. We do have fun teasing each other about it.

In summary: I initiated the chastity but she has been slow to come around. I think she feels kinda bad about doing it to me. She feels bad when I dont relax well because I am uncomfortable. I continue to explain that I like it when she locks me up and teases me. I have to give her credit. She is really trying to have fun with this kink, but it doesnt come naturally for her. Recently I bought her the book "Male Chastity". She is slowly reading through it. I am hoping it will help explain why it is such a turn on for us men and she will understand it more. I also hope she finds some ideas that remisterate within her that she might like to try.

Thats about it. Again, this is only chapter 1.

my GF was all for it. She is the dominant one anyway and her bf/lover was all for it too. They keep me in for a few days at a time and even a week at a time if I can handle it. Sex with her doesnt happen anymore so its just my hand or herhand or oral. I guess Im far along into the chastity thing and at the age of 27 it is fairly young I guess. She is 25 he is 24. I havent heard of the younger generation being into this as much as the older so I guess we are in the minority.

She knows its a turn on for me and it is for her too.

Thats really cool how the two of you are enjoying chastity and cuckoldry. You are right,, you are kind of young to be doing this. I cant imagine doing this when I was your age. It seems that it is mostly done later as a way to spice things up.

So how do you handle the cuckolding? You say you and her no longer have sex. Are you worried that the lack of intimacy between you and her coupled with the magnitude of intimacy between her and her lover might cause the relationship to fail? When a man fucks a woman, chemicals are released in her brain which create a strong sense of bonding between her and the man. Dont you worry about that? Or or you and her taking steps to make sure this doesnt happen?

How do you handle this mentally? How do you handle the fact that she keeps her legs closed for you while spreading them wide for her lover while keeped you locked up at the same time?

Sorry for all the questions but I find it sooooo interesting!

Oh, and to answer your question about who puts the cage on , its me. Its not that easy to put on so I think she would have a hard time. Not to mention the fact that I would try to get hard by her touching me. But after its on, I always let her put on the lock and snap it shut. Right now she hides the keys but if things go well this year, I am going to buy her a gold necklace for her for Christmas to hold the keys on.

she keeps they key on her necklace.

Anyway, I handle it well. We are still intimate just dont have intercourse. I dont give her pleasure like he can in that way. Much bigger man. I want her to have pleasure and we still say we love eachother its just all about her gaining pleasure that i cant give her. he gets off on dominating me and she does too. Its about the experience with us.

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My wife began relaxing with other men after I begged her to try swinging. She had no problem having sex with other men - but would not let me have sex with other women. She hated the idea of me masturbating while watching her, and this led to the purchase of my first CB device, a CB 2000. Since then, she has purchased me a custom made steel device, locked via PA. She has been going with the same guy for over 5 years now. He holds the keys, and believe it or not, I have not been released - other than for cleanings - for over 3 years. My wife has an incredibly active sex life; I have not had sex for 10 years, (intercourse).