How to stop orgasm Advice please

I don't mind my cuckold getting hard in fact I like him getting hard in his cage etc.
What I want is ideas and haves that will stop him being able to cum or that will give him dry orgasms.
I don't want him having the enjoyment of being able to orgasm but want him to have the frustration of getting hard but no orgasm.
Any ideas or help please.
Private messages welcome as well.

can he orgasm if he's caged and can't touch himself? Even if he's not milked?

milk his prostate is the best way or castrate him!

hornylynne
Citalopram and duloxetine did it for me, but was no erections and no orgasms, dont know if altering doseage would alter effects, prescription only though in UK

Why would you want that?

It seems to me a much better situation is to let him have the occasional orgasm just he remembers how good they were. If you eliminate them altogether you may lose out on some of beneficial aspects of keeping him chaste.

Tantric sex is the ancient Indian spiritual tradition of sexual practices. It attributes a different value to orgasm than traditional cultural approaches to sexuality. Some practitioners of tantric sex aim to eliminate orgasm from sexual intercourse by remaining for a long time in the pre-orgasmic and non-emission state. Advocates of this, such as Rajneesh, claim that it eventually causes orgasmic feelings to spread out to all of one's conscious experience

Or study The Rosicrucians

Hubby not in cage 24/7 due to work commitments so really need haves that will prevent his orgasm or at least make it dry so he does not get any real joy out of it.

I take chasteberry pills for three months and I'm impotent for a month. I don't have both orgasm and erection. By the way I do not miss them too much. Fortunately an other guy does the job what I should do with my wife.

What dose of chasteberry pills did you take?

150 mg. Two times a day. Morning and evening. It was my wife's ex lover's idea but I got used to this.

hornylynne
Why do you want to deny hubby any fun?.

I get lots of fun without him, and I also like the offense side of him getting hard and beating off and not being able to cum.

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If I masturbate right before sex with my wife and think of something else when we begin making out, then I can stay flacid and simulate to be impotent. Worked well for a while, unfortunately it did not make my wife start screwing the other guy as I thought.

Let us know how it works if you try this.

The woman counselor who I go to, put me on a higher dose of paxil. 40 mg. In a few days, my orgasms were a thing of the past. I would jerk my cock raw, and almost cum, but could not make it fire off. After awhile, I stopped jerking off. My wife thought it was funny that I had some very sore blue balls for a few weeks!

cutcuck
Hi
Thanks the reply and advice Paxil is a anti depressant have which I would need to get from a doctor here in the UK so a little differcult.

citamaprol or Duloxetine from your doctor, used for treating depression, anxiety and stress, did it for me

starflyer

Why not ruin His orgasm. My wife will hold her finger over my pee hole until I stop convulsing leaving my cum in me and preventing any enjoyment

than you still ejaculate, it only ends up in your bladder, instead of your tummy.
stupid questions dont exist...
stupid answers however....

luvpain
Yes thats true and not really what I am looking for.

hornylynne

brainbox1 has got the right idea, learn how to milk his prostate. It's a complete rip off as far as orgasms go. Approximately 25-30 percent of a man's ejaculate is prostate fluid....sperm actually only accounts for 2-5 percent. The pleasure is felt when he begins to throb and pulsate to release the ejaculate. When you milk his prostate he doesn't get any of that. He'll feel the start of an orgasm when you gently push on his prostate gland a few times but, then it just fizzles out and never really happens because he doesn't get any of the pleasure he normally gets from the throbbing as he squirts it out. In fact in order to get the fluid to come out, you have to manually milk it from his cock at the same time you're pushing on his prostate gland. You're in complete control when you do it and from out of no where his orgasm will begin to start....it's like turning on a switch...it starts instantly whether he was aroused or not. If I described the pleasure he normally gets to enjoy build until he explodes as going from 0 to 100 percent, then what he feels when you milk his prostate is like it starts off instantly at 25 percent and stays that way while you're milking him for a second or two and then it ends at that same level, instead of continuing build. There's no throbing because his body wasn't planning on cumming...you caught him off guard and powerd him to cum when you milked him so, it's not a normal oragsm...he didn't have a chance to get aroused like he normally would have. It's not only a fraction of the pleasure, he doesn't even get to feel it build up to that small fraction.

It kind of diminishes your desire to orgasm for awhile but, mosty because you got ripped off...it's annoying.....you don't get satisfied sexually. Since it sounds like that's what you want so, if he's going to be watching you with another man, do it right before your lover shows up...and don't waste any time doing it. Don't drag it out so that he can enjoy anticipating what's about to happen to him. Learn about how to do it some where on the Internet...you're suppose to use the same pressure as if you were pushing on an eyeball. Make it like a doctors visit, have some latex gloves and some lube hiding some where...put them on quick and lube a finger or two up on one hand and then make him stand facing the dresser or a table maybe. Tell him to spread his legs and put his hands on the table. After you do it once you'll see you can do it in a matter seconds if you want. Doing it that way, it will be like you're intentionally taking any fun out of it but, at the same time you'll actually be giving him the kind of mind fuck that a cuck lives for.

Believe it or not, use of an appropriate strap on dildo can produce surprising results, even with a chastity device in place. It can take some time, but it works.

DaniSubTV
Thank you this sounds interesting will see what I can find.
Would prefer not to have to do anything to him but will have a look.

hornylynne

I understand....this really works though without having to worry about finding a have that will really work and not have some kind of side effect you don't find out about until later. It's not as simple as having him take a pill but, since you can literally accomplish this in a few seconds so, it's close to doing nothing.

There was a hilarious scene in the movie Road Trip where a nurse at a sperm bank did it to Seann William Scott that I think made a lot of people aware of it that had never heard of it. It's a comedy so, although the procedure is done and explained accurately, his reaction to it is not...it's funny as hell though. Here's a YouTube link to it-

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I actually found out about it back in 1980 when I was 18 years old via a trip to the urologist because of a bladder infection I had. I had no idea it was about to happen.....I was standing there in one of the exam rooms wearing one of those stupid robes that are open in the back. As he was putting on a pair of gloves, he told me to turn around and then added one of those typical comments they usually say, that I would feel some slight pressure for a second or two. I figured he was just going to stick his finger up my butt like they sometimes do during a physical. No sooner than he did, it suddenly felt like I was starting to cum and then just as quickly he pulled his finger out to shuffle around in front of me and milk the fluid out of my cock on to a microscope slide. Then he hoped up and ran out the door with the slide in his hand, telling me he'll be back in a second. It happened so fast, I was still standing there wondering what the hell just happened.

It actually my second trip to the doctor for the infection. The first trip was to the family doctor who gave me some antibiotics to take but, like a stupid kid I didn't take them on schedule until they were gone so, the infection came right back. I didn't realize that was why when I went to make another appointment with my family doctor and I didn't mention it so, he sent me straight to the specialist instead.

So when the urologist returned to the exam room after looking at the slide under the microscope, he told me he didn't see anything and since I already had a round of antibiotics, he was probably going to need to do a cystoscopy. He said he was going to try one more round of a different antibiotic first though, just for the heck of it. I may have been a stupid kid but, I knew he was talking about a scope and since he was a urologist, it didn't take much to figure out what hole it would be going up when he used it. I took that second round of meds religiousy but, when I heard him say the word ''cystoscopy'', he got my attention and I think the infection flew out of my body at that exact moment the same way the devil left Linda Blair's body in the movie The Exorcist.

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Lynne,
Did you try finding paxil, or the generic on the internet? I can tell you it does exactly what your looking for, with no other real side effects. It stopped me from being able to orgasm, in less than two weeks. It's a known side effect of the have. My wife loved it and told all her freinds.

You can train him to be unable to come until you let him. I've had quite a bit of experience with this. To keep it brief, I don't fit either the "bull" or "cuck" roles. I'm married to a woman who does not have much of a libido, and I have lovers outside this relationship, most of whom are/have been married women. However, I don't dominate them (unless they request it), but am subtly on the submissive side. In one way I'm very submissive however; it is always all about the woman's pleasure (I'm very good at oral...). To that end I long-ago developed 100% control over my orgasms. I can go as long as the woman (sometimes women) desires without coming (no, I'm not big, just average, sorry). Anyway, one of my current lovers discovered that she likes being a bit dominant and she suggested taking this a step further (what she really wanted was for me to be unable to come with my wife, so that I would be extra full and hard for her the next day). It took a long time (several years), but eventually she managed to get me "trained" so that I can't come unless she says "you can come now". No other phrase will work (from what I've read it is important to choose a specific phrase). Even if she brings another woman along and we all make love, I can't come until I have permission from both of them. I also can't come with my wife. I can, however, come on my own with my hand with no difficulty (as long as I'm alone. I can't come this way in the presence of a woman). I don't know if it is possible to train that out, but maybe... If we have sex long enough and she never gives me permission I'll eventually "open up" and just leak everything into her without having an orgasm. It's amazing.

So, if that's the way you want to go; no devices; no haves; it can definitely be done. How exactly it will work with him I'm not sure. For me, it was a combination of me wanting to do this (the idea really turned me on), me wanting to be an even better lover, and her being very insistant. The consequences for coming without permission were such things as not being allowed to fuck her or even lick her for weeks at a time, being "angry fucked" and then left hard and dripping, etc. It worked like a charm (eventually). Good luck!