New to Chastity - Any suggestions???

Recently bought a CB-6000 and finally got around to trying it out with the girlfriend this weekend. She is not real dominant, but seems to enjoy trying out the dominant role.

Before putting it on, I tried using some of the baby oil gel around my balls and base of my cock to ease entry and prevent chaffing. I had read that on a website and it seemed to work pretty well.

Anyway, about the longest I had it on, was for about 12 hours, but probably a good 7 of that was during relax. I accidentally rolled onto my stomach in the middle of the night and when I woke up, it was really sore where the chastity rubbed my skin. I ended up taking it off for awhile and then trying later. Any ideas on how to get used to wearing it and what might be a "typical" break in pattern?

Also, I've noticed that when I'm naked of course, everything is fine. Nothing really pinches or anything. But when I'm dressed, I can get discomfort of pinching or being pressed the wrong way from clothing. Any suggestions for this?

Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!!!

#1 The correct testicle ring has to be found. I use the largest ring. The next size down cuts off circulation and is unsafe.

#2 Most of the guys seem to like silicone lube versus oil based. The problem with that is you can slip out from the main body of the unit if you are not have a large penis thickness when soft.

#3 Use ultra fine sandpaper to smooth any burrs or ridges in the unit from the manufacturing process. Don't sand the shiny flat surfaces or you are going to rub yourself raw from the rough plastic.

#4 Make sure you are using a spacer that is large enough to permit adequate red flow during the inevitable morning or excitement erections. Just because it is too tight does not mean it is more hard core. Long term wear IMO is about 5 days without release. The skin needs time to breathe and repair any chaffed areas.

#5 Once you figure out how to wear it properly when naked at home you can then find out how to wear it with clothes. Loose trousers with an untucked shirt front is best. Check out your side profile in a mirror to make sure you are not too obscene. Ask your mate if it is noticible under clothes. Drawing attention may seem like a good thing, but invisible under clothes is your best bet in the long run.

#6 If she is not interested in chastity you will lose interest. Let her know that the only way you can enjoy it is if she remembers to ask you to get in your CB when you have been difficult with her and such. Make sure you get a neck lanyard for the key so she can wear it under clothes comfortably while at work and such. The kind people use for ID/Door entry cards at work.

#7 Unexpected lock-ups. Tell her that a moments notice she can text or cell phone you to lock yourself up at home. If she left the key at home, put it in a large glass container (pyrex measuring cup works best) and once filled with water, freeze it with the key at the bottom. Then lock yourself up and send her a pic on the phone or computer with you in chastity and the key frozen.

#8 If it stops being fun, put it away in a drawer for a while and see if she mentions it again. If it is her idea, it will be a better time for both of you.

#9 Bring her to this site and others to let her know how many other women are using the CB's to control their mates. Women like to know that they are not the only one doing something in the bedroom. She does not want to be Hen Pecked by the female world for being 'different'.

PM me if you have any permisteral questions or need advice.

Go to Keptforher.com

Lots of great suggestions for cleaning and general care. Its run by a Christian couple (go figure) so it is clean and supportive with great advice for your wife (see the article titled "Why Chastity").

I hope to show it to my wife soon as well.

Wow, thanks for the great responses from both of you. Some great tips and I will definitely be checking that website out.

As for the girlfriend, she does seem interested just a bit shy about it and not really sure what to do with it. lol But I'm working on that.

Thanks again and any other suggestions are greatly appreciated.

Lock yourself up and give the keys to your wife in a wrapped present on Christmas morning.

I've had a CB6000 for two years, and I would definitely recommend you buy some good epoxy, because the cock cage will split (I've actually had two, and both split). Regarding extended wear, the longer I go, the more my wife likes it; I've gone a month without a release (you can with work keep everything clean in the shower), and four months with only monthly releases. About the chafing, after about 3 weeks I was fine with mine; she didn't have much sympathy, and I think it actually reduced the 'break-in' time. I started with the second largest ring, and have worked down to the second smallest ring. The most important thing is to watch when you have an erection. If your balls go blule, it's too tight, move up! You'll feel it too.

My wife has now progressed to filling her sexual needs outside of our marriage, and is out with her new beau presently. She is on her way home, and I know I'll have some cleaning up to do (darn the luck, huh!).

Remember that the clear or translucent polycarbonate gets brittle with age due to sunlight. Do not leave them out in the open when not in use. I have the chrome version of the cb-6000 which is a plated or dipped layer of silver over some grayish plastic underneath.

It seems to be much more sealed and less sharp to the touch on the edges than the clear polycarbonate versions we have tried. They did split like the other poster noted and were from the u.s. manufacturer directly.

I'm wondering if the polycarbonate is too expensive and giving them sealing problems and that is why the new chrome, wood and camo cb-6000's.