As a single guy, I believe that I have a duty to prepare myself so that when I meet the right girl, I will be able to make myself into the sissyboi that I know I am so that she will be more willing to take on a lover.
As part of this, I have purchased a CB-3000 chastity belt, which I like to wear occasionally while watching IR porn in order to build up my sense of sexual frustration (I've also read some things about extended wearing of chastity belts and penis shrinking, but I'm not sure if this is true - wish that it were though

). However, I feel like I may not be wearing it right, or may have bought a device with the wrong fit, and wanted to ask any of the bois here who are in chastity for some pointers.
My boiclit is not tiny (at least compared to many of the bois here); it is usually about 5.5" hard. It is pretty skinny though, about 1.4" in diameter, 4.4" in circumference. This is just to give everyone a bit of context.
What happens is that when I get excited in the device, my boiclit begins to pull on the belt, so that more of it comes through the back, and I essential ly get a "half-hardon" in the belt. I've tried using the smaller (#'s 4 and 5) rings, and have used all of the different center rod attachments, but I end up with the same result.
I'm wondering if I need to switch to the Curve belt based on my length, or if I need to buy a set of Points of Intrigue to keep myself from getting excited in the belt. Does anyone that is kept in chastity have any thoughts on this?
I'd also be interested in any advice folks have about getting rid of body hair, and the best ways to prevent all the itching and whatnot.
Thanks in advance for any suggestions you can give me...