what is happening to me?

it's nice to c that i'm not the only on that is going through this offense. there is so much i want to say to my wife but too ashamed. we went out as girls and the whole nite i was fondled and groped. i pretended it wasn't happening which was worse because the guys i guess saw it as a okay to be more daring....my wife doesn't know but i want to tell her that after that night, i've been dressing on my own.